Punishment

Figging only hurts as long as the ginger is inserted. As soon as it's gone so is the sting. I don't think I would classify it as intense pain for me, but I play fairly hard and consider it more an ann ...

Wed May 01, 2024 7:18 am • 60 Replies • 6421 Views

Puppy!!

I'm a dog person. Like, a big one (currently sharing a bed with the Boss, 5 dogs, and a cat who thinks she's a dog). In addition to fur puppies I love skin puppies too. I hang out with a bunch of quee ...

Tue Apr 23, 2024 7:32 am • 6 Replies • 446 Views

D types as mentors

I 100% believe that like should mentor like. You can certainly learn from the other side of the slash but a mentorship is too intimate and vulnerable to risk the kind of power dynamics that could come ...

Sat Mar 30, 2024 6:58 am • 23 Replies • 1383 Views

Kink education

Education has been around in the kink community forever (De Saade?? European houses? Leather clubs?) and I truly believe there is no such thing as too much education/too many classes. There are a lot ...

Fri Mar 29, 2024 7:45 am • 14 Replies • 822 Views

Question For The Alphas Out There

The only time I've ever taken the qualifier "alpha" seriously is in the context of rank in multi-partner relationships, or puppy packs. I've served in a position that was technically an "alpha sub" po ...

Sat Mar 16, 2024 9:15 pm • 126 Replies • 6727 Views

Collar Stories

Let me tell you what not to do.

During my first visit to Djinni we went to a local leather store to buy a collar. I was smitten and all discombobulated cause we were surrounded by leather and we p ...

Mon Feb 26, 2024 9:45 am • 8 Replies • 799 Views

Long Distance

Communicate, but if someone wants "the next level"---- someone will have to relocate.

I'm not so sure about this (and I'm not being argumentative- I'm genuinely curious) because I think that depend ...

Sun Feb 11, 2024 7:36 am • 8 Replies • 501 Views

Long Distance

For sure. I'd never had a truly successful LDR till this one and we had to work at it. I think expectation setting was really important too. It was hard knowing that I had to make sure to have suppor ...

Sun Feb 11, 2024 1:38 am • 8 Replies • 501 Views

Long Distance

Communicate communicate communicate.

I met my partner here and she ended up moving across the country to be with me. Those 11 months were so hard.

It sounds like you're comfortable with the po ...

Sun Feb 11, 2024 1:10 am • 8 Replies • 501 Views

In Need of Explanation or Education

Show me a man who claims to be dominant and I'll show you one that's all up in FemDomme's PMs begging to be pegged.

Generalizations are fun.

Tue Feb 06, 2024 9:37 pm • 36 Replies • 2333 Views