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The purpose of this blog is about Slave Training, Mind Control, and living the life 24/7 It is focused on training methods, building trust, finding out what makes you slave/sub tick and how to use that to train them, it also focuses on hypnosis and creating triggers to cause spicific reactions and develop permanent behaviors. Ways of handling the the day to day of normal life. Rules, and a plan for your training, building a guide for what you want your slave to become, contracts, limits, and expectations. Unless you have unlimited time and resources living the lifestyle in a total 24/7 way can be complicated. The idea is to create an evolving frame work that can adapt to the changes in life and still keep the relationship strong, and healthy.
6 years ago. March 17, 2018 at 5:42 AM

BDSM Games:


This is a list I decided to make after hearing about a list of sex games, thought I would give it a shot and see if I could make some BDSM games, these are written with a female slave in mind but can be adapted to any sub or even multiple subs, I could have written more if I included some of the more extreme fetishes and more players, this is more focused on one Master and one slave, though I have included a few variations for a second slave in certain games. The games are more for the amusement of the Master, but a slave will find pleasure as well. Some of these game have training applications as well as learning opportunities and can be good tools if you wish to employ them for that purpose.
I like to call these The Dirty Dozen BDSM Games. They are fairly tame in my opinion as they are designed to be enjoyed by both participants, of course each slave is different and so some may be more harsh to some and more mild to others. Now the let the Games begin.

 

Truth or Pain:


This game for one or more slaves.
This is a long game 40 minutes or more, you might want to set a time limit, something like 20 minutes.
The purpose of the game is to focus a slave on her place as a slave, and find out what a slave's focus is.
A slave should be bound in a manner that allows easy access to all of her body, hands over her head is a good way to do this, keep her on her tip toes so she will have to focus on standing. Use nipple weights and clamps, put a vibe in her ass and cunt one that you can control the settings on. Pull her clit out as a target for you whip or crop, I prefer the crop for this game. To make it more interesting you could blind fold her. I also like arm binders and pulling her up from that would also be good fun. It is called Strapedo bondage.

Rules
ask a question of your slave, she is to answer as fast as she can, for the duration of her answer you whip her all over her body, until she answers.

She gets points for right answers and looses points for each wrong answer.
Set the points to be achieved at a high number between 250 to 500.

Right answers:
True answer = 5 points.
Pleasing answer = 2 points
A thoughtful answer = 3 points

Wrong answers:
A slave may say I don't know and receive -7 points.
A slave may request to guess and a wrong answer will equal -3 points
A slave may lie to please her master but if she is caught she will loose -10 points


The type of questions can be simple yes or no, or questions that require a specific answer, they can be questions which require a longer answer. She is whipped until she has finished her answer, whip once every 1 to 3 seconds depending on how much she can take.

The game ends when ether she reaches the set number of points or the time runs out, if the time runs out before she reaches the score than she is whipped the the number points she is short from the target number.
You can learn a lot about your slave this way, she doesn't have time to think of her answers, so they are more truthful.


Spanking Game:


This is an interesting one, this game is intended to make a slave decide how she will receive a spanking or whipping and where it will be given on her body. You should pick a number, based on what she can take as far as pain and whipping or spanking goes. I will set the number to start with at 300.
Next you should chose at least 3 areas of the body I chose 4. For this I have chosen a female slave. Assign a number value to the target areas. These are multipliers. So you can adjust them as you see fit after you understand there use.
Example:

Cunt: 3
Tits: 2
Ass: 1
Legs: 1

Note there are 2 targets for her tits and ass cheeks and legs so the numbers she choose she be in even numbers for these areas.

Now comes the predicament, she must chose the area and type of spanking or whipping she will receive ton that area. Example: a flogger or crop, hands or a paddle, you can also limit the instruments of choice by laying out the ones she may chose from as an additional predicament she can chose to have harsher instruments used at a reduction of the number say like a single tail on the cunt will count as -2 or -3 depending on her pain tolerance. Where a light flogger will add additional strikes like say +1 or +2, because it is not as painful.
Now as she chooses her locations and number, the location numbers are than used as multipliers. Example: she chooses 10 for her cunt that would be 10 x 3 = 30 from the starting number if she choose 30 for her tits it would be 30 x 2 = 60 than she would have to take 15 on each side.
At this point she would have take 90 off the starting number.
She must use up all the choices to reach the target number, and this is where the harsher implements come in to play.
Say she chooses 5 for her pussy with a single tale it would be 5 x 2 for the implement which is 10 and than 10 x 3 = 30 so now she would get 10 from one implement and 5 from an other for a total of 60 from the starting number right now she would be at 150 off the number. 90+60=150

