2 weeks ago. Jul 29, 2020, 6:31 AM
Many years ago, my former Owner and i drafted this document as the blueprint/guideline to O/our relationship. She felt it was so thorough that others can use it in there D/s relationships, for as long as it was based on High Protocol. After a few years of meeting people in the community and sharing this document, W/we soon learned that most people disapproved of it. Vehemently. The general impression W/we got was that people do not like to be told how to live their bdsm lives. Much like in any other lifestyle (surprise surprise). And that every relationship is unique, it has its own dynamics, and no 'slave guide' can ever act as a blueprint to all. W/we agreed with the general consensus, though it seemed some of it was ego driven backlash to me. Anyway, i thought i'd share this document here on The Cage.
1. THE GOLDEN RULE: i am my Mistresses property. i have no rights but those granted to me by my Mistress.
2. THE MANTRA: my sole purpose is to serve, obey, and please Mistress. i will be available to serve Her anytime, at any place, and under any circumstance.
3. THE POWER: O/ours is a Total Power Exchange relationship (TPE). Mistress has control over me at all times. i give up all of my rights in favor of Mistress and trust that She will do what's best for O/our relationship.
4. THE GODDESS: i will worship my Mistress as a divine Goddess. One who created this version of me. i will LOVE HER and FEAR HER equally. i have sublime faith in her, she is always with me. Being HERS is heaven. And without HER is hell.
5. THE EXCLUSIVITY: i will remain exclusive to my Mistress. i will not serve other Mistresses unless given permission to do so by Her.
6. THE SELFLESS SERVANT: i am a selfless servant to my Mistress. i will serve without any expected reciprocation. If Mistress decides to reward me for my service, i shall be forever grateful and humbled.
7. THE IMPROVED SELF: i will thrive to become an object of great value for my Mistress. i am mindful that existing in this space requires hard work and dedication. The foundation of self improvement involves a healthful mind and body.
8. THE PRESENTATION: At beginning of each day, i shall present myself to Mistress fully naked, knees touching ground with head bowed. If Mistress has me collared, i must present Her the leash to control. If She requires Her mantra repeated, i shall do so with honor.
9. THE MAKERS MARK: To further establish ownership of Her property, i am required to carry Mistresses name on my body in a place of Her choosing.
10. THE FINANCIAL DOMINANT: i am my Mistresses workhorse. Her financial slave. My main purpose in earning income is to provide for Her comfort in life. She will decide where i work and how the money is spent. i trust Mistress to keep my interest in mind in the process.
11. THE DOMESTIC SERVANT: It is my duty to handle all of the domestic chores in and out the house on a daily basis. In addition to chores, i am to serve as the house waiter on demand.
12. THE CORPORAL PUNISHMENT: If i am to be corrected for displeasing my Mistress, i will endure any and all physical discipline from my Mistress. During corporal punishment sessions, safe words are not allowed.
13. THE HUMILIATRIX: Because my ego is my enemy, Mistress will combat it's nature by constant humiliation and degradation of Her slave. In private or public setting. In verbal or physical form. Nothing is off limits to Mistress, no matter how extreme or perverted in nature.
14. THE CUCKOLDRESS: It's understood that Mistress may have intimate 'needs' that She feels i cannot possibly provide for Her. For this reason alone, Mistress may choose to have a 'significant other' in which She engages in certain 'activities' with. i will be fully supportive of Her activities in any possible way.
15. THE CHASTITY: Her penis, Her property. Under strict rules of chastity, i am to never release or pleasure myself under any circumstance. Doing so will likely result in severe corporal punishment or a more prolonged chastity lockdown.
16. THE TEMPLE WORSHIP: Mistresses body is the temple in which i worship. Every inch of Her is precious, i adore. If ever She allows me the pleasure of worshipping at Her temple, i will accept and forever cherish the opportunity.
17. THE SEX SLAVE: i am my Mistresses sex slave. Her anal whore. Her oral slut. i am addicted to her perverted and nasty ways. It's my duty to please Her sexually anytime, at any place, and under any circumstance. When my mouth is not in use, it should stay shut. When my cock is not in use, it should stay locked. When my ass is not in use, it should stay plugged.
18. THE WASTE NOT WANT NOT: Mistresses waste is my treasure. Of all the services i can provide for Her, none can be more rewarding. None more intimate.
19. THE PRIVILEGED LIFE: Mistress may grant me certain privileges in life. But only if i have earned them by Her. The 'privileged life' may include certain hobbies or pastimes i enjoy. i must always be mindful that these privileges are Her blessings, and not a right. They can be taken away at any moment without any notice or reason. i will be thankful to her whether granted or stripped of them.
20. THE FINAL SAY: Building a healthy and sustainable TPE relationship requires open discussion and honesty. In most situations, issues are discussed at length and my thoughts taken into consideration even though Mistress has final say and control in all matters.