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SirDon

“A Sub needs to feel wanted. A Dom wants to feel needed.”
16 hours ago. Tue 17 Sep 2019 08:19:54 AM IDT

We really enjoy reading "some" of the blogs and for different reasons...

 

We find some blog content entertaining, some interesting, some informative, and some so obvious they make Us wonder why it was posted?

 

....and some even have my Sweet Ginger rolling her eyes...

 

We tend to believe that all have something to offer, so We peruse the Cage Blogs for content, or entertainment even information, on occasion?! 

 

We have found many insightful offerings worthy of discussion, for they are the gems...valuable and...

 

...less prevalent especially among those who "think" themselves "oracles" of advice and seem to feel the need to say it over and over again.

 

While we all have the right to say what we want to say or post, it is what is done that supports anything we might have to offer...

 

Then there are those who blog about nothing, rant, never realizing they literally undermine any credibility by there own actions and blog content.

 

To quote the "quoter" (My Sweet Ginger), "words are sweet, sometimes intoxicating, but actions speak louder...", they also take time and effort.

 

One of the problems with "relationships" online is that there is a built in "disconnect", it is also one of the advantages in it's naturally occurring delays.

 

It is important to look into or "vet" anyone you might find interesting. Never discount your feelings, just make sure any investment has value.

 

We read many "advice givers" blogs that are really NOT advice but a "come on", filled with nice, sensual, intoxicating and understanding words.

 

The content is generally valid on face value, yet look back at that persons blogs, how long they have been a member versus blog history for example!

 

What you might find or even perhaps, not find, should give you pause before you accept the good feeling advancements of said "paramore".

 

The simple fact that anyone who is not in a real, lasting, well founded relationship yet offering relationship or lifestyle...

 

...should give anyone pause, time to consider that if the advice offered is not "realtionally" supported it might just be a way to seduce others...

 

...it might be that the "offerer" is hanging out a "sweet words" baited hook cast toward the new seeker or the injured in the shallow end?

 

What We are trying to suggest here is to be careful, take the time, your time, all the time you need to really feel comfortable and be informed.

 

We approached the Cage wondering if??!? She wanted to know more about her submissiveness. Me still believing someone like Her existed...

 

She had been approached by many with one agenda and did not come lightly to Her assertions in regard to the approaches of the dumb "doms"!

 

It is always suggested that if a "person" approaches anyone in a "too strong, too soon fashion", step back for trust is the key.

 

We suggest that there are far too many who are "players" in a "sensual,caring, listening dom's" clothing. Takes time to learn who these jokers are.

 

Beware of those who seem to speak to the heart of the matter, the heart of what matters to you. Remain vulnerable, yet informed.

 

Say you are new to the lifestyle or new to the Cage or both, curiosity can create it's own victim. Some write very well, but do not live what is offered!

 

We have learned from many, one lead the other to Us and we are on our way to relationship off-line for the last 4 months.

 

We share, We blog, We talk, We laugh, We inspire, We committed, We desire, We dream, We plan, We hope, We share some more...

 

We found Us here! She was all but gone from the Cage as I entered. I saw her profile, actually read it, read some of her blogs and commented.

 

One of her "Cage friends" knew She had been put threw the "ringer" with more than a few "dum doms" and had all but given up, no longer online!

 

Her friend read my comment on her blog and reached out to Her, in reluctance She read my comment, found it "insightful" and responded...

 

I knew almost form the very first exchange, She came around a few weeks later...what makes it real, not all rainbows, unicorns and glitter...

 

We have made the effort on as many sides of Our relationship that has presented itself to us, talked through and figured "it" out, not easy btw...

 

...but well worth what We have now and going forward! Plans to take this off-line soon, hopes to make it permanent, even "legal" perhaps?!?

 

Now these are Our opinions that We share and it is how We see things and that is fine too because the most important feelings are those within said relationship so We encourage all to be informed and actually form opinions based on what We know not just how We feel...

 

...is this a fart in the wind or food for thought you decide?...

