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5 years ago. January 11, 2019 at 4:30 AM

We are all human. At least on the outside physically no matter our inner mindset. With that being said, every person, pup, little, sub or dom learns in different ways. This is just a fact that is part of life and it is something that some people tend to forget I think. What works for one person may not work for someone else. Now you may be saying wait a minute, Doms do the teaching! This is inncorect however, yes I admit they do teach a lot of handy and very useful skills that are also very fun at times for many things. However, they are not all knowing and they learn just the same as anyone else. In fact there are many skills that those who do not identify as a Dom have to offer and can actually teach that are also quite useful as well.

See the thing about that is that everyone learns in different ways. They see the world differently and what works for one person may or may not work for another. Being able to translate skills into words and teaching abilities that another can understand is a skill that we aquire in our lifetime. It comes easily and naturally to some people which is great, however others have to work for that skill. They struggle to learn how best to use this skill, how to interpet signals from others and how to figure out the best way to teach another the skills they have to offer. Words of kindness and encouragement are fantastic tools to help boost someone's confidence up and show them they are on the right track. Gentle corrections when they are wrong along with an explanation as to why they are wrong helps them understand and correct the issue in the future.

Knowing a person and how they see things always helps but also treating people like actual human beings not like they are to be disgarded because they are not what you expect of them is what a real educator and decent human being does. The person who is wrong is the one who attempts to teach, gets it wrong and cannot fully explain themselves to someone, then they end up getting it wrong. The person then goes off getting angry, degrading the student for being an idiot, and stupid. For not understanding and therefore being worthless and not worth teaching. This is a bad teacher and inpatient person in general. A real teacher in the face of failure or a students misunderstanding, instead of giving up, looks at the student, takes time to understand the problem, then goes about finding a new way to teach the same thing in a new way that the student will be able to understand better.

 

This is called teaching with empathy and compassion for others. Changing how you do things in order to help another person learn a skill you have and become the very best they can at it and become great at it so they blossom like a beautiful sunflower reaching for the light. If you want to be a teacher then be the sun, help the flowers grow and reach for the light by opening their petals, expanding their worlds and shining brightly.


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