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4 years ago. April 13, 2019 at 12:50 PM

Regarding messages sent to females (this female more specifically)

my “hard no” limits on messaging:

 

1. If your initial message is 3 words long. 😕

 

2. If your initial message is 3 words long and they are spelled incorrectly. 😬

 

3. If your nickname, message title, message itself mentions your dick and/or dick size. 👋

 

4. If the bulk of your initial message contains information about kink or fetishes. Is your boner typing or are you? Yes, we are on a BDSM website. I personally do not wish to dish out the skinny of what I’m into to every Dom I meet/chat with.  

 

5. If your initial message contains a photo that suggests you may currently be residing in your vehicle. I understand we all have hard times. But go ahead and put the keys in the ignition and head the opposite direction bc I personally enjoy a man with a residence. 

 

6. Unless you come Pinot Grigio, please do not tell me you can “own me”. It just is not going to happen!

 

...the messages that I love are the ones I receive that feel genuine...

 

asking a a specific question about something I wrote in a forum, blog or on my profile..

 

taking time to to share information about yourself as a person, and asking me questions about myself.

 

I love to hear from someone who is  just genuinely inquisitive, interested or willing to share about themselves (vanilla parts, I want to know you as a person, then may feel comfortable/interested in sharing more details).

 

 

Miss Tia​(masochist female){Taken} - Oh my goodness...I so agree on this wholeheartedly!!
4 years ago
Satindragon{N/A} - I completely agree with you well written.
4 years ago
Sweet Ginger​(sub female){} - Yes, thank you for posting this! So thankful for the block button sometimes..
4 years ago
HGB​(sub female){Scottish M} - I can handle a car picture not a preference but. Now the big nono is public bathroom selfie. Really go outside, ask someone to take your picture.
4 years ago
Lotus​(sub female) - Agreed. A car photo isn’t the worst BUT if they are actually living out of it or appear to be. 🚩..public bathroom selfie is up there with the worst, for sure.
4 years ago

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