4 days ago. Sat 16 Mar 2019 09:28:12 PM IST
Honestly thinking of leaving Cage for good at this point.
No one hardly ever uses chat, which makes me feel like my premium is for nothing. The few times there have been groups in chat as well I've been 100% ignored in even just saying Hi.
Yesterday I was told by someone that people were deliberately ignoring me and wanted me to leave. So I did. First of first I don't remember the name. Don't care because the bottom line is:
WE are killing Cage.
Between trolls, breakups, newbs, assholes, gossip girls, drama queens, IRL problems, etc. The cliques, the passive aggressive blog posts that STILL allude to drama. Especially when some involved are those who are permaBANNED from the site for a reason. We get it, you want to have your boo and friends or whatever it is here enjoying what you like together and sharing it with likeminded people. But when people cross the line and break TOS multiple times? Well don't break them then and maybe you can stay? There are lines you don't cross. And when you cross muliple you pay the price. Actions and words have consequences.
But then you have the multitude of cliques too on Cage. You know I came here because I was at a breaking point in my life. I have repressed my submissive side and nature my entire life. I never found ANYONE irl that was also into kink. I've NEVER met a realife Dom in the flesh. I grew up sheltered, and emotionally and verbally abused. My mother has tried to make me her live in assistant/helper/workerbitch my whole life, and her and her entire family expect me to roll over, submit, and just do what they expect and ask and continuing sacrificing my entire life to help them finish theirs. My life is better spent on others apparently.
I came to this site to keep sane. I could have chosen Fetlife, or plenty of other websites. I chose this one because I thought it was better. And while I've met great people and I'm so happy to be getting better and Learning in this community. However Ive also come across plenty of HORRIBLE people that make me once again want to isolate and never speak to another human being again. There are a few who I could probably look to as the main culprits for why people suddenly are telling me they want me to leave. I'm sure there were plenty who already didn't like me just because I'm hard to like.
(yes I am aware and yes that's how you made me feel, not that you care...you only care about yourself.)
And at this point? Don't think I can take even the sight of you anymore. Multiple of you. People that I'm close to have been run away too, leaving me virtually alone here now. I've been lied to quite a lot too. And been met with very shady people. And I'm sick of it. This is why I don't try to make friends, or join groups anymore. Even when I keep mostly to myself it still happens and ruins everything.
I havent made the decision yet. But I likely won't be using Cage anymore soon. Not that people care apparently.
Yes Im pissy and passive aggressive because I'm angry. I literally have zero outlet in the world and now I'm gonna lose this one. So yeah. A little angry.
Get over it and ignore it ignore you don't like it. Clearly I'm most likely leaving anyways.