I was about 15 when I know I was not like other people and 17 when I was told that I was born to be a Dominant. And had a wonderful Domme who helped that's another blog . But the things she showed my and how to address a new submissive into the scene . When I started back in the Kate 60s it was all hidden a secret society where we wear jewellery for the ladies and certain items for the men . We actually talked and had to have trust and honesty built in the dynamics again another blog .
I have noticed now days and especially that stupid book came out lots of people started calling themselves Dominants , I have also noticed and talked with a lot iffm new submissives in the scene and all day the same things . It not only happens in the cage but other sites as well as soon as a lady or girl say the are very new they are jumped on and being told you will send naked pics or you will obey me and what I say . And the big one I own you now you can't leave me (that's a joke), in fact until the give the Dom Thier control and submission they can do whatever they like .
But new sub don't know this and do as they are told and then not long into this do called one way dynamic they are broken and hurt some leave to never return and the rest are scarred and very non trusting with Doms . Makes it hard for Doms that have good intentions,. It new submissives have the right to ask questions at the start it's called vetting very important it helps build the trust up and also gives her a idea iff what the Dom is . It is something thst can not be rushed into as it is a big call to be in a dynamic.
