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The Lioness fell down the rabbit hole.

Cat curiosity has Me following the scent of the rabbit. Wonder what I will find in this burrow?
15 hours ago. Nov 26, 2020, 7:55 PM

Hope everyone has a safe and happy thanksgiving

1 week ago. Nov 19, 2020, 11:47 PM

I was curious as to what the other kinky folk would think about this. 

Being collared but not part of a dynamic?


Edit (again) for clarity -

There is a couple, one is a Dominant and the other is not involved in the lifestyle. But they want to collar each other, having nothing to do with the lifestyle. 

1 week ago. Nov 19, 2020, 9:03 PM

I am curious as to how others would handle this situation, the s/s being the higher educated one in the dynamic? 

1 week ago. Nov 19, 2020, 6:25 AM

Every s/s that has contacted me on here or FetLife, never works out. 

I get ghosted without a reason, within hours/usually a week ish.

That is why my profile looks like it does and says what it does, hopefully to find the two right s/s for me. It is blunt and honest. 

I keep talking to people who message me with interest because one has to keep getting in the saddle, but I no longer get excited or hold my breath. 

3 weeks ago. Nov 1, 2020, 8:35 AM

It was cold, I was excited. We were in line. 

It was going to be awesome. I love horror movies and he had surprised me with tickets to Texas Chainsaw Massacre!


We seattled into our seats after grabbing popcorn and drinks.


As the lights fell, he placed his hand on my round stomach to feel her kick. 




Oh the memories of Halloween!

4 weeks ago. Oct 29, 2020, 8:14 AM

I am extremely exhausted with the bullshit of being ghousted by s/s types. 

No one has last two weeks of full daily contact. If you cant even do that why would I agree to own you?

Is Arizona void of s types?

4 weeks ago. Oct 28, 2020, 12:19 PM

Today is my birthday.

4 weeks ago. Oct 28, 2020, 12:08 PM

I have seen this term before but never quite understood it. Until tonight.

I finally looked it up. 


I realized that my ex was doing this to me for 8 years! Unfortunately he was also using mental health medication (my "doctor" put me on whatever he said).

I spent 5-6 years believing I was so terrible, so horrible, to be around that I required medication for anyone to WANT to be around me. That no one would put up with me like he did, because he "loved"  me. That I should be grateful for him. 

The day I left him (June 26, 2016) was that last time I let anybody dictate my mental health to me. I had quit the meds a week before, I have not been back on them and I feel amazing. I finally feel like ME.

Everything he told me I would never have, I have achieved:

"You will never travel" - I have lived in another state since then. Drove 1300 miles ON MY OWN. First road trip on my own.

"You will never have a job" - I have held a job for almost three years.

"You will never have a license or own a vehicle" - I have a driver's license, I have a vehicle. I have actually owned two.

"No one will love you or put up with you like I do" - I am loved and adored by my husband. 


It's amazing how standing up and walking away (finally) can be EXACTLY what is needed to kick start your life. 

1 month ago. Oct 14, 2020, 6:17 AM

Geez, will someone please make it mandatory that you at least have to spend a few minutes on the profile before you are allowed to contact the person??

1 month ago. Oct 10, 2020, 7:37 AM

Who was the bright one that thought that saying their mattress/pillow was BREATHEABLE??

When I put my face in it to muffle the screams, I can't breathe very well!

Maybe I should write the company and tell them of this fasle advertising!?