Random thoughts and encouragement

18 hours ago. Thu 14 Dec 2017 09:43:07 PM IST


With all of these perfume and cologne commercials on because of Christmas, that make no sense whatsoever, shouldn't there be a BDSM perfume? 


Enter girl on beach, with a bikini and collar ... 

"Master, ropes, excite me, excite you" 

looks back, reaches for her collar, sighs and says "Orgasm Noir" 

cue the close-up of a perfume bottle made of black leather and lace with a clit as the spray button. 



(Now....let me think of a male BDSM cologne...hmmmm....)




- never lose your laugh-

4 days ago. Mon 11 Dec 2017 03:34:07 PM IST




She's not stumbling, she's not lost. She's simply romancing her inner animal and falling in love with the wild part of her soul.

-Melody Lee, Moon Gypsy

4 days ago. Mon 11 Dec 2017 06:37:38 AM IST

We are all Cotton headed ninny muggins at times. 


"Son of a Nutracker" is my new favorite phrase. 


Syrup goes on everything, though I prefer chocolate syrup.  (dirty thought) 


Santa Claus IS real. 


I don't need a daily planner, an etch a sketch works just fine. 


South pole elves are very crabby. 


Buddy brings out the child in everyone  : )  which they all need.


Enthusiasm and wonder never grow old. 


and..."Smiling is my favorite".







 - never lose your laugh-

5 days ago. Sat 09 Dec 2017 11:44:55 PM IST

Sometimes the one that encourages needs encouraging and a reason to laugh.  

Well, no, I always find something to laugh about.  Thank goodness! 


It all boils down to say what you mean and mean what thou say. <<<speaking of laughing,  autocorrect continues to change you to thou.  Auto correct and I have been having quite a time lately.  It's always good to argue with inanimate objects,  they never answer back... until auto correct.... whatever.  Lol. 



So... anyway,  minor distraction.


A little encouragement goes a long way. 


I've been encouraged today and it is greatly appreciated.  


Have you encouraged your Dom/sub, or fellow person lately? 



1 week ago. Thu 07 Dec 2017 12:06:40 PM IST


Be the one that encourages others to dare. 

They need stories to tell,  passion in their lives, mischeviousness and "forbidden" laughter in their  souls. 

AKA soul food

*feed your soul*










- never lose your laugh -

1 week ago. Tue 05 Dec 2017 12:50:22 AM IST

I remember the nights he came to me, with alcohol on his breath, his heart broken by yet another another girl. Just one look in his eyes and I didn't care. I melted.
As he made me laugh and my heart beat with life, his smile, his smell, his insistence of looking me in the eyes, I felt like I was the only person in his world.
He was my first love and still one of my best friends.

I remember the day my daughter was born. I don't believe there was ever a more beautiful baby girl in the entire universe. Big eyes staring at me, soft fuzzy brown hair, I hated giving her back to the nurses. But, they had their job and I had mine, as I proceeded to tell every hospital worker on the way back to my room, that I loved them so much...with a smile and sparkle in my eyes, because... iv drugs. ;)

I remember my children's first laugh. Like wind chimes dancing on the wind.
There really is nothing more precious and contageous as a child's laugh. I could sit on a beach all day with my eyes closed just listening to children play.

This is what Christmas is to me. All of life's magical moments wrapped up into glittering,  colorful, joyful lights and even more lights, (can there really be too many lights)?  Music and the spirit of giving.

Just like the book The Polar Express, Christmas is in your heart. I know I can still hear the bell from Santa's sleigh.  I actually have one.  

Can you? Listen carefully....



- never lose your laugh -


1 week ago. Mon 04 Dec 2017 04:17:16 PM IST

It's a Three Amigos, What About Bob, Dirty Rotten Scoundrels kind of day....

1 week ago. Fri 01 Dec 2017 08:43:49 PM IST

Sometimes even the bravest hearts lose their laugh for a bit. Just for a bit..   


How can you tell? It's in their eyes.  Always.  


But it comes back,  I promise. 

Brave hearts always find their sparkle and glow, no matter where they lost it. 




- never lose your laugh - 





2 weeks ago. Thu 30 Nov 2017 09:08:51 PM IST

She stopped believing in magic and everywhere she looked she saw black and white.  

The dullest of eyes, smiles lost, hope gone, pure silence. 

She fell on her knees, with her head in her hands. 

She felt a leaf fall, felt the breeze change, heard the music of nature surround her. 

She smiled, looked up and thought.....that was a long minute not to believe in magic!! ;) 








- never lose your laugh-

2 weeks ago. Tue 28 Nov 2017 12:10:49 AM IST

-Oh, you've already put up your Christmas Tree?  Thats nothing! I'm already drunk for St Patrick's Day!!! 





full disclosure: my Christmas tree is already up...now onto St Patty's Day 😂🍻🍺







-never lose your laugh-