Into the Void

flitter'fly​(sub female) - Never Give Up
If everyone gives up who is made to feel this way.
Then I Have no point in continuing to live.
And I will NEVER GIVE UP, MYSELF
so keep on keeping on. There has got to be someone compatable somewhere. And when we least expect it.
HD strong.
You are worth bei.g picky over and for. Just like the rest of us.

vasubmama - Thanks, but i've never had a man give a flying fuck about me, so why at 56 do i think it will happen now. My mother's father loved me, but he's been gone for over 30 years. My father used to love me, but he's going into dementia/Alzheimer's. That's the full list. There is nobody else.

The Kinky Poet​(other male) - Never say never I pray the person who you need finds you soon. There's nothing wrong with you
BE STRONG BE BEAUTIFUL AND BE YOU
I hope you find him soon
Love and light T.K.P xx

vasubmama - i do sincerely appreciate the kind words.

The Kinky Poet​(other male) - Sending hugs and stuff across the void
Never settle for less than you deserve, knowing your worth isn't being picky, uts being true to yourself
Love and light T.K.P xxx

vasubmama - Actually, there is no more self-worth.

The Kinky Poet​(other male) - I pray you find it soon
Love and light T.K.P x

iamstarlightsss​(sub female) - I know what it’s like to feel hopeless. I know what it’s like to feel as if there is no one on this planet that’s for me, that will understand me. I won’t tell you anything you haven’t already heard before. But what I will say, is go easy on yourself. You matter. Your feelings also matter. If you have no one else, you will always you. So take care of yourself, your heart, and your mind. I’m here if you’d like to talk 💛

Voldemort​(dom male) - I totally understand your feelings and why you've said those words.
Sometimes it seems like it's better to give up than risk being hurt again, isn't it?

Earlbond - Never give up never surrender

fluffypoppet​(sub female){Protected} - Taking a step back isn’t a bad idea. When you find the things you love about yourself, you’ll more easily find someone else who is capable of seeing and loving those things too. And, there is a lot to appreciate about you.
- you have cool personal interests
- you are incredibly kind and helpful
- you have beautiful people in your life that you value.

But, if you focus on enjoying the community and learning and growing on your own it can be very satisfying and safe way to try to heal a hurt heart.

I’m so sorry that you’re hurting. 🤗🤗🤗

Apkrodite​(sub female){ForeverHis} - Thai is so sad to read. It brings back raw memories of where I was over 2 years ago now. I gave myself one more week of chatting then I'm throwing in the towel. Then out from no where i bumped into my Sir on here and began a special journey with him. It's so painful I know but please don't give up you deserve your happiness and contentment and I have faith you will find it. Much love is sent your way 🌷🙏❤️😘

vasubmama - Thank you. Your "Happy-Ever-After" sounds like how I met my "Master." However, i wasn't good enough for Him either.

Apkrodite​(sub female){ForeverHis} - I was far from good enough for anyone, well that's what I thought with so many things failing all the time. But I was finally seen by someone who didn't judge on being good enough, training would help that. My submission and my heart was finally seen. Yours will be too 🙏🌷🥰

vasubmama - Thanks for the positive thoughts and words.

ButterfliesAndCuffs​(sub female) - I’m so sorry to hear that it didn’t work out. I believe there is someone out there that will see you for the amazing woman and submissive that you are. I know how it feels to feel hopeless. Take some time to focus on yourself. Find comfort in your friends. When your heart is healed, try letting someone in again but with caution.

vasubmama - I wish I could take your advice. I don't have friends. I go to work. I return to the house. Sometimes, my daughter and I will do things together. Every once in a truly rare blue moon, my father and I will get something to eat at a restaurant. I don't go anywhere alone. I don't do anything alone. Instead, I sit in the house.

ButterfliesAndCuffs​(sub female) - Start doing things alone! I started dating myself after my divorce. I took myself out to dinner, bought myself presents, went to the movies alone if no one wanted to go. It was a little weird at first but then it got better.
And you do have lots of friends. Maybe we’re not local friends that you can hang out with easily in person, but we’re still your friends. 💜

vasubmama - The thought of going out alone literally makes me nauseated. And, I do think of y'all as my sub sisters! Sometimes, I just need the actual physical touch of a hug.

Vacquero one​(dom male) - Don’t you ever quit. Don’t ever give up. It is sooo hard but do what you can. It will be enough.

juliankay - BULLSHIT!-
never settle - it is that Dom in name only's loss - It's important to remember that everyone has unique qualities and worth, and self-doubt can often cloud our perception of ourselves....glad you DID not FALL for this! - HELD your head HIGH!