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Anal Sex.....
  I want to first say that all you men out there that just shove your cock into some poor girls ass or some boys ass with out lube. That you are all ass wholes. People think you just dive right in are sadly mistaken and can do a lot of damage. There should be some play with lube and some stretching done before full penetration. Also all lubes are not the same. Some lubes are not made for anal sex. So do your research and find a lube that works for you.
  Ok so you have found a lube you trust and like. Now where to go from here? Well you want to first decide how you want to do this. If you want a more clean experience it is recommended the receiver gives them self a enema or two. This will allow the bowls to remove most of the poop that may be in your ass. How ever if you just wish to get down to business that is fine to. Its really up to you.
 Ok here we go. first of all for a first time there is no such thing as to much lube. What you want to do to lube the ass whole on the outside and lube two of your fingers really well. Then you want to take your finger and slowly work your way into the ass whole. Don't be afraid to add more lube as needed. Once you have a finger in there try to work two in. This may not all happen in one night. All depends on personal preference.  
 Once you have worked two fingers in and your partner is convertible with two finger moving in and out of there ass you can move on to a plug. Again taking your time and slowly working your way inside. Once you can get a plug inside and your partner is convertible with the plug have them move around with the plug in. This is important cause when you are inside and pumping your penis or dildo in and out it is going to stretch the anus. A plug is a good way to get your anus use to this. They do sell anal training kits. They are rubber. However I recommend you buying a glass dildo. Small in size and worth the $20.00 you will spend on it.
  Finally its time to have anal sex. Once your partner has done and is ok with all of the above they should be ready for your hard cock or dildo. Remember though for the first couple of times you want to use lube. After awhile your partner may want to try with out lube. Its not for everyone.

  Very Important......
When you are first doing anal you may have some bloody discharge after. This will happen in the begging of the anal process and can continue all the way to penis/ Dildo incretion. It is important to as always give after care. If your partner has bloody discharge it should be minute and you should give them a few days to heal or till there is no longer pain. You can still train with a glass dildo after light bleeding but not recommended you use rubber. MOST IMPORTANT if you have a large amount of bloody stool, you don't stop bleeding, or you are in immense pain. Go to the E.R. you may have ruptured something. You do not want to bleed to death. 

Well hope this has been helpful. All you kinky people stay kinky out there and don't be afraid to ask questions.
  Master Richard 
1 week ago. Fri 08 Nov 2019 07:58:24 PM IST

Hey everyone. 

  If you should have a question or a topic you would like me to blog about let me know. You can ether comment here or send me a message. I am always happy to educate and share my knowledge.

1 year ago. Tue 19 Dec 2017 11:12:07 PM IST

After Care.
     I hope to explain to people on here and in general the importance of after care. Whether you are a seasoned Master/ Dom or you are brand new at this and just starting to explore kink, BDSM, or fetishes.

Everyone Responds Differently.
         Everyone responds to pain, punishment, anal play, and other things differently. Some may not seem to be hurting emotionally/ Physically in the moment. Some do show slight signs of discomfort. This is why it is always important to do after care. After care can also include clean up and hygiene. I will try to cover all of these. 

Physical /Emotional.
         Afterword make sure to tell your slave/sub that you do love and care for them. Also show you love and care. Cuddle, talk about the experience, and discuss how you might do things differently. Yes it is A Master/ Dom relations ship, kink, or a fetish. But in that there needs to be care and love other wise its just abuse. What might not seem like a big deal to you might be a huge deal to the person being affected. So try to keep an open mind. I also recommend for new people to have a safe word that they can call out during play that means stop. 

Clean Up/ Hygiene.
         Sometimes clean up is necessary. Now some Master/ Dom will have the sub/ slave do clean up. However depending on if this is your first time or how the act affects you. They may not be able to do clean up by themselves.  It doesn't hurt for the first few times you help in clean up. Whether that be a shower, cleaning toys, or even just brushing your teeth. Also it is important after doing some sexual act that you do shower, brush, or even duchie. This will help to avoid infection. That being said if you are into extreme knife play or blood play bandages may be in order. 

Well I hope this was helpful for who ever needs it. Stay kinky my fellow kink stirs and if you have any questions feel free to ask.
                                                                          Master Richard

1 year ago. Tue 19 Dec 2017 11:10:42 PM IST

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Lubes..... 
  I want to tell you people about lubes. This is important cause a lot of people use lubes wrong. That or they thing there is one magical lube for everything. There're many types of lubes like flavored, warming, anal, and even candy. I am going to cover all of these lubes for you.

 Flavored Lubes. 
   First if you have any food allergies makes sure you read the labels. Some come in artificial flavored and some do not. Also when picking one make sure it will work for what your looking to do. If you are wanting anal flavored lube for rimming make sure its ok for that. I always say better safe than sorry, there are no dumb questions, and research. Flavored lube are wonderful fun for blow jobs, kissing, and even rimming. They also come in spray, cream, and lube. So do your research people and ask questions.