1 week ago. Sat 07 Sep 2019 08:38:42 AM IDT

 

..for my fierce and graceful and..

...the most beautiful...

...of All the Gingers...

...I Love You...

...only You Sweet Ginger...

2 weeks ago. Tue 03 Sep 2019 01:47:56 PM IDT

I was thinking as I tend to do.                      

Thinking about You, as I tend to do.

I think about You when apart.

I think about You when not.

As I think about You, as I tend to do.

I want to You to know how I think.

I want you to know what I am thinking.

 

I think You are Amazing.

I think You are Mighty.

I think You are Fierce.

I think You are my Miracle.

I think you are Graceful.

I think You are Loyal.

I think You are Dedicated.

I think You are Smart.

I think You are Funny.

I think You are Sensitive.

I think You are Articulate.

I think You are Perceptive.

 

I think You are Gorgeous.

I think You are Sultry.

I think You are Beautiful.

I think You are Sensual.

I think You are Sexy.

I think You are Provocative.

I think about what You say.

I think about how You say it.

I think about why You say it.

I think about how You feel.

I think about how You make me feel.

I think about what You have shared.

 

I think You are Kind.

I think You are Considerate.

I think You are Compassionate.

I think You are Caring.

I think You are Passionate.

I think You are Sincere.

I think You Trust me.

I think You Believe in me.

I think You Impress me.

I think You Inspire me.

I think You Support me.

I think You Love me.

I think Your Voice is Music.

I think Your Thoughts Valuable.

I think Your Smile lights my Heart.

I think Your Words warm my Soul.

I think Your Laugh, my Happiness.

I think Your Heart the Source.

 

I think You Believe in Us.

I think You are Grateful for Us.

I think You are Committed to Us.

I think You Want Us.

I think You are Amazed by Us.

I think You Get Us.

I think You are Confident.

I think You are Brilliant.

I think You are Delightful.

I think You are Exceptional.

I think You are Fearless.

I think You are Generous.

I think You are Forgiving.

I think You are Understanding.

I think You are Nurturing.

I think You are Empowering.

I think You are Willing.

I think You are Exciting.

I think You are Genuine.

I think You are the Real Deal.

I think You are Wise.

I think You are Capable.

I think You are Unique.

I think You are Rare.

I think of You Often.

I think of You Warmly.

I think of You with Respect.

I think of You with Wonder.

I think of You Sweetly.

I think of You with Love.

 

 

I think about how one moment a day,

the chance meeting of two people,

can change everything in the heartbeat,

that punctuates that very moment,

with all the possibilities, 

that might become probabilities, 

as we work through all,

that life tends to bring,

which, as it turns out,

is the beauty of life, 

for in that instant, 

that moment,

that heartbeat,

lies the power,

of the Miracle, 

to change,

Everything!

 

I Love the Awesome and Mighty,

the Sweetest of all the Gingers,

...for She, for me is...

...that Moment...

...that Chance...

...that Heartbeat...

...that Miracle...

...that changed...

...EVERYTHING!!!

 

 

 

 

2 weeks ago. Thu 29 Aug 2019 12:28:43 PM IDT

...the first kiss...

...often carries...

...much...

...with it...

...significance...

...attraction...

...chemistry...

...truth...

....trust...

...power...

...fantasy...

...desire...

...hope...

...belief...

 

As always

Dedicated to

The Sweetest

of All the Gingers

My Babygirl

3 weeks ago. Mon 26 Aug 2019 05:13:25 PM IDT

One Good Woman
Peter Cetera

I am so in love with you
I just can't deny it
Everybody knows I can't deny it
Everybody knows

You can read me like a book
Just like a fortune teller
Everybody needs a fortune teller
Telling you the very truth

You bring me feelin'
You bring me fire
You give me a love that's taking me higher
It just goes to prove
What one good woman can do

You bring out the best in me
With love and understanding
Anytime I need some understanding
You are always there

And if I ever lose my way
You're always there to guide me
Anyone can see you're here inside me
Anyone can see it

