MasterBear(other butch)

M/s 24/7

This is what I do. What do you think ?

4 years ago. June 18, 2019 at 2:30 AM

I was approached by a gentleman who was interested in me being his Master.

He is very sweet, red flags all over.

So I said- if you are interested in serving me then I have a piece of homework for you first.

I sent him an article that I had published and gave the instruction that he would read it and then ask me three questions about it.

I havent heard back from him.

I oftentimes find that when approached by s types if I ask them to think they quickly become disinterested in serving me.

This hurts my feelings not one bit.

I want to know how they think, what they feel, what they can bring to my table.

If they aren't able to articulate those things we wont work anyway.

But I was kind of wondering what others thought about this process.

djinni(dom female){smplylaura} - I think it’s a brilliant way to open communication. It shows they can follow directions, critical thinking and effort. People are lazy.... “do me do me” mentality ..... but this lifestyle is not for the feint of heart or the lazy. Done properly it’s effort on both parts.

4 years ago

Lotus(sub female) - If I’m interested in a Dom I enjoy when he asks me questions and gives hw such as what you mentioned. To me that shows there’s a genuine interest and curiosity.

4 years ago

ZoomOut - Just posted about this type of thing earlier! I don’t want some random serving words. I want to know you and what makes you *you* if we’re going to have any relationship.

4 years ago

ZaftigV(switch female){sub matt} - This, I think, is how to separate the lifestyle peeps from the purely sexually motivated and selfish ones.

4 years ago

Hidden Secret(sub female) - I think that this is a great idea.
It will definitely separate those who are serious from those who just want a kinky quickie (that's a tongue twister right there. Lol!)

4 years ago

Angel Wings(sub female) - Wonderful idea!! If they are interested or interesting that would tell all.

4 years ago

Angel Wings(sub female) - Wonderful idea!! If they are interested or interesting that would tell all.

4 years ago

SoaringFree(sub female) - I think it is a great idea! When I was "interviewing" Doms I gave them a submissive scenario and asked for their opinion. Their answer gave me more information than most would think. It really helped bring down the numbers.

4 years ago

Bunnie - I think if it’s important to you it’s important to know if they’re compatible with that.

4 years ago

Max Sterne(dom male){Morley} - Much respect! A rational and dynamic approach. I like it a lot!

4 years ago

hisbaby(sub female){MDG} - I think if they where ibterestednthey would do as you ask.

4 years ago

Curlyniccia{Protected} - I think the same is for subs. If our conversations are just about sex it wont work. I am more than a sexual object. I am a person with thoughts, feelings and emotions. I have the right for any Dom to know me. The real me. Brilliant post x

4 years ago

SchrodingersDinosaur(switch female) - Good idea MasterBear! There is nothing wrong with folks who do only want casual play, but it's important that they identify that about themselves and not everyone does. Some subs really want the equivalent of a Pro Dom/me...someone to tell them what to do and play with them on the subbie's terms, but with no deeper connection. Your method definitely would weed that type out quickly. Kudos, - Henna

4 years ago

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MasterBear​(other butch)

M/s 24/7

This is what I do. What do you think ?

MasterBear(other butch)