In this post , I gatherd some thoughts about the topic , from different sources , so once again , those are not my words , but i find them fully true
so here we go :
The online Only Relationship
Physical contact is not necessary, and D/s can be conducted anonymously over the telephone, email, or other messaging systems. In D/s, both parties take pleasure or erotic enjoyment from either dominating or being dominated.
Many Dominants and submissives now meet each other online through forums, communities and even through webcam services and never end up meeting face to face. There are situations where Dominants may have responsibilities for multiple subs they’ve discovered through the internet. Some may want a contract drawn up while others are just happy to be given orders without ever signing anything, digitally or in pen.
Online slave relationships can be incredibly rewarding and can still satisfy an intense desire to be owned or to control. Just because you are thousands of miles away physically, doesn’t mean that Master’s guidance can’t be just as fulfilling. It will necessitate keeping in regular contact through electronic means which luckily in today’s world is getting easier by the minute.
The online only Relationship world offers some special opportunities, as well as challenges.for managing the time difference, and kids, and all of the other fun logistical stuff that comes with distance, I’ve found that getting organized, working a schedule, and quick check-ins during the day (via text or email, usually), are vital.
The thing to remember is that all relationships have challenges, take effort, and require commitment. All relationships (even the bad ones). Online relationships just require these things in differing ways (and, yes, slightly higher amounts).
All BDSM dynamics are a work in progress
If you’re doing it right, your BDSM relationships will continue to change, grow and develop the whole time you’re together. You’ll have periods of an intense BDSM dynamic and periods where things are a little calmer. You’ll have times when you’re very invested in certain established roles and other times when you’re avidly exploring new ones. Don’t let your dynamic or your relationship start to stale.
Brand new dynamics often have the most fire to them. They can seem the most passionate, the most intense. But they’re usually pretty shallow when you really get down to it. I love casual sex - including casual kinky sex - but for a rich dynamic with a lot of depth, you can’t beat ongoing BDSM relationships.