You bring me feelin'
You bring me fire
You give me a love that's taking me higher
It just goes to prove
What one good woman can do

You fill me with hope
With love and devotion
You taught me how to show my emotion
It just goes to prove
What one good woman can do

This is our time, we have it all
We have a way of knowing if we're heading for a fall
We'll work it out and get it right
And when I get home to you
You're such a sight for my poor eyes

This is our time, we have it all
When I come home at night
You're such a sight for my poor eyes

You bring me feelin'
You bring me fire
You give me a love that's taking me higher
It just goes to prove
What one good woman can do

You fill me with hope
With love and devotion
You taught me how to show my emotion
It just goes to prove
What one good woman can do

You bring me feelin'
You bring me fire
You give me a love that's taking me higher
It just goes to prove
What one good woman can do

You fill me with hope
With love and devotion
You taught me how to show my emotion
It just goes to prove
What one good woman can do

 

...yes and "oldie"...

...from my era...

 

There is something that happens between a man and his woman, a Dominant and his submissive, a lover and his Beloved...it is so rare, so valuable that it literally has the power to change...

EVERYTHING!!

She is that power...

She is the gift...

She is the missing piece...

without which...

nothing else works...

but with which...

creates in me, in Us...

that power to redefine...

every single "bad" moment...

and see them all...

as all the wonderful reasons...

all the things...

we learned from...

to prepare Us...

both for each other...

Just when I thought...

of You and Us so highly...

You go and post your latest blog...

and Our "dynamic"...

Our relationship...

blossoms and blooms...

in new, finer and yes...

Awesome ways!!!

I Love the Sweetest of All the Gingers...

for She is my Babygirl!!

I Love the ways only...

She Loves me...

 

P.S those afore mentioned "bad moments"...

many have been from right here on the Cage...

funny thing is you all know who you are...

you troll our blogs of Love and devotion to each other...

your jealousy shows in the skirted blog comments...

you seem to thrive on the misery of others...

you offer support only when you believe there might be gain...

She was smart and sassy and graceful and fierce enough...

to see right through you all...

and I just want to thank you...

for your bumbling, manipulating, sophomoric attempts...

to whoo Her, to convince Her and...

lie to her...

you made her actually leave the Cage...

until I happened by Her profile and a blog...

Commented on them both...

a friend,one of you tried to manipulate...

read my comment and...

told her she should check me out...

We have been going strong ever since...

so...thank you all for being parts of the puzzle...

on the path of the journey...

that lead Her to me...

Now...

eat your hearts out...

and leave Her the fuck alone!!!

Got it??!?

3 weeks ago. Fri 23 Aug 2019 08:43:26 AM IDT

 

You know I need your love
You've got that hold over me
Long as I've got your love
You know that I'll never leave
When I wanted you to share my life
I had no doubt in my mind
And it's been you woman
Right down the line

I know how much I lean on you
Only you can see
The changes that I've been through
Have left a mark on me
You've been as constant as a Northern Star
The brightest light that shines
It's been you, woman 
Right down the line

I just want to say this is my way
Of tellin' you everything
I could never say before

Yeah this is my way of tellin' you
That every day I'm lovin' you so much more
'Cause you believed in me through my darkest night
Put somethin' better inside of me
You brought me into the light
Threw away all those crazy dreams
I put them all behind
And it was you, woman
Right down the line

I just want to say this is my way 
Of tellin' you everything
I could never say before

Yeah this is my way of tellin' you
That every day I'm lovin' you so much more
If I should doubt myself 
If I'm losing ground
I won't turn to someone else
They'd only let me down
When I wanted you to share my life
I had no doubt in my mind
And it's been you, woman
Right down the line

...my Sweet Ginger is...

...as constant as the Northern Star...

...the brightest Star the shines...

...my Stargirl...