 Warming/ Tingling 
   Ok first let me say they have come up with some amazing stuff for warming and tingling over the years. That being said things you want to look out for. First read labels some say for external use only, some say not for people with sensitive skin, and some say may cause rash/hives. Lets be smart if you have sensitive skin you probable don't want a warming lube. You might want to stick to tingling and even then try some on your are or lib first. That way you know it wont burn the shit out of your privates, or make you break out in hives. Also again with warming and tingling I wouldn't put it on or near your anus unless it says its ok for that. No one wants a flaming but whole. Also it is good to find out if its long lasting or not. You don't want to be having a quickie in the morning and go to work still hat/ tingling.

Anal Lube  
  Now I know what your thinking duh I need to use anal lube for the anus. Well you be surprised how many think all lubes are for your anus. The fact is they are not and you could get sick or even die from toxic shock. Your anal cavity can absorb things much faster then swallowing something. Also there are different kinds of anal lube. There is water saleable, silicone based, or petroleum based. If you have allergies again do your research. Also different lubes feel differently so don't be afraid to try a couple till you find one you like. Always ask questions and do the research. 

Candy Lubes  
  My few words of warning are this. If you use candy lubes you need to take a shower after words. If you use them anal then you need an enema afterwards. The reason I say this is because if you don't not only will you be sticky but there is risk for infection. Remember if you have a food allergy check to see if its artificial flavoring or extract. Don't need to be needing an epi pen during sex. 

  Well I hope this was helpful for who ever needs it. Stay kinky my fellow kink stirs and if you have any questions feel free to ask.

             Master Richard

 

1 year ago. Tue 19 Dec 2017 11:08:57 PM IST

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Milking.....
 Now I realize this isn't something for everyone. But the act of watching a girl milk can be very sexually arousing. For some people watching a girl produce milk during intercourse is pure sexual bliss. I don't judge and neither should you. Everyone has there thing.

   First thing first this is not something that will happen right away especially if you haven't ever breast fed. No for those that have this will come a lot easier. For those that haven't some are not able to even with training. Don't get upset if you are one of the few. If you are trying this and never had kids or breast fed then it may take a bit of training.
  Step one for those who have breast fed before you will message your breast and work your milk ducts as you would if you where trying to produce for feeding. If you not done this before fear not. There is YouTube videos on how to do this. But basically what you will do is work your milk ducts and try to squeeze/Milk your nipples. People think this is so time consuming and where do I find the time or place. Well its simple you do it every morning when you wake up, every night before bed, and when you go to the bathroom.
  Now you have the process. It's really that simple. Now if you should experience pain take a break and go back to it when the pain is gone. This is also a great way to check for breast cancer. The benefits of learning to milk is that your breast will become larger and full. This is normal because they are filling with milk. You may only get a few drops or you may be spraying milk like no tomorrow. Everyone differs and again you may not produce at all. 

Well I hope this was helpful for who ever needs it. Stay kinky my fellow kink stirs and if you have any questions feel to ask.

            Master Richard

 

1 year ago. Tue 19 Dec 2017 11:07:38 PM IST

Anal Sex.....
  I want to first say that all you men out there that just shove your cock into some poor girls ass or some boys ass with out lube. That you are all ass wholes. People think you just dive right in are sadly mistaken and can do a lot of damage. There should be some play with lube and some stretching done before full penetration. Also all lubes are not the same. Some lubes are not made for anal sex. So do your research and find a lube that works for you.
  Ok so you have found a lube you trust and like. Now where to go from here? Well you want to first decide how you want to do this. If you want a more clean experience it is recommended the receiver gives them self a enema or two. This will allow the bowls to remove most of the poop that may be in your ass. How ever if you just wish to get down to business that is fine to. Its really up to you.
 Ok here we go. first of all for a first time there is no such thing as to much lube. What you want to do to lube the ass whole on the outside and lube two of your fingers really well. Then you want to take your finger and slowly work your way into the ass whole. Don't be afraid to add more lube as needed. Once you have a finger in there try to work two in. This may not all happen in one night. All depends on personal preference.  
 Once you have worked two fingers in and your partner is convertible with two finger moving in and out of there ass you can move on to a plug. Again taking your time and slowly working your way inside. Once you can get a plug inside and your partner is convertible with the plug have them move around with the plug in. This is important cause when you are inside and pumping your penis or dildo in and out it is going to stretch the anus. A plug is a good way to get your anus use to this. They do sell anal training kits. They are rubber. However I recommend you buying a glass dildo. Small in size and worth the $20.00 you will spend on it.
  Finally its time to have anal sex. Once your partner has done and is ok with all of the above they should be ready for your hard cock or dildo. Remember though for the first couple of times you want to use lube. After awhile your partner may want to try with out lube. Its not for everyone.

  Very Important......
When you are first doing anal you may have some bloody discharge after. This will happen in the begging of the anal process and can continue all the way to penis/ Dildo incretion. It is important to as always give after care. If your partner has bloody discharge it should be minute and you should give them a few days to heal or till there is no longer pain. You can still train with a glass dildo after light bleeding but not recommended you use rubber. MOST IMPORTANT if you have a large amount of bloody stool, you don't stop bleeding, or you are in immense pain. Go to the E.R. you may have ruptured something. You do not want to bleed to death. 

Well hope this has been helpful. All you kinky people stay kinky out there and don't be afraid to ask questions.

                Master Richard