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8 months ago. Sep 17, 2019, 4:00 AM

So today was a very eye opening day. For those who do not know I am married but I had a secret craving for things that I worried my husband would frown upon, possibly be turned off by. It took me a long time to open up to him about my darker and deeper desires. He was very shocked needless to say, as well as uncertain of what true BDSM is, as opposed to what was projected in 50 Shades of Gray. It has been drilled into his head that living this lifestyle was frowned upon. This led to a mutual agreement that I could search for a Dom to fulfill my needs. During this period of time, unbeknownst to me, he began to read, research, and educate himself on the different aspects of the lifestyle. It came as a complete shock when he sat me down and told me that he honestly felt this is something he truly desired and needed in his life as well. Our marriage has had some issues, largely because I unwillingly took the role of the dominant in our marriage which left me unhappy and unsatisfied. At the same time, it left him feeling emasculated. We talked for 5 hours today, deeply discussing every little detail. We discussed our feelings, thoughts, needs, desires, limits, punishments, rewards, rules etc. In the end, we both came to the mutual decision to travel this journey together, and grow as a couple in the lifestyle.

Serene​(sub female){Covalent} - I am so happy for you! 🧡 It is so fulfilling to go through this journey with a spouse. I wish the two of you the best of luck.
8 months ago
DarkKitten​(sub female){ObsidianWo} - Thank you I really appreciate it. Today honestly was the happiest I have been in years.
8 months ago
Bunnie - This! This is what I absolutely love to read about! I’m so very, very happy for you both :D
Good luck on this journey together, I wish you both the best :)
8 months ago
DarkKitten​(sub female){ObsidianWo} - Thank you, I definitely never expected it when he said we needed to have a serious talk.
8 months ago
ObsidianWolf​(dom male){DarkKitten} - Heh heh heh... surprised you, didn't i...
8 months ago
Sparkalina - Wow! What a journey to grow in together :) I wish you the best as you navigate through this
8 months ago
DarkKitten​(sub female){ObsidianWo} - Thank you!
8 months ago
ObsidianWolf​(dom male){DarkKitten} - I am so glad my kitten confided in me about this. She's right. Today was, for the first time in a while, a fun, happy day for both of us. I am looking forward to growing and experiencing everything with her.
8 months ago
Bunnie - Welcome to the Cage and the lifestyle, Obsidian, it’s lovely to meet you. I wish you both the best on this journey together :)
8 months ago
TreasureMe​(sub female) - This is so beautiful. Incredibly happy that you both had this break through. It'll only bring you closer to each other. So awesome
8 months ago
DarkKitten​(sub female){ObsidianWo} - Thank you!
8 months ago
SirsSunrise​(sub female) - This post brings me joy! So happy for the two of you!!
8 months ago
proudbbw{A7X} - Yay!!! This is one of the best reads today!!! Hugs dk.. and welcome to the family ObsidianWolf🤗🤗
8 months ago
ObsidianWolf​(dom male){DarkKitten} - Thank you.
8 months ago
proudbbw{A7X} - Your very welcome
8 months ago
Wicked Ways​(dom male){venia} - This, makes my heart smile ❤️😬
So happy for you both !!!!

~Wicked
8 months ago
DarkKitten​(sub female){ObsidianWo} - Thank you!
8 months ago
LucyBall - This is so sweet! A true win for communication and love 💕...all the best!
8 months ago
His little bunny​(sub female){Considerin} - This is wonderful news :) very happy for you both
8 months ago
DaddyAnt​(dom male) - I agree with Bunnie. This is what is supposed to happen in a dynamic. It is a beautiful thing when love exists in it. The intensity of love is incredible. The intensity of sex is incredible. I am thrilled that Obseidian Wolf stepped up to the plate and went and did the reading and studying to give you, Dark Kitten, what your soul needed, a Dom. Kitty and I are rooting for you and we both are available for any advice you two want, just want a sounding board, or a friend.
-DA
8 months ago
DarkKitten​(sub female){ObsidianWo} - Thank you so much! I am sure we would both enjoy talking with you and kitty to help us understand the DD/lg dynamic better as well.
8 months ago

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