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3 years ago. November 19, 2020 at 9:47 PM

I was curious as to what the other kinky folk would think about this. 

Being collared but not part of a dynamic?

 

Edit (again) for clarity -

There is a couple, one is a Dominant and the other is not involved in the lifestyle. But they want to collar each other, having nothing to do with the lifestyle. 

KingDom​(dom male) - The explanation does not explain the situation well and lacks the details needed to give targeted feedback, I suggest you re-word your question.
3 years ago
Bunnie - Although it is kind of confusing to me, considering how mainstream some aspects of BDSM are nowadays, it doesn’t surprise me. People take parts from anything they like and make it their own, so this seems no different. If you look at what a collar means to most people here, they liken it to a wedding ring... so from that perspective I can understand where they’re coming from. If it works for them, it’s not necessary for others to understand.
3 years ago
TheWhorelock​(dom male) - Comment deleted by poster.
3 years ago
TheWhorelock​(dom male) - The truth is collaring isn’t treated as the kind of ceremony it was in kinky ages past anymore. People rarely even understand the history of it, and there aren’t communities of Leather people available to the vast majority of us that could make the impact of such a thing so powerfully real.

If this couple wants to wear collars and have a like, personal significance to it... ok. It might behoove them to know a bit about the history of the culture before they do though, or they may end up making fools of themselves if they ever go into public kinky spaces.
3 years ago
OraclePollon​(sub female){NotYours} - this doesn't really make sense to me... if you are collared... you are doing a "lifestyle" thing. That is like saying "I want to have butt sex, but I don't want to do anal." Just because you deny something... doesn't mean you aren't doing it... so it makes no sense. If it is just for scenes, then fine, but if she is wearing a collar full time, sorry chika... you are in a dynamic, of some sorts at least... also you are with a self proclaimed Dom... maybe you are just confused... I feel like it is me who is confused... did I just get dumber?
3 years ago

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