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My Journey Through Life: Vanilla and Non-Vanilla

where I express my thoughts, stories, opinions and more on my journey as being a sub and little will be presented. Most things will be on what I’m experiencing/experienced and if not it will be mention within the post. Thank you for reading~ ❤
4 years ago. October 14, 2019 at 12:30 AM

Hallo world.


So I wanted to talk about something that just kinda happened not to long ago. So I sometimes check out the profiles on the site. To get a feel how people are. What type of person are they. So someone loved my profile and I was tempted to read. So I read this person’s profile and I’m honestly is kinda interested but I don’t wanna reach out because the right dom will come to me and sometimes it makes me want to take the (not lookin) off my name. But then again I could be rushing it because I want to fully start. I don’t know my mindset has been at a place that not making sense to me so I’m confused. At times when I’m like this I scare myself because I can become irrational and think this is what I want. But in the end it may just be what I think I want. I hope this makes sense. This is kinda how my mind works at times and feel like I’ll start to freak out. It also makes me realize from what I wrote earlier that I truly may not be ready because of how I am now. It can also just be how I am as a person.


Ughh sometimes I don’t understand and wish someone could just tell me this and that and just intune it into my head for it to make sense but It doesn’t work that way. I need to figure it out myself to fully understand who I am. 


Thank you for reading


Hugs and friendly kisses~


Tae❤️

SSG{ENM-TLP} - I have a lot of "loves" on my profile. NONE of them have been ANY of the Doms that I've had a connection with. Just sayin. I do agree that if you want them to let you know they are interested, you need to take the collar off (if you're ready) because a Dom who is going to truly respect you is going to honor that collar and not contact you. If the collar is blank, the Dom who feels a strong draw to you (and not all great situations work like that--some are actually intentionally formed), He is going to let you know of His interest without any hesitation. What kind of Dom do you want? One that you have to pursue? Who is the Dom in that situation? Or the One who is going to pursue you and let you know without question that He is interested? It really does boil down to what you want. The right One is worth the wait. I know the waiting game is rough, but you're still new here. Keep doing what you're doing. You're doing great little one.
4 years ago
princesstae​(sub female) - I want them to contact me if interested. I stop myself from contacting because to me it feels rushed.
4 years ago
SSG{ENM-TLP} - When you ARE ready for them to begin contacting you, be sure to add to your profile that you would like to take it slow. When I see the avatar that you chose, I see it as a slow, flirty, let me come around to you type of start. Tell them what it is you are looking for.
4 years ago
princesstae​(sub female) - I will and thank you. :)
4 years ago

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