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1 day ago. September 27, 2022 at 11:53 AM

A lot of people like the idea of something but few actually like that something. 

It even shows here. Lots of people like the idea of a bdsm type of relationship but few actually follow through with it.

Is it just me or do others see it as well? 

2 days ago. September 26, 2022 at 11:50 AM

I hear that term alot and really wonder if people do the bdsm thing 24/7 or just when home.

Some experience with me and the world is that people can have more than 1 interest and not have that interest define them. 

For example I ride a motorcycle alot. But I am not defined by that simple act and my life is not all about riding motorcycles. I do have other hobbies and interests. 

Or am I missing something that I am supposed to get? 

2 days ago. September 25, 2022 at 1:49 PM

I have always been submissive. As far back as I could remember I was. I was a shy kid and even as an adult I am soft spoken and have a relaxed personality.

But there is Something about a strong woman (physical, emotional and mentally) has always turned me on, just like a woman that knows what she wants. There was even a few times when a woman walked up to me and told.me she was taking me home and I was instantly turned on. 

Through out the years when dating a couple of girlfriends made the comment about wanting me to be more dominant. After that it just seemed forced or fake. 

There was even a girl I dated for a few months that recognized my nature and took control. She taught me a few things and I became her little sub. 

Then back to the dating scene and the same cycle. A couple more be more dominant comments.

Then I was taken advantage of.  So I left the dating and relationships for a while and tried to focus on my career. Then it happened again. I was sexually assaulted. 

So I withdrew again. Only 4 people know about this and I became super cautious. Very guarded. 

I finally met a good woman who was a great friend as well a lover. She was very good for me and we explored a lot together. She had a health scare and dumped me and moved back home.

Then things career things started to happen and I was pushed into management roles. That's when I started to notice the dominant side start to surface. A little here and there. But it wasn't until a couple of years ago that it really came out. 

Covid hit and I had to change careers and then it even came out more. It was weird.  I had a couple of moments when it was as if I was standing besides myself watching me. 

But I wonder if my changing is because of request, requirement, or nature. 

This is my conundrum.

3 days ago. September 25, 2022 at 10:56 AM

I have seen a few personals where people describe themselves as bossy. 

That always reminds me of a saying I hear in the professional world: "It's easy to be bossy, but it's hard to be a boss."

5 days ago. September 23, 2022 at 11:43 AM

I have seen a lot of postings where people talk about limits and pushing them. For some people those limits are hard lined because of things that have happened to them in the past. Sometimes traumatic, others are repressed, and some have had that trust violated. So please listen when some one says what their limits are. Everyone has them. 

6 days ago. September 22, 2022 at 11:24 AM

How I love to see her tied up beneath me. Her body glistening with sweat. The pleasure we both feel, the bond that we have, and the connection we share. The many other things we share with each other. 

But today she makes me wear the stockings and heals and pegs me and I am reminded about how it feels to submit. 

1 week ago. September 21, 2022 at 12:04 PM

What if I am just missing the intimacy and connection with a person instead of missing the pleasures of the flesh? 

After all any one can run a jack hammer but not everyone is a Don Juan.