I'll start with this isn't a put down to anyone!!!
I've been reading some blogs from Dom's/Sub's/Switches and others.
I have to say there are a lot of people not knowing what they want or not getting what they want.
And then there's the ones that frankly I'll say it YOUR ON THE WRONG SITE!!!!!
But back to the wants that's all people. I'm not going to pity anyone of you because that's belittling you and that's wrong.
I do hope the Dom's that are good people find their sub's you deserve to be happy so toe dippers don't apply to them.
Also the Sub's vet your potential Dom don't do shit for them unless their willing to meet your needs too. No internet, no phone calls, no nothing its a two way relationship.
Also I feel I have to put this in you others the trans and such believe me I'm not being disrespectful here I just don't know the terms. Don't put up with the shit you've been getting and those that were giving it I'll say this fuck you.
Each of us is a person each of us has suffered each of us wants what we want so it takes time and sometimes its not a week or a month its years.
Don't settle if its not right I've done vanilla that shit don't work you are always looking for more than they can give you just end up with broken hearts.
Find him or her or whatever as long as its lawful who out there should care. You shouldn't let anyone say your a deviant and if they do just tell them to fuck off.
You are what you are love it because no matter if your straight/bi/gay/Dom/sub/switch/trans or whatever else is out there you deserve respect your hearts are pure and you shine with beauty.
All the jerks that contact you asking this or that but not giving in return are just jerking off at your expense. That shit isn't right be proud stand up straight and give the Ill fitter's the big old finger.
Only whip when you have!
Only submit when you have!
Only obey when you have!
Only control when you have!
The right person for you.
Play safe.
J