To add an additional level of predicament to her plight, you can require a set number of spanking for each location. Like no less than 30 on her cunt, 40 on her tits, and 60 on her ass, and 60 on her legs Of course that doesn't add up to the target number of 300, so what remains would have to be taken on her ass or legs. Which would be 110 so she would have to bare 60 more on her ass and 50 on her legs or how ever you chose to distribute them. She could opt to add to the other areas to get that number down. Or choose an implement that will reduce the number. By picking one of the harsher implements for a reduced number. You should also set the number of reductions based on the area she choose to have it used on, so a single tail on the cunt would get more than if it was on her ass or legs.

 

Pain or Pleasure:


This is a version of 20 questions with a twist, this game is for both the Master and the slave to play, it can also be a great way to get to know someone.


First off choose a minimum number of questions to be asked, at least 40 but it should not be limited, higher is better for getting to know someone.

The Rules: You can ask any question on any subject, sexual, personal, knowledge based, random or strange. You can not ask a question on the subject that was just asked the turn before or return to a subject you asked prior to you next question, in other words no questions of the same subject twice in a row, you can return to a subject at a later time.
You must answer the question asked, but have a choice of options, you can say it is too personal, or painful to talk about, you can answer that you don't know the answer, you can guess the answer or you can pass on the question. You get points for asking a question in the same subject vein, Example: the question asked before you turn was a sexual question, and you ask something about there favorite type of erotic art this would be a parallel subject and earn you a point, passing on a question will get a point, guessing and being wrong gets you a points something too personal if you pass gets you a point, if you answer and get it wrong or are caught in a lie you get a point, it should be stated that you can try to bluff an answer, but you should not lie in less the question is something like true or false or am I lying or telling the truth, an example of this would be am I telling the truth about this story? Also have a time limit in which to answer the questions, failure to answer in the time gets a point.
Now for the reward and punishment part. Ff the Master has the most points than the slave may choose a reward or the Master can have a designated reward already in mind. If the slave has the most points she is punished, 10 x the number of points she has ( or what every number you choose) and the type of punishment she will get. Example: for every point she has she will receive x number of flogger strikes.
So if she got 5 points she would get 50 strikes On the reverse side you should have a set number of point that alter the reward, let's say you got 10 points, you could give a bigger reward of each 5 points you got so at 5 the reward would be something better than the base, at 10 points it could be a special request that can be used at a later time, or she could be given two smaller reward like some chocolate or several orgasms, a massage or foot rub.


Task or Trade:


In this game you will come up with a list of tasks and a list if punishments, the tasks should be something that your slave would not really want to do, like licking cum off the floor, walking around with a dildo in for 5 minutes while in high heels, receiving an enema, peeing in the yard, walking around the outside of the house naked while in bondage, answering the door bound and gagged to pay for the pizza, suck my cock and make me cum in x amount of time, try to come up with at least 20 things you can give as a task make sure they are not something she would like or are easily preformed. Than come up with a list of punishments for both trade or as a result of failure, these should also be a little harsher, so they are not desirable ether, Example: 10 strikes on her cunt with a riding crop, or 5 lashes with a cane across each breast, sitting on a chair with thumb tacks on it. Or kneeling on thumb tack while giving you head for 5 minutes, standing for 5 minutes with clamps on her nipples, as they are tied above her forcing her to stand on her toes. Be creative, and of course safe, but make them as unpleasant as you can so that they are not a desired choice, but an option for a trade. Set a number of task you intend to have her do say like 20 task to complete the game, offer rewards for success and punishments for failing, give her a point for each success and points for each failure, check the difference and ether reward her or punish her, depending on which is grater. You can add multipliers for failure like she has 4 points difference in failures to success so she will get 10x 4=40 and will receive that many strikes on her body, you could also make them specific to the failure, that could get interesting.

