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6 years ago. October 23, 2017 at 10:36 PM

I maybe wrong or slightly misguided in the way I'm putting this across but I'll say it how it sounds in my head. And if it offends some I apologize now not my intention. So far with subs that have shown interest in myself I've given them truth and they've either made up a story or such one question is it insecurity that gives them flight or what? I don't believe in lying to potential partners that's why I'm the way I am.

Now a little honesty if a female goes dark on me for no reason I'm kind of hurt by it after all being a Dom doesn't mean I have no feelings because I do. With me I bounce back quickly I say in my head well fuck it I'll not chase after its not me to do so am I going to start slating the person no because that would mean my perceived slight mattered.

That may sound cold but if you know me what my life's been like then you understand my self protection aspect is high the way I see things is you do me wrong I'll drop you faster than light travels and not care. I'm not going to waste my time on what I perceive is a slight. 

No idea on why people will string along another or whatever it is. The facts of the matter are if your on this site or one similar then online is good to a degree a few months then well I want the real thing. I get annoyed at being strung along same as everyone else.

So I've been thinking on where my downfall maybe and it might just be my truth that I disclose. So I've decided I'm going to post it if I get what I'm after here.

This is how I'll do it I want messages on this blog page with either of these words (a) Truth. Or (b) Secret.

I'm going to hold off for fourteen days and whichever I get the most of I'm going to do.

Why I'm sick of explaining myself and digitally watch them fuck off its not fair. This way of life holds some very dark corners mine are dark and I'm willing to shine a fucking spot light on it. So another question is, is it my truth or their insecurities and I'll await feedback on this post.

Until then play safe.

J

TakenLower - Are you being too honest too fast?
6 years ago
Miss Magdalena​(sub female){FreeSpirit} - I second what TakeLower said. Online provides some sense of freedom to feel not censor what you say to others and things you may not disclose so quickly in person you do online. Do you have the same results when you meet people in person? Is everything the same in the timing and appropriate amount of comfort on both sides? Do you disclose so much upfront irl as you do online? While it can be easier to get to know someone online it can also be considerably harder due to lack of body language and facial expressions to take cues from.
6 years ago
Master_Jax​(dom male){Lil Ms Gem} - I find that when things start off its good but I'm one for full disclosure because my past to be honest scares people and my view is be upfront then no one can say there was a hidden agenda. I don't let my past divine me as a person but it does define how I am a version of myself today a better version. My darkness is still there but I'm in control not it. I want to live but it seems something prevents me from my wants I need to move beyond it so I can have my wants. If that means I get everything out now or later is it still going to be the same blockade. I'm not sure anymore I'm secure in the knowledge of myself to accept me I'm after others to. Thanks for your insight into my post and I'm still thinking on my next move do or don't its going to be hard to begin with or it won't. Thanks again.
J
6 years ago
Bunnie - I think sometimes what can happen is that someone may love the IDEA of something, but then when faced with the actual REALITY of it their fear kicks in and they run. It could just be that they’re not ready yet... but I think more commonly, people realise it’s not where they truly want to go. Some people are happy just splashing in the shallow waters and that’s ok. The unfortunate problem is being the “other person” because it’s disappointing.
6 years ago

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