Besides the obvious sadomasochistic bedroom play, giving rules, making orders, and creating routines, there are many “Dominant” things Sir does in our day to day lives that make my submissive heart melt and my thighs quiver. Because our dynamic is so diverse, these things range from traits of a Master to those of a Caregiver. Here a some that come to mind:
1. Holds my wrist rather than my hand
2. Puts his hand on the small of my back to guide me in the direction he wants me to go
3. Grabs my ponytail and pulls me back when I start to walk away without his consent
4. Loops his finger in my collar to pull me closer for a kiss or to bite my neck
5. Sits on the edge of the couch or bed and pats his thigh for me to crawl to him
6. Pulls me along behind him when leading me somewhere (through stores, restaurants, etc.)
7. Pets my head
8. Orders my food at restaurants
9. Tells me at least once every day that I am his
10. Angles my head by hooking his thumb under my jaw line
11. Calls me HIS slut, HIS whore, HIS favorite plaything, HIS pet
12. Smirks at my pouts and whimpers
13. Opens my door
14. Talks about me to others in front of me, the same as if I weren’t there
15. Gives my cheek a little slap when I say something sassy (mostly playful but with a tiny hint of a warning)
16. Buckles my seat belt
17. Tells me to go to bed
18. Smokes cigars and drinks Old Fashioneds
19. Roles his sleeves up to his forearms
20. Brings me my stuffies when he senses I need one to cuddle
The list is endless. Being a Sir, my Sir, is just who he is. It exudes from his pores. And I’m the lucky kitten who gets to call him mine.
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