 

The cauldron of lust:


For this game you need a bowel or large can, like a coffee can or similar.
Cut small strips of paper in to equal sizes, approximately 60 or more pieces, 1 inch wide by 6 inches long, write on each piece of paper one of the toys or items you play with. Example: whip, flogger, dildo, cuffs, clamps, and so on, if you have multiple versions of these things than make a distinction between them, like heavy flogger, or single tail. Than write on the remaining pieces numbers from 1 to 100 in increments of 5 so 5, 10, 15, 20, 25. and so on than add to the remaining list ways you play, Example: spanking bench, cross, cage, hanging, crawling, slapping, and so on, finally add the different body parts of your slave you like to use or torture and the different body parts of your self you like her to please, Example: breast, cock, feet, cunt, ass hole, ass, and so on. I would also add things like orgasm and denial to the list sever times maybe 3 or 4. Now fold them in half and half again, and place them in the can, mix the can real good so its all random. Now get a 6 sided dice, like the ones that come with most games people have, if you don't have a dice than you could get 6 small pebbles, or coins and mark a circle on a piece of paper, not to big and toss the them into the ring the number that stays in the circle is the number you have. So now roll the dice and choose that number of pieces from the can take them in order of choice and unfold them, try to connect the selections in to a coherent set of actions. Example: so you might get something like this, whip, crawl, cock, ass. So for this I would make her crawl as she tries to suck my cock and I would whip her on her ass when ever she loose contact with my cock, for something like this you should set a time so you can continue, maybe 3 minutes or more. You can add anything to the list you like 60 is just a good starting number. Try to be creative.

 


The Fuck Hole Game:

 

In this game you will need several types of dildos and insertable objects, make sure you can use something on all your slaves holes, the more the better. For this game you will number them from 1 to what ever number you have, don't tell the order so for the Example lets say you have 20 items. Now assign 3 different numbers to each of her holes like 1, 3, 5, for her pussy, 2, 4, 6 , to her ass, and 7, 9, and 10, for her mouth, leaving one mystery number being 8 so her holes get 1, to 10, each number will represent how she is to use the hole, fucking her self with her hand, holding it in place, riding it up and down like she is fucking it, what ever strikes you fancy. The mystery number is used for you to decide what hole and how it is to be used.
than finally choose 10 or more activities try to keep the number in increments of 10. Like crawling, walking, jumping, bending, spreading legs wide, deep throat, going up stairs, walking out side, sitting down, whipping, spanking, tickling, rocking back and forth on all fours and so on. Than after all the numbers are assigned make her chose an amount of time from 1 to 4 minutes, you can adjust this to suit your taste. After she has chosen the time have her choose a number between 1- 20 for the first part 1-10 for the next part and 1- 10 or 20 for the last part. than you will tell her the toy, which hole to use, what activity to do and for how long to do it. The challenge is she must not let the toy leave the hole or stop using it, if she dose she gets punished, you can make it interesting by punishing her if she orgasms or you can have an orgasm as a reward, once the time is up move on to the next choice.

 

The Dildo Game:


For this game you'll need 5 or more and at least 3 dildos that have a suction base but you can have more dildos
for the Example we will have 5 dildos three with the a suction base than place those dildos in different locations around the room one of the suction ones on a coffee table, one them mounted to a wall or other location at doggy level one on the floor if you have carpet you might need something to stick it to, a plate might work, one laying on something, and the last one tied to a cord hanging at deep throat level, for this game bind your slaves arms behind her back nothing to restrictive, leather cuffs or something similar you should be a little play between her hands. Now have a buzzer set to 90 seconds you will also need a crop or whip when the timer starts she must rush to the first dildo she can and start to fuck what ever hole she can with it she must try to cum each time, you whip her as the timer goes of and she runs to the next dildo, she gains a point for each time she fails to orgasm after 15 minutes than rest the timer at 20 minutes and 180 second have her start again this time for every time she fails to orgasm she gets 2 points, after the timer goes off set it to 30 minutes and 180 seconds she will get 3 points for each failed orgasm, if she fails to orgasm after that time she will be punished the number of points, if she orgasms anytime during the game wipe the points and start a new count. continue until all three cycles have be run. If she fails totally she will receive 80 lashes of your choosing. This number is based on the number of tries she has to orgasm, any orgasm will change this number. Now each dildo has a hole it is meant for, she can never use a dildo more than once a go around so she must always pick a different dildo until she has used them all, after she can choose which to star again on.
The dildo laying on the floor is for her ass only and she will have to use her hands. The hanging one is for her mouth she needs to deep throat it if she has a hard time with that you could attach it to a rod so it will stay in position for her to get it deep. You could add to her score if she fails to take it deep enough and the same with her ass. Or whip her to get her to take it deeper. This is useful for training and be quite amusing.
To add a little more amusement you can take some duct tape and insert thumbtacks on the sticky side and than tape it to the table where the dildo is so she will feel them when she is fucking herself you can even do it on the wall where the other is mounted, and as a final kick you could rub tiger balm or ginger juice on the dildos she puts in her ass and cunt, or on her nipples and and clit. You could add an element where she has to recite her rules, or some special phrase like I am a slut I need to be filled, than whip her when she miss a line or forgets to say it.

