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The General Musings of a Sane Madman

Follow me on my journey through life, love, a mild addiction to Cherry Coke, and possibly even BDSM. This may be a bumpy ride. Hold on tight!
1 year ago. January 6, 2023 at 2:20 AM

Happy New Year, my favorite and loyal ready! I hope your year is off to an amazing start! If not, fix it!! If you can’t, do it anyway? Sure!

 

This post is about a couple random changes I’ve made recently. The first you may have noticed already. I finally made the change to Dom instead of a switch. 

What brought that on, you may be asking. Well, over the holidays, I was being pulled and torn in every possible direction except the one I wanted to go in. I had no control over it, and I just had to go with what I was told. I hated it! I had no freedom of choice, no say in the matter, and no happiness. 

I know there are so many more aspects of being a sub, but I realized I don’t like having my freedom stripped away. That’s not for me. It was a weird feeling that hit me in the middle of a Walmart, but it was freeing.

 

So now I’m full on Dom. It feels right. Like this is where I belonged all along. Hell to the yeah!!

 

The second update I made was to my profile. I finally updated parts of it! It’s been almost a year since I made any changes, so it was time.

 

Overall, pretty minor post tonight, but I wanted to share the updates! There’s a chance I have a weird and wacky post in the works though. I gotta give you something to laugh at, right? And bonus points if the laughter is only at my blog and not when I take off my pants!

SirsBabyDoll​(sub female){Pizza+☕} - Awwww, sorry to say but Hanna still considers your her bitch...er, I mean territory...🤣🤣🤣

Anywho, all kidding aside, you still need to work on your profile. From here down you need to rework:

"After talking to the first friend I made on this site, I realized I may be more of a switch. And that’s where I ended up for the bulk of the first couple years of my time here."

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Cozubia​(dom male){She’s Mine} - Lol Hanna? I’m almost afraid to ask lol

So I need to rework the entire second half?? Damnit!!
1 year ago
SirsBabyDoll​(sub female){Pizza+☕} - Oh another note, I wish we lived closer. I'd LOVE to hang out with you and be best buds and all that. I think it's be hysterical!
1 year ago
Cozubia​(dom male){She’s Mine} - I bet we could get into all kinds of trouble! I already know you’re a bad influence, so it would have to be fun!
1 year ago
moll​(other female){owned slav} - Do I get points for knowing who Hanna is?
1 year ago
Cozubia​(dom male){She’s Mine} - Lol Three and a half points to you! Because someone has to!
1 year ago
moll​(other female){owned slav} - Only 3 1/2? Stingy! Oh well...times are tough and I'll accept. Thank you.
1 year ago
Cozubia​(dom male){She’s Mine} - Well, 3.5 points is almost enough to get a new TV. Points are valuable!
1 year ago
moll​(other female){owned slav} - But I want a car. WHAAAA! Sorry....I've been reading something SBD wrote on brats and I may have accidentally invoked her bratness.
1 year ago
Cozubia​(dom male){She’s Mine} - A car would be 25! You’re getting there! Her brattitude is contagious lol
1 year ago
moll​(other female){owned slav} - Well...since I am on my way to 25 points...I will try to be content and try to purge the the brattitude from my system....but it won't be easy. SBD has wicked powers.
1 year ago
moll​(other female){owned slav} - Odd...most people I have met that consider themselves "switch" end up being submissives. Although...I still balk at the concept of someone being able to switch between Dom and sub. I have slave friends that have to dominate another, a beta sub, but it's only in service to the Master....to make sure the household runs smoothly. Switching between sadist and masochist is more of a thing because there are those who enjoy both giving and getting pain. Of course there are those dominants that are also masochists and submissives that are sadists. Dominant or submissive is more of a personality trait and Top or bottom is about whether or not one enjoys giving or receiving pain....or both. Anyway...there's my 4 cents.

But...it's good to see you found what really works for you....always the best to be one's true self.
1 year ago
Cozubia​(dom male){She’s Mine} - Thank you for the 4 cents! I really appreciate it. You make some very good points. There are so many cation any given role based on the person and dynamic. It’s part of the beauty of the lifestyle in my opinion!
1 year ago
I'mME - A sub does not give up all their freedoms, have no choices, .....You always can negotiatez not sure where you got the notion that it's all the Doms way or the highway. That's why you spend time getting to know another person before jumping into something (IMO) which is born out by all the dynamics that start strong and fizzle.
If you enjoy music, rhn a Dom who didn't may not be the best person for you, things like that.
By your description your partner and you were not compatible and I'm sorry.
I hope you don't plan to treat a sub as you were treated.

Switches come in all shapes sizes and with different things behind their Switch. Others don't have to embrace Switches but neither should they insult Switches.

Kink, BDSM, D//s, the beauty of these is that people can do what they do w/9 others having to approve or disapprove.
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