1 day ago. Fri 19 Jul 2019 07:06:30 AM IDT
Daddy and I have both mentioned in past blogs that we have a training schedule, one we follow strictly. It helps the both of us get training on what we want in our dynamic as well as keeps us organized. Today I will share with you all our schedule. Some of it I will be more detailed on and some I won’t.
Sunday: Administrative Training
This day is for going over things like rules, plans, and anything else that is non-sexual procedure oriented.
Before we’d signed the contact we would spend our delegated time frame to reading over the contract, and revising it. At first Daddy would read a few sections to me and then I would summarize it back as well as ask questions. One for clarification or “why the heck is that in there???”. I would get very distracted during these times (studies say you can only hold a child’s attention when teaching for their age in minutes, at least I think that’s what it said. I stopped listening after 13 minutes) and so Daddy had to come up with something else. He turned the tables, so to speak, and had me read the sections to him. I would again ask for any clarification or any other ones I had at the time.
Now that our contract is signed we use this time to plan for things like our move. Working out the financials and other important details. We also use this time to look for our home, we have a place to live right now but we want to (for the most part) build our home. So that’s what we focus on now.
Monday: Funishment/Punishment Training
This day we go over and practice both the “little girl funishments” and the regular/impact punishments.
Funishment- a fun punishment, one to be enjoyed and is considered a light punishment
On these days we typically start with funishments, it allows a smooth transition from “vanilla” to kink. Even though by then I’ve already been on the phone with Daddy a couple hours and we are in kink. We start by going over all the songs I would need to sing as a funishment, there are 6. I then have to sing them all as Daddy calls them off. They range from 1 minute in sing time to about 10 minutes. We then go over all the “little punishments” things that can be taken away (phone, internet, tv), timeouts, spankings, etc.
After we finish the little portion we move onto what I call “big girl punishments” these are the ones that leave marks, are for more serious offenses, and hurt. First we go over all the impact areas, 40 areas total (right side is 1, and the opposite left would be 2). Then we go over the impact instruments, 13 as of now. After that we practice the punishment stances, 3 primary stances with a few variations each.
Recently we’ve changed the next step to something more fun. What it used to be was I would get to pick an instrument for the night and then Daddy would have me administer 10 hits to an area (thanks to a random number generator). At the end based on how good I was and how aroused Daddy and I both are he may let me finish myself off. I must still ask permission.
Now what we do is very similar we’ve just added a second number generator that indicated the number of hits administered. It’s numbered 1-4 and then doubled. Before we begin we take one of them and roll it 1-20, for the number of rounds we will play, and of course it is doubled as well. I like to call this one “Russian roulette: punishment style” I even have a blog on it. Daddy and I both really enjoy the game. If his favorite number is not rolled for an area then I am to please Daddy, as I always do, and make an extra round just for him.
Tuesday: Little Girl Training
A night to practice being the stubborn, bratty, pouty (etc.) little that I am. Coloring and other little activities will be done too.
A night dedicated to my little. Bringing her out in so many different ways. Each night is something different and most times I get to choose based on how I’m feeling. Sometimes Daddy has something specific he feels we need to work on.
These could be getting the purrfect pout face, and kitty (puppy dog) eyes. Being stubborn and bratty, talking back, bugging Daddy while he does things or talks to others. Whining when I don’t get my way or don’t want to do something. Begging and pleading to get out of punishments or to be able to do something I REALLY want to do. Cleaning is a part of this training too as a little (and sub in general) is required to keep a clean and kept space. As well as working on those I have coloring nights, tea parties, makeovers, stuffie parties, movie nights, cuddling and many other activities that a little would enjoy doing. Daddy loves my little and he enjoys seeing me happy, I am happy when we get to do these things together. NOT to say I’m NOT happy when we do the other things, because I am. I just love these night a lot too.
These night can be interchanged with sewing. I’ve expressed great interest in both making my own clothes as well as clothes for middles. As all I can ever find on the internet is baby little dedicated sites with sprinkles of middle appropriate gear. I also want to make plus size ones as plus size clothes were always hard for me to find so I can only imagine the difficulty in finding both together.
Wednesday: “Vanilla” Day
A “relax” day. No training, I get to call and talk to Daddy just as much as I would any other night.
These days are in a sense my off day. Again, no training. These days I get to “vanilla” talk with Daddy. I get the two hours normally dedicated to training to just talk with Daddy. About whatever I want. Daddy doesn’t choose my clothes or hairstyle these days, nor do I have all the photoplay requirements I normally have. There are some I still have to follow for the sake of routine. If I wish, I don’t need to keep in touch with Daddy all day or check in. I do, as I can barely go an hour without talking to him but I still have the option. A blog isn’t required this day either. It’s truly an off day. I keep pretty close to our normal routine even on these days, still posting blogs and talking to Daddy/doing tasks I ask for because I like it and it’s my day to choose.
Thursday: Sexual Training
Practicing sexual activities, be it orgasming in a specific time span or trying new sexual activities.
Ah what fun, these training nights are focused on sex. For a nympho that’s amazing, that’s my thing. These nights range from working on things like anal, ATM, fisting, cumming in a given time frame, orgasm denial, edging, sex toys, etc. Daddy always chooses what we work on on these nights, sometimes it’s multiple together others it’s just one. It could be whatever Daddy wants and needs to see to please himself or whatever he feels I personally need to improve on.
Sometimes we pull out the over the internet toys and Daddy plays with me while I try to stay concentrated on another task. That could be sewing, or coloring or cleaning. My goal on these nights is to stay as focused and quiet as possible. Training for when I will wear them out in public with Daddy.
On these nights I am required to cum, if I don’t cum in the time given I am punished and then I try again until I cum. I’ve gotten good at cumming in my time frame but sometimes a girl does just want to be punished.
Friday: Position Training
Training focused on positions, simple enough.
The focus of these nights are to go over the 35(?? I think) positions that Daddy has picked that will be used in our dynamic. We started with a short 30 and have slowly added a few as I learn them.
I am the one who initially asked for position training in the beginning. I do have a slave side and positions help to feed that side for me. Daddy really took to it though. He found all the ones he wants me to know and has put them in a spreadsheet with names for me to learn. Organized by type of position as well (kneeling, standing, etc)
When we practice, Daddy says the position name and I am to get in it. As quickly and gracefully as I can. I then hold it till he says either a new one or that I may come out of it.
We have been looking into taking it up a notch. Non-verbal cues for the stances. This is going to be a lot harder but Daddy as I both think it’ll be rewarding and that I’ll be a quick study.
This training is sometimes switched out for rope training. I am a rope bunny so Daddy incorporates that in our trainings too. We have found The Duchy to be rather helpful and a good starting point. When we do rope training Daddy picks a piece he would like to see on me and have me try. I then do my best to follow the step by step pictures and recreate it. More times than not there are things I could fix but I’m not too shabby. We haven’t gotten into suspension yet, we still need to get good at the basics first. Nonetheless it’s exciting and educational for us both.
Wow this is long... I’m sorry.