3 weeks ago. Sat 27 Apr 2019 05:20:24 PM IDT
If you are looking for someone to blame for my writings, you should start with T slave or SCG. T encouraged me to write my first blog and SCG encouraged me to write from the heart from a Dom's perspective. I am not a perfect person and certainly not a perfect Dom. There are too many wonderful and amazing submissives here that could attest to the contrary. But am I a terrible person? Since this is my blog, let me help you with that question. The answer is no, I am not a terrible person. Yet, often I get a new sub to ask me why they are such a terrible person or worse, openly admit that they are terrible and worthless. The obvious first question is how are you convinced that you are so bad? The answer is almost always, "My Dom said that I was". As Doms, we all have different styles and comfort levels. We teach and guide differently. But of the experienced Doms that I know, each uses three simple guidelines, to teach, guide and protect their submissives. I have not seen one tear her down in the course of her training.
When I get these subs that are convinced that they are terrible people and submissives, I give them the "Terrible Person Test" and ask the following questions...
1. THIS WEEK... have you killed anybody? (To keep the test relevant, previous murders don't count)
2. THIS WEEK... have you robbed a bank?
3. THIS WEEK... have you stabbed or maimed anyone?
When they fail the short version, I give them the more advanced test. Yes, I say failed because we are trying to prove what their Dom has told them is true, that they are in fact the terrible person that he says that they are.
The Advanced Terrible Person Test...
4. Have you kicked a puppy?
5. Have you pushed grandma over in her wheelchair?
6. When the cute little Boy Scout was helping the elderly person cross the street, did you rush out to trip him?
7. Did you steal the Girl Scout's cookie money?
I'm afraid that there is no time restriction on kicking puppies or pushing over grandma.
The answer is always a resounding NO! Then I inform them that they have failed the Terrible Person Test. That in fact, they are not a terrible person. I also go on to inform them of one other thing...
Their Dom is an asshole.
Many submissives have been abused sexually, physically and emotionally. Many have been raped and have suffered emotional and physical trauma. They have been convinced all their lives that they are worthless and yet, the thought of kicking a puppy is too much. Then the once charming and wonderful "dom" now tells them that they are a terrible person. There is really only one logical conclusion to that...
You are NOT a terrible person! You are in fact an incredible woman and amazing submissive. You have so much to give, so much to offer. You have so much affection, service and attention to give to a Dom who truly appreciates you for what you are, amazing!
So let's review...
YOU are NOT a terrible person.
YOU ARE AMAZING!