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Thoughts of a sub whose seen too much in her young life.
4 years ago. February 2, 2020 at 7:06 PM

Well it is Superbowl Sunday here in the US. Which means parties, drinking and agruing who will win (in my experiences anyway). It's also the day, every year, I realize how different I am from the rest of my family. They always seem to "forget" to invite me to their houses to enjoy the party and see people.

 

This year my father actually shocked me and told me I was invited to my little brothers house for the Superbowl party. "Oh Awesome!" Thanks. He told me that a few weeks ago.  Today comes and he let slip that my brother didn't want me there because I don't like football. Why invite me if all I'm going to is sit around and not enjoy myself? 

 

I'll admit my entire family knows I do not like to drink. It's just who i am. And yes I do not like football. But who said I wouldn't enjoy spending time with other people? So while I had been all excited about going even if for an hour or two now I don't see the reason.

 

Instead I'll stay at my dad's house where I am currently staying with the kids. My ex husband is going and I'll be here with them. It's fine.  It's the normal every year. So I guess I'm saying what's New? They always exclude me when it comes to lots of things. I just need to put on my big girl panties and get over it.

 

Be kind.

Pandabear.

alawey​(sub female){(OWNED BY } - Personally i think that this is SOOOOO FUCKED UP. Sorry hun , hugs to you. I grew up in a football family even though me mum didnt really care that much about it.

We always had get togethers, it wasnt just about football , drinks , or such . it was about seeing everyone.

You would have been welcomed any and every time.
4 years ago
Pandabear​(sub female) - Thank you. I'm going to do a girls night with my girls instead. :)
4 years ago
naughtiangel​(sub female){Taken} - I say put those big girl panties and show up, to show the world them. And then put on your biggest happiest face to just prove him wrong....this is what i would do to just not be defeated, besides I'm sure there will be some good super bowl snacks!! ((Hugs))
4 years ago
Pandabear​(sub female) - I think I'm going to do a girls night with my girls. My dad left us a case of wings and I'm going to make some chili! Just like the would have at the party. Got a case of Dr.Pepper too.
4 years ago
alawey​(sub female){(OWNED BY } - Well i say "backward s day then.

Pjs all day movies dinner food for breakfast and breakfast food for dinner
4 years ago
Pandabear​(sub female) - I'm thinking cookie cake!!!
4 years ago
TheLittlePrincess​(sub female){SSG} - So sorry that happened. But good for you turning it around and having your own little party. I bet you'll have more fun anyway.
4 years ago
Pandabear​(sub female) - Especially bc I can let out my little side now!!!
4 years ago
TheLittlePrincess​(sub female){SSG} - See! That is waaaaay better than being big and having to watch a boring game
4 years ago
Pandabear​(sub female) - I agree!
4 years ago
BlueFire​(dom male) - You can come to my house next year, lol. No real alcohol, and I’m used to watching with people who have no interest in it. :)
4 years ago
Pandabear​(sub female) - Maybe lol
4 years ago

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