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My experiences with polyamorous living, BDSM, submission, with no doubt a few chased squirrels along the way.
7 hours ago. Sun 17 Nov 2019 01:57:24 AM IST

Master, I am grateful that You have never criticized me in any way. You have accepted me exactly as I am. You find me sexy just as I am and support my goals to become the healthiest version of me that I can be, but never saying I have to fit into a specific mold to be considered sexy. You make me feel sexy. You make me want to give my body to You without reserve. Completely naked. Completely vulnerable, open and ready to serve You in whatever way You need me or desire of me. Some people say I can have this same type of dynamic with a D/s without having to giving up all of my desires and rights for Yours, but I don't want to be my own. I like who I am with You much better than who I am alone. 

Thank You for your acceptance and constant hunger for me. You make me feel like a natural woman! Yours always to delight in and devour however You please.

To my Master, my All. Always & Forever.



1 day ago. Sat 16 Nov 2019 02:14:26 AM IST

Master, I am grateful for Your advice. I lean on You a lot, and You have never once told me that I am leaning too much. I know that I do make a lot of decisions on my own, but I rely so much on the advice that You provide me. One of the reasons I began looking for a dominant was for support in decision-making. I love that You ask me what I need, and You weigh out the pros and cons and consider my needs. Even when I flounder, You remain consistent in Your desire for me reach my goals. I have missed this for so long in my life, and now, I have that in You and can't imagine being without You. You never make me feel like You are making the ultimate decision, even though, We both know you totally could. You could make the decision, and I would submit to it. Instead, You look at the big picture and give sound advice based on Your years of experience. You never criticize me when my choice doesn't work out the way I had hoped. Instead, You help pick me up, dust me off, and encourage me to try again. Thank You for investing in me. I am blessed to have You as Mine.

To my Advisor, My Lover, My Master! Always & Forever.


2 days ago. Fri 15 Nov 2019 02:02:25 AM IST

One thing that ranks very high on my thankful list is the fact that even as a Master, You have respect for me. I think You have said before that as a slave, I am Yours. I become part of You, so to disrespect me is to disrespect Yourself. I am thankful to have found such an amazing Master. One who I can respect and know that He will treat me with great respect in return. 

To my Life. My Master. Always & Forever.


2 days ago. Thu 14 Nov 2019 07:16:22 PM IST

I would like to take a moment to say, I am really enjoying the various blogs I am seeing pop up lately on The Cage. I realize some of Y/you have been around for a while, but I am only recently seeing some of Y/your names for the first time. I am glad to see Y/your active contribution to our community and look forward getting to know Y/you all through Y/your blogs. 


3 days ago. Thu 14 Nov 2019 01:19:21 AM IST

One of the major draws to BDSM for me was the need for a dominant. As explained in an earlier post about my parents creating a switch, I began to realize a lot about myself. Submissive men were drawn to me because I was a strong and powerful woman in my vanilla life. I was a leader, and they wanted to be led. I never realized I had created my own nightmare relationship dynamic. 

I wanted a leader--no-- NEEDED a Leader. As I read more about dominants, I knew my life would one day include such a Leader. Master, You are that Leader. Even today as we spoke of past, current and future things, Your leader side was present. You showed me how things could have been. You show me things daily about Our life together. You show me just how amazing of a Leader You are!

Thank you so much for being our AWESOME Leader. We will always follow Your lead.

To My One, My Lover, My Leader & Master.

ssg & princess


4 days ago. Wed 13 Nov 2019 02:00:57 AM IST

Master, I honestly can't think of a better way to describe Your love. You have been so patient with princess and I. Some men wouldn't be able to handle the emotional times that You helped Us through. Just when We think that We are completely over everything, something will pop up and out of no where something will trigger us and it is fears and tears. You are so very kind and loving. You help us to see where the pain is coming from. You hold us close and tell us how much we mean to You. You put our fears to rest, pop us on the butt and encourage us to get back out and live again--without fear. You're incredible! My amazing Master! My heart pants for You.

Our love will not be without pain. It will not be without suffering, but We will overcome the pain and suffering TOGETHER. I will always be here for You when the days are tough for You and You need a shoulder. I will always be ready to give my body to You in every way possible for You to enjoy it. My body, my mind, my life are all wrapped up in You. We rest in You and find peace in Your leadership, guidance and protection. Thank You SO much for Your past and future patience and for being the understanding Master that You are!

