The Green Mile...I think its one of the greatest movies (we can agree to disagree). The fascination with empaths and healing really bloomed with the idea of taking something from someone and healing them. Taking pain, suffering...whatever it may be. If you are unfamiliar with the idea, according to the dictionary, an empath "a person with the paranormal ability to apprehend the mental or emotional state of another individual". Fixing it or taking it back as John Coffey would say throughout the movie. We are all given our gifts.
I often see Dominants as empaths and healers. For me, a Dominant takes away pain, anxiety and emotional stress and replaces with calm, structured thought. Sometimes it's through touch, meditation, or a calming voice. As a result of this gift, so many have, I think they carry the emotional weight of so many. What a heavy load! Imagining caring and putting yourself out there are often to be there for someone.
I think this is why I say with the sincerest of hearts, we, submissives owe it to all Dominants to be careful and cautious with our Dominants, in any capacity. As we are treasures to them, they are treasures to us. I am reminded of the grateful behavior of all the characters when John Coffey "takes" from them. We should be as gracious to our Dominants who "take" from us.
I sincerely apologize for not being gracious. I promise to move forward with the respect, kindness and graciousness for the kindness that has been bestowed and may be bestowed upon me.