 

Rope walk Game:


This game is a beat the clock game or if you have another slave you could make it a race, just replace the clock with the other slave.
You will need a soft cotton or poly blend rope about 3/8 to 7/16 thick, it should be at least 50' long, tie knots in the rope at about every 10 to 12 inches. You should end up with at least 40 knots if you have less space to stretch it out in, than you can increase the number of passes for the round. Now tie each end across a room make sure it is secure and tight, it will flex toward the center that's okay you might have to adjust the height a bit. At least try get it at an inch or so above her cunt from her highest tiptoe position, at each end. Coat the knots with something like tiger balm, icy hot, chilly sauce, or ginger juice, or something similar. Now in this game you will want to bind her arms behind her back, as an option have her ware ultra high heels or ballet boots, add some nipple clamps with weights, or you could even stretch her labia away from the rope with clamps on a chain around her waist, Now she has to cross the rope before the clock runs out, she must make 4 passes on the rope, each direction counts as a pass, don't take her off the rope just make her walk backwards. You should give her a total time to complete the run and a time for each pass something like 20 seconds per pass, and if she fails to complete the pass in that time you can whipping her until she reaches the end. Give her like 2 minutes to complete the run she is not aloud to orgasm or she will be punished, if she wins the round she gets a prize, if she fails she gets punished for the difference in time to complete. you can run her through several times as the softer rope will be less abrasive and allow for more runs. You can see if she can beat her own time offer less punishments if she can. If you plan on running her for a while than you can give her some time in between runs, make her masturbate or use a dildo on her holes, than start again. You may want to refresh the applications on each of the knots. In the case of two slaves you can have the looser take her punishments form her sister slave. Or add the difference in finish time to her punishment, make the winner the favored slave for the day. Or a special treat they both love and the loser has to feed the winner, or watch as she enjoys it.

 


The Candle Game:


In this game she is going to learn to offer her self more to her Master, and his will.
for this game you will need several candles, at least 4 but 6 or even 8 would be better and if they are in a glass holder the better, you will need as much usable wax as you can get. It is human nature to react to pain, in this game you want you slave to do the opposite of that you will choose an area to start her tits or cunt when you drip the hot wax on her nipples or tits she is to push up to accept more of the wax, instead of covering them. Each time she dose what she should she will get a point for the good, and every time she doesn't she will get a point on the bad side she must at least have as twice as many good to bad to win a reward, you will have to remove the wax after a time so the skin is fresh for more wax. You can do this with a crop, whip, or flogger, she won't be tied during this game as you want her to react, this will allow you to apply it to as may areas of her body as you like. Your goal is to try to get her to get as many bad points as you can. If she doesn't get twice the number of good points to bad points she will get the number of bad points times the difference in lashings of your choice or some other punishment you have in mind. And if she exceeds the minimum number of twice as many she will get an even better reward. Based on how far past she is. You can make this even more interesting by adding a vibrating egg or anal plug or both, or a shocking plug that you zap her with as you are about to drop the wax. You can also stimulate the area you intend to drop it on, by first whipping it for a few minutes to get it more sensitive. Or using tiger balm or chilly sauce on her holes and nipples to make it harder for her to concentrate on embracing the wax.

