Authenticity

Thanks all for your viewpoints. On with business as usual. His "authentic" version of how-i-should-be would have nothing to do with who I am.

Men and their fantasies often leave no room for actual ...

Sat Jun 15, 2024 7:40 pm • 19 Replies • 1071 Views

Subs with mental illness

Most people that have mental illness in this community do so usually for one of 2 reasons. 1. They have been abused by someone in a previous relationship whether it’s romantic, or a family member or a ...

Sat Jun 15, 2024 7:22 pm • 14 Replies • 323 Views

Subs with mental illness

Everyone has mental illness. It’s part of life. Some of it transient and other mental illness is permanent. It isn’t specific to gender or title. I know several cis male D types on this site with ment ...

Sat Jun 15, 2024 4:17 am • 14 Replies • 323 Views

Turn offs in new conversations

Since this thread appears to have been revived (even if only a bit), another one that has popped up recently in my interactions that seems ridiculous to me:

"I'm looking to build an empire."

Thi ...

Fri Jun 14, 2024 10:51 am • 92 Replies • 13424 Views

Question for submissives relating protective tendencies and being in a dynamic

Trying to stand up for someone there days is exactly what the phrase fits the following phrase perfectly.
''No good deed goes unpunished!''

Protectiveness is the base for what is behind someone ...

Thu Jun 13, 2024 7:23 am • 12 Replies • 406 Views

Gave Up Sub/Dom Relationship-Feel Lost

Roughandtumbler

*. My husband, to his credit, had tried to be a dom in our marriage but is not naturally suited for if and it just isn’t the same for me.*

I do not know how long you were in said ...

Mon Jun 10, 2024 5:02 am • 13 Replies • 373 Views

Clingy Subs

Thank you for your contribution simplylaura. I was actually expecting some of you professionals to speak up and so you have fulfilled my expectations.

If I were to answer my own question, I would h ...

Fri Jun 07, 2024 11:23 pm • 54 Replies • 1974 Views

Clingy Subs

I personally always love Lambsone's posts because they stir the shit, and I can feast on drama like a raccoon.

But really, let's step back for a moment. Lambsone is a bit old-school, and some of y ...

Fri Jun 07, 2024 11:15 pm • 54 Replies • 1974 Views

Clingy Subs

I personally feel there is a distinct difference between being clingy and being desired.

From experiences within my own dynamic. I have discovered that my clingyness was a root cause of my anxious ...

Fri Jun 07, 2024 7:17 pm • 54 Replies • 1974 Views

Clingy Subs

Throw her in the laundry with some fabric softener and Snuggle cling-free dryer sheets. There you go - "problem" solved.


I prefer GAIN, damnit. 😳🙄☺️

Fri Jun 07, 2024 4:58 pm • 54 Replies • 1974 Views