For my patient Lover, patient Daddy, patient Protector, patient Master -- Yours Always & Forever

ssg (and princess)

5 days ago. Tue 12 Nov 2019 01:59:54 AM IST

Support in this life is critical, especially in long distance relationships (LDR). I want to thank You for being such an amazing source of support for princess and I. Without Your support, our life would be rockier than usual. We look to You, daily, if not minute-by-minute for Your support at times. You have always tried Your best to be accessible and give the most amazing support and leave us feeling strong and loved.

We hope we are as helpful to You when You need support. We know that Cookie sometimes needs a soft place to lay His head when He is stressed, and princess has that sweet soft lap for You. When Master needs support, I hope my gifts help Him to feel supported, adored and desired. 

Without You, our bridge would fall. Thank You for being the foundation that holds us together. 

6 days ago. Mon 11 Nov 2019 01:54:20 AM IST

Since coming to The Cage, I have experienced some disappointment. Trying to find the "One" isn't easy. I have been fortunate not to have a really long journey. I attribute that to my being vulnerable and transparent which can be emotionally painful, but you do tend to connect with people quicker. I've had three Doms before You. I don't count the one who continually ghosted me. I don't know what his problem was. A true daddy he was not. But those who I did have an official connection with weren't the right fit. They did contribute to my knowledge of what I was looking for which led to You.

One of those doms was a Daddy Dom. He was Daddy to a precious little. He recognized her when I didn't. I had apparently silenced her for many years. She was cared for and adored, until he and I parted ways. My little was totally wrecked. You remember. You were there the whole time as my cherished friend. Because she was so broken, I felt it might be easier just to silence her again and not let anyone communicate with her, but You felt differently thinking You would help vet a new Daddy. In the meantime, You played interference. You talked her off the ledge many times. You comforted her to sleep. In the process of You helping her to grieve the loss of her Daddy, You became her trusted friend, "Cookie." A playful joke that ended up sticking. Cookie began to talk to her daily and even gave her an official name. Princess. She felt so adored by You, though still broken.

You continued to share stories with her. You comforted her. You pleasured her. You won her. Princess was in love with Cookie. She continued to struggle with the loss of her previous Daddy, while working through her feelings for You. She would occasionally slip when talking to You and instead of "Cookie" call You "Daddy." The man who thought He would never want a little found himself smitten with Princess. Not a day went by without interaction with Princess. Each day the bond grew stronger and stronger, and today, while still referred to as "Cookie" the name has become synonymous with "Daddy." 

She has moved on from the previous Daddy and finally accepted that sometimes grown ups break up and littles lose out in the process. She was just relieved that You were open to taking her as Your little. Now, baseball bat in hand, You proudly love, adore her, and protect her. You give her the attention she needs. The only thing that would make it better would be if you were pink with glitter. 

We want to thank You for creating this love story with Princess. She is so happy to have such a dedicated Daddy (Cookie). I am so grateful that You have cared so well for this very fragile part of me. Master and I are inseparable as are Cookie and princess. Together, there is a lot of love and adoration being expressed. Thank You for all You give us of Yourself. Your time. Your love. We are forever indebted to You.

To Cookie, Daddy, Master our all in One--ONE. We will never be apart. Always & Forever


6 days ago. Sun 10 Nov 2019 02:50:16 PM IST

Master said "Breathe," so I.....


1 week ago. Sun 10 Nov 2019 02:04:13 AM IST

Shit happens! And just as shit usually does, it stinks. Life deals out shovel after shovel of the smelly stuff. Some people aren't able to handle their own shit much less that of someone else. We're always ok to clean our own toilet but don't like cleaning anyone else's. I am thankful that You have made me the biggest commitment that anyone could ever make. No matter how deep the shit gets, You will always remain. You may be knee deep in it. You may end up smelling like it from time-to-time, but I will never pull away from You for it because I know all of it was from You doing the hard work of holding us together in even the most difficult of times.

I don't know if You can truly comprehend just how much I love You. I don't know if You "truly" get it just yet. One day, You will get it. As for now, I will just have to continue to tell You over and over, as many times as You need, that YOU will ALWAYS be "the One" for me. It is Your love, Your leadership and guidance, and protection that I need. I am Yours!

My Leader, My Guide, My Protector, My Master -- Yours Always and Forever!


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