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3 years ago. April 22, 2020 at 4:04β€―PM

You are searching for your perfect mate - clubs, bars, grocery store, library, local sex toy store, etc  - probably most common and most convenient  - online.

You bump into someone,  you click - lots in common - your talking more and more, getting closer - closer - you start to get excited "omg! This could be the one!" . . . .

They seem like the perfect match -

Then it happens  . . . . The deal breaker! 😔

 

Despite all signs pointing to yes! - what is that one thing you simply cannot overlook?

 

 

Devotedsub​(sub female){His} - A lie.
3 years ago
Miss Hex Appeal{Taken} - Comment deleted by poster.
3 years ago
Miss Hex Appeal{Taken} - If he doesn’t dare to tell me his birthday! πŸ˜‰
3 years ago
Literate Lycan​(dom male) - What His Little Bunny said. I want all of my relationships to be built on truth, but especially β€œthe perfect mate”. Also I’m pretty much monogamous so to find out they were not focusing in that direction with me would pretty much be a deal breaker.
3 years ago
Little moon​(sub female){Not lookin} - Lack of communication or blocking me out emotionally.
3 years ago
piggygirl​(sub female) - Smoking
3 years ago
Dellydoodah​(neither female) - me too
3 years ago
subandsocurvy​(sub female) - This post sounds so familiar lol it happens this way everytime. Usually they cross a boundry the biggest one is saying something sexual about a family member my daughter mainly. She's gorgeous nd 21yrs old but she is my daughter. I just think its common sense but maybe not it has happened a couple times. Also going long periods of time without speaking to me when we were communicating everyday to now your missing for 4days or more. Ghosting basically
3 years ago
Jack in the box -
Not into kink
3 years ago
Little moon​(sub female){Not lookin} - Remember dem damn apples πŸ€£πŸ˜‰
3 years ago
SirsBabyDoll​(sub female){Pizza+β˜•} - Emotional blackmail...

I hold honesty, integrity, and honor in such high regard that it is so hard for me to imagine that it is not that important to others. It boggles mind.
3 years ago
Little moon​(sub female){Not lookin} - That is also true but if we gona start that is gonna be a loooonnnggg list πŸ˜‚πŸ€”πŸ“ƒ
3 years ago
Jack in the box -
Doesnt like cats 🐺 ☺
3 years ago
Little moon​(sub female){Not lookin} - Duh!! πŸ™„πŸ˜•πŸ€¨
3 years ago
TheChimera​(sub female) - DEFINITE DEAL BREAKER
3 years ago
rottenbrat​(sub female){Skyrich} - Someone who is unable to be honest about how they feel, or accept how I feel.
3 years ago
TheChimera​(sub female) - Lots of good answers here.
I'll skip dishonesty, since that's a big one.

For me-
No direction: Meaning you have no job, no education, and no aspirations to further yourself as and individual.
((This is especially true with "Man-Children" who do nothing but stay at home and play video games all day.))
<<An amendment to this- I completely understand if you're in a transition point of your life: You lost your job, so you moved back home with family and are searching for new, or moved back home to go to school. These are fine. It's when you aren't bettering yourself is when I have a problem.>>

Age Gap: I'm 31 years old. Someone under the age of 25? It's hard, you're a kid to me. If you're over a certain age too ((We'll ballpark it and say 60+)) I'm not interested, I'm 31, that's almost a 30 year gap. I'm a kid to you. Plus, not to seem biased. I need someone young enough to keep up with me sexually and physically.

Debate points you won't budge on: Someone who is REALLY religious, like die-hard religious, or really into politics? Chances are I won't be interested. I'm laid back and I'm not here to debate. You're welcome to your opinions, but trying to shove your opinion, religious, viewpoints, etc down my throat is a good way to make me go "No thanks."

Passive Aggressive behavior: This is a big one. If you're passive aggressive and can't tell me FLATLY what's wrong? Chances are, I'm not going to want anything to do with you outside of simple basic friendship and even that will be questionable.


