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My journey is a road I travel most of the time with friends by my side. Some days I walk alone, others I hold someone's hand. This is my journey on cage. If you really want to know about me go back 2 years ago to my first blog. Enjoy
4 years ago. January 16, 2020 at 1:05 PM

After care
This is something we all need and deserve. Even a D needs this. The emotions and adrenaline are so high during a session both need to take care after hece the name.

That isnt what this is about. After care is so much more and used in so many other times. Like for me right mow the after care fron changing my status is something I need.

LL is still mine my heart wont ever let go, I will wait and guide him home. Now home is where ever the heart is so sometimes you have to let go and encourage them in order to find their home. (If that makes sense I'm rambling through tears)

LL and I check on eachother multiple times a day because this choice wasnt easy for us. I ask the hard questions and make him think he tries to remind me to breathe. We are supporting eachother we are helping eachother (I dont know about me I'm off and my thoughts are everywhere) we are trying to keep the other cared for.

I hope you see my point D/s is a deep deep thing. When there is a bump in the relationship it's so important to keep checking on eachother. If there is a bad split then as a community we need to make sure those people are okay. We provide the after care.

Love eachother hug eachother and be thankful for every moment

Now I'm off to cuddle with my blanket ( yes my jack skellington) and let my tears fall more eventually they will stop or I'll be hooked up to another iv bag....

No matter what path you take, what journey or adventure you go on I will leave the candle burning in the window, I will shine the green light from my porch and my heart will call to you. You will always be able to find your way to me.
As promised always yours
J

CrimsonRose - I like the new avatar you are surrounded by light just as I picture you when I am praying. The alarms are calling me. But know that positive vibes are on the wind to you. Blessings TX
4 years ago
Satindragon{N/A} - You will make it through this. It will just take some time. Work on being the best version of you.

We are here for you. ..

❤️Dragon Hugs ❤️
4 years ago
TakenLower - Sending a hug, it’s hard to do but worth it if you can remain friends.
4 years ago
ulfhednar - I honestly wish i had words to comfort you or make you smile on this but occassionally there are times where litterally the only thing i can do is saude off and let you be to figure it out and heal which you both will all it takes is time
4 years ago
Morley​(sub female){Max Sterne} - I echo Satin and send big hugs and strength to you both. ❤️❤️❤️
4 years ago
Sweet Ginger​(sub female){} - I'm sorry you are going through this.. It wasn't that long ago my Daddy and I parted ways briefing the pain of losing someone you love is deep, like losing part of yourself.. Perhaps, in time the two of you will make it back to each other... Nothing is ever impossible but in the meantime, be good to yourself, take warm baths, continue Journaling,
Get the thoughts and feelings out, watch silly movies that make you smile and take one minute at a time, one day at a time.. Whatever the outcome, I wish both of you the best!
4 years ago

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