 


Pussy Game:


This game teaches the slave to have strong cunt mussels. In this game you will need a ball about 2 to 3 inches wide with a string attached to one end that hangs down between her legs the ball should fit without falling out easily but should be able to be pulled out with a little effort. Once you have the right size ball tie a hook to the hanging end. The hook should be at least two inches across so it is easy for her to hook something on it by swinging it. Her task is to pick up a weighted object from the floor with the hook with using her hands, it would be better if her hands where tied behind her back so she won't be tempted to use them, once she has the object hooked she is to bring it to a selected area by walking to that area and depositing the object there and going back to get an other, she must hold the ball in her cunt the entire time, every time she looses the object or the ball falls out she gets a point. and must start again. You can make it even more interesting by having something she can set the ball on to get it back in her cunt hole and you can whip her until it is back in and she has a the object on the hook. You should have at least 5 objects to move but I recommend 10. if you only have 5 you can have her move them back to the original location so she can do this a total of 10 you can do as many rounds as you like but I would set a time like on hour to get the most training from her. You can count each dropped item and each time she loose the ball and string a separate things and you use the number or restarts as a multiplier to the score, this will be the total number of punishments she receives. You can make this more difficult by whipping her as she moves the objects across the room, or add some tiger balm or icy hot to the mix on her clit or ass. You could add a hobble chain to her ankles to slow her stride and make the weight swing more. You could even add a vibrating egg to her cunt before you insert the ball with the string. This will make her very wet and harder to keep the ball fro slipping out. She is not aloud to cum. If she manages to get more than half moved with out dropping them she can be given a reward. You can also add to the fun by doing this with her ass and make it a second round, this time use an anal plug with a string attached to it and put a vibe in her cunt to encourage her to focus. This will teach her to grip with her holes when ever they are filled.

 

Lets Make a Slave Shirt:

 

This game is an outdoor sport.
You will need a tight white or light colored tee shirt, 3 black permanent markers and a piece of ribbon I prefer red but color is not important, it needs to be long enough to be able to use around 3 feet and some shorts or light colored tight pants. Tie the ribbon around the laves neck leaving one end long for the pen to be attached to, than write on the tee shirt I am a slut, or I am a slave, or something like that. Now the slave and the Master will go out to a busy public area to get coffee or drinks or what ever Master wants. Now the slave is to walk up to strangers and ask them to write something on her shirt, what ever the person wants, the slave it to encourage the person to write something degrading or embarrassing.
Tell the slave to approach a person and say excuse me I have to get an assignment due and need some help, than say it will only take a minute, when they ask what. She says I need to have you write something on my shirt anything you like, but it should be dirty or embarrassing. Than she will offer the marker to use, if asked any question she will answer truthfully, and she will tell them that her Master is near by watching her. She will encourage them to write something nasty maybe even suggest something. If they rub her or brush against her in some way she is to say nothing as long as they don't try to or get to friendly, if they seem to she can remind them that her master is close. The Master should watch the slave at all times so she will know he is there and can intervene if needed. She is to get as many people as she can to write on her shirt front and back and if the Master is in such a mood on her pants or legs, the slave will have a vibrator in her cunt at all times and the master may turn it on or off as much as he desires. Set a time maybe 2 hours, and see if she managed to get the shirt full. If she orgasms during the process than she gets a point, she is tel tell her master every time she has one. If there is reasonable amount of space left to write on after the two hours than, the Master will fill in the rest and she will get a different set of points for this. She gets a point for every word the Master writes and that is multiplied by the number of orgasms she had that total is the number of punishments she receives. if she has no reasonable space but has received orgasm points she will get 3 x that many orgasms in a row in the dungeon. Her prize is her new slave shirt she can now ware out in public.

 

What's My Number:


For this game you will need a note book and pen the Master will choose 5 numbers from 1 to 100 try to space them out so you can give her a chance to get close to one of your number around 20 points apart give or take choose 5 activities, dildo, whip, anal, oral, clamps, or what ever you like it could be paddle, whip, crop, clamps, orgasm, any combination. You should change the number and the activity each round so she never knows what she will get. Now have the slave pick a number between 1 and 100 what ever number she is closest to she will get that activity. Example: if it is a whipping or something like that she will get 5 times the difference of the activities number. So if your number was 25 and she chose 18 she would get 5x7= 35, lashes 7 being the difference between. If she was to get the orgasm or dildo type choice she would get 20 x the difference, so if she had the same choice as above she would get 20x7=140 seconds to play and try to reach an orgasm. If she choose clamps than the difference could be the number of minutes she must ware them. 7 minutes of the clamps. You could have her standing on her toes as an activity for a period of time say 2x7 for 14 minutes and she would receive a lashing each time she tried to step down on her heels, to make it harder you could put thumbtacks on the floor under her heels so she would step on them when she tries to put her heels down. You could make her endure a tens device for x minutes. The possibilities are endless, just remember to change the activity with each round so she never knows whats next.


This is my Dirty Dozen BDSM Games I hope you like them.

 

Shadowlord


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