3 weeks ago. Fri 23 Aug 2019 05:14:20 AM IDT

Forever's Gotta Start Somewhere
Chad Brownlee

8 a.m. on a downtown train
I would have walked up and asked your name
Midnight in a crowded room
I would have had to come up and talk to you
Anywhere, I don't care
Forever's gotta start somewhere

Dance floor at a dive bar
You would have walked by and stole my heart
Summer night at a county fair
I would have stopped in my tracks and stared
And I'd have known then and there
Forever's gotta start somewhere

This could be the first night of the rest of our lives
We started something right here
You called it crazy, but I think we'll make it
Forever's gotta start somewhere
Forever's gotta start somewhere

Girl I know you must think, another guy tryin' to buy you a drink
Two for one on a Tuesday, how can a good thing start this way
Well it could end up anywhere
Forever's gotta start somewhere

This could be the first night of the rest of our lives
We started something right here
You called it crazy, but I think we'll make it
Forever's gotta start somewhere
Forever's gotta start somewhere

Yeah, it's a long shot
But it's all that I got
Can't let you walk out of here

This could be the first night of the rest of our lives
We started something right here
You called it crazy, but I think we'll make it
Forever's gotta start somewhere
This could be the first night of the rest of our lives
We started something right here
You called it crazy, but I think we'll make it
Forever's gotta start somewhere
Forever's gotta start somewhere
Forever's gotta start somewhere

Yeah, it's a long shot
But it's all that I got
Can't let you walk out of here

 

...forever started for me on May 4, 2019...

...the day My Sweet Ginger responded to my message here...

 

3 weeks ago. Thu 22 Aug 2019 02:46:59 PM IDT

Well I know there's a reason
And I know there's a rhyme
We were meant to be together
And that's why,
We can roll with the punches
We can stroll hand in hand
And when I say it's forever
You understand

That you're always in my heart,
You're always on my mind
But when it all becomes too much,
You're never far behind
And there's no one that comes close to you
Could ever take your place
'Cause only you can love me this way

I could have turned a different corner
I could have gone another place
Then I'd of never had this feeling
That I feel today, yeah

That you're always in my heart,
You're always on my mind
But when it all becomes too much,
You're never far behind
And there's no one that comes close to you
Could ever take your place
'Cause only you can love me this way

Oh

That you're always in my heart,
You're always on my mind
But when it all becomes too much,
You're never far behind
And there's no one that comes close to you
Could ever take your place
'Cause only you can love me this way

Oh

Only you can love me this way.

 

...thank God for this Woman...

...Amen...

Oh oh oh
Oh oh oh
Oh oh oh

I'd lose my way and I'd lose my mind
If I faced one day on my own
I know I was saved
The night that she gave this drifter's heart a home

Every night I should be on my knees
Lord knows how lucky I am
I'll never say near enough
Thank God for this woman, Amen

Oh oh oh
Oh oh oh

This world has a way of shaking your faith
I've been broken again and again
But I need all the cracks in my shattered heart
'Cause that's where her love gets in

Every night I should be on my knees
Lord knows how lucky I am
I'll never say near enough
Thank God for this woman, Amen

She gives me faith
She gives me grace
She gives me hope
She gives me strength
She gives me love
Love without end
Thank God for this woman, Amen

Oh oh oh
Oh oh oh
Oh oh oh
Oh oh oh

Thanks for the moon and the stars up above
Forgiveness' a sin in your undying love
Every twist every turn for the way you made sure
All my roads led to her

So tonight I will fall down on my knees
'Cause Lord knows how lucky I am
I'm gonna shout at the top of my lungs
Thank God for this woman, Amen
And thank God for this woman, Amen

She gives me faith
She gives me grace
She gives me hope
She gives me strength
She gives me love
Love without end
Thank God for this woman, Amen

 

1 month ago. Sat 17 Aug 2019 09:35:28 AM IDT

 

....nuff said...

...for She is All of this...

...and more...

 

 

 

I Love You Sweet Ginger...Amen!

1 month ago. Thu 15 Aug 2019 02:07:39 AM IDT

 

....I know You are Babygirl...

 

 

...the Love of my Life...