If you always do what you’ve always done, you’ll always get what you’ve always got. -Henry Ford
Smart man….it’s insanity to do the same thing and expect different results.
The premise is, if you want something different out of your life you have to put something different into it. If we keep doing the same thing, we’ll keep getting the same thing.
Many of us, at times, play the woe is me card. Whatever it is. School, work, relationships, dating, etc.
This quote symbolizes stepping out of our comfort zone. Do something different and obtain something different. Do something uncomfortable, taking a new leap of faith, experimenting with risk.
How often do we wish for something and hope it will magically appear?
The reality is we have to work at it/for it. Sometimes that work is listening to ourselves, paying attention to what our gut is telling us. Sometimes we must take a risk, something that makes us nervous or afraid. Sometimes we have to stop hemming and hawing and commit to a decision.
If something still doesn’t work out for you, you can try again, and again and again! The world is your oyster if you want it to be!
In regards to relationships….. Are you not really giving yourself a chance, or giving your (potential) partner a chance? Do you need to reanalyze your “type?” Do you judge too quickly? Do you come up with excuses? Do you find yourself more comfortable at home alone in your jammies rather than putting yourself out there and meeting someone new?
I get the hurt of a failed relationship. I’ve been there, repeatedly. My fault, their fault….who cares? Why sulk or pout or rant or get bitter? It’s your life! Take the bull by the horns and make it what you want.
I’m sorry to say but there is another submissive or dominant out there. Get to know em BEFORE the frenzy, or in spite of it! Go out and look and fuck the past. Let it go and LIVE today!!
I realize I may be stepping on toes but I also realize that reality bites….so BITE back hard!!
