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Reflections in the dark mirror

Just my musings on 5 decades of the lifestyle
I am here when you are in need
I am here when your mind is freed
I am here if you want to walk
I am here if you want to talk
I cannot write more verse today
My mind like yours is far too frayed
All I can say to you is
I am here

Reginald Miles
3 months ago. January 11, 2024 at 4:23 AM

It’s 4:18am , been awake since 2:00am, brain won’t shut down ! 
So many things buzzing my bonce

-relationships changing 

-received divorce papers yesterday 

-wondering where the future lies

-what happens next 

-move forward or give up !!


Sighs all valid thoughts but no answers ! 

3 months ago. December 25, 2023 at 9:59 AM

If anyone has Prime there’s a a great film about body positivity! It’s called My body is not obscene, well worth a watch 💙

3 months ago. December 21, 2023 at 9:02 PM

Thank You Purĕ for the challenge. Don’t blame me if I put you off your Christmas festivities!

The original challenge can be found below

https://thecage.co/blog/userblog.php?blog_id=159424&postid=88400#anc 

3 months ago. December 21, 2023 at 6:25 PM

On this the Winter Solstice Day Eve, I wish you all
HEALTH, to enjoy the festive period and the coming year!


WEALTH, of knowledge to grow and develop on your journey!


HAPPINESS, of mind and soul to be true to yourself!

As the Sun returns let’s all just be grateful that we are here to enjoy it ! 💙

4 months ago. December 8, 2023 at 6:28 AM

5 months ago. November 16, 2023 at 6:30 AM

Have this one on me ! 

 

Don't you cry for the lost
Smile for the living
Get what you need and give what you're given
Life's for the living so live it
Or you're better off dead

5 months ago. November 14, 2023 at 3:17 AM

Just had the most amazing six days with an awesome girl !

We watched Disney for hours !

Had amazing popcorn! 

Camped out in the living room !

Went to McDonald’s because who doesn’t need another squishmallow ?

Had so many hugs and cuddles !

Just the best time !

Anyone that knows me knows exactly who the special girl is, my little soul mate 💙

6 months ago. September 30, 2023 at 5:20 AM

Since I popped a note in here ! 

I’m  now 8 months into flying solo and life feels good, I’ve got my little home the way I want it, I have a job a couple of days a week, to help me support myself until the marital home sells (market is dead at the moment) my health is much improved and I’m steadily losing weight, which in turn makes me feel better, both mentally and physically! 

I have new friends both inside and outside of the kink world and recently got involved in Steampunk which I’m loving ! 

So yes I would definitely say it’s never too late to start again ! After enduring years in an abusive marriage I can honestly say I don’t regret walking away ! 

I have found me again 💙

1 year ago. March 5, 2023 at 5:41 AM

So Friday night’s event was billed as a celebration of a certain Gentlemans, 80 trips around the Sun, well, he certainly celebrated his birthday in style ! People came from far and wide, a technicolour whirlpool of costumes and various states of undress! 

Many kinksters strutting their stuff, every age, size and shape gender, you could think of all there enjoying being free to celebrate their lifestyle choices ! 

The seating arranged around the play area allowed, good visibility of all the action, the impact play was a joy to watch, flicking, whips, thuddy paddles, stinging crops, and many tailed floggers! Some subs dancing to the tune. Others stood stoically throughout the impact play.
Others were demonstrating their skills with rope play intricate patterns drawn on their body with rope, pulling them into positions that were a joy to watch! 

Then there was a vacuum bed, a latex envelope that many rested the bodies in, as the air was sucked out, breathing and communication was only possible through the small mouth tube, but it was amazing watching the latex draw tight around the body so a huge thank you to all participants! 

So all in all a wonderful night out amongst people that understand this lifestyle totally, enjoying the freedom it brings, allowing them to be themselves.

 

1 year ago. February 24, 2023 at 8:32 AM

First full on kink night out for decades! 

Donimation was a great event to kick off my new life in style ! 

Great venue, fun folk, amazing outfits !, loved the play area! 

So good to be out and around so many like minded folks! 

Lots more to come 😈😈