I'll stop here, Kind of getting lengthy...






3 years ago
Little moon​(sub female){Not lookin} - All really good points but I was trying not to go there with the looongggg lists πŸ€£πŸ˜‚πŸ™ maybe if we bullet point emπŸ˜–
3 years ago
Lexxa​(sub female) - ALL of this, with the exception I'm a bit more lenient when it comes to age gaps. I will not go with anyone younger than I am though. No direction in life and/or someone who preaches religion/politics incessantly is a hard no from me.
3 years ago
RedKat{Not now } - I like younger men...stamina...
3 years ago
Jack in the box -
Great answer! Thank you πŸ‘
3 years ago
Tinysubtreasure​(other female) - Love that answer as well!😊
3 years ago
FearlessBrat​(sub female){H.PL.} - Honesty...it doesn't matter how much we might click. Usually the life's timeline doesnt match, one might be ready/looking for ralationship the other might not....and that's fine as long as you are honest...this way you might build great friendship...and if fate pushes both same direction great if not, you still have great friend.
Who knows, perhaps I am hopless idealistic romantic.
3 years ago
WholesomeWhore​(switch female){SwellDaddy} - - Rudeness or being unkind
- Over inflated sense of self (one upmanship or hubris)
- Not willing to accept responsibility (blame pushing)

I'm not saying the odd example of these would be a deal breaker (people have bad days and will sometimes do stuff that's out of character), but consistently displaying these traits would end any potential relationship for me
3 years ago
Jack in the box -
Another great answer , thank you πŸ‘
3 years ago
Tinysubtreasure​(other female) - Me TOO!!
3 years ago
SSG{ENM-TLP} - smoking, I'm allergic. can't even be around those who have been around those who do.
Ex-con (or current con)
Freshly dug, shallow graves in their backyard
Unlabeled frozen items in their freezer
They own a panel van or an unusual amount of plastic wrap and duct tape (Dexter)
there are others, but these would be the top
3 years ago
Jack in the box -
Makes perfect sense πŸ˜πŸ‘
3 years ago
Justme26 - OK, Conservatives (republican) I might try but it just would not work.
Anyone who wants money out of me.
Anyone who wants to switch.
Brats (but I would still give it a try)
Anyone who wants to change me in any way at all.
Anyone who is substantially taller than me
Men (Nothing wrong with men. Just personal taste)
Religious people who think that they are going to change me, for my own good.
Most people find me boring, so it would have to be someone who does not think that, or does not mind.
Anyone who is not understanding about my health.
There is loads more but that will do for now. (I am going to die alone arn't I)
3 years ago
Jack in the box -
Well now, not necessarily . . . 😏
If they are yours, they are yours -
Thank you for sharing πŸ‘
3 years ago
SirsBabyDoll​(sub female){Pizza+β˜•} - And what is it about brats that is a deal breaker? When you think 'brat', what do you imagine?
3 years ago
Jack in the box -
Me? OTK 😏
3 years ago
SirsBabyDoll​(sub female){Pizza+β˜•} - No....I was talking to justme.
3 years ago
Jack in the box -
I know ☺
Just wanted throw my .2 in
3 years ago
SirsBabyDoll​(sub female){Pizza+β˜•} - Jack, dear boy.....you might wanna look at your sentence from MY POV....and just save me the trouble of playfully insulting you.....bwaaaa! "in" also being used as a unit of measure....
3 years ago
Jack in the box -
☺
3 years ago
Justme26 - Nothing personal about anyone mentioned above (except for Conservatives). I just like my subs to be. . . very submissive. Having to fight with someone is just not for me. I am just too lazy.
3 years ago
SirsBabyDoll​(sub female){Pizza+β˜•} - I think you may have a mid perception of the true nature of what a brat is. What you are describing are bitches, not brats.
3 years ago
Justme26 - @SirsBabyDoll I am happy to discuss this in a different place, at a different time, but I feel that we are effectively trolling Jacks blog discussion.
3 years ago
Little moon​(sub female){Not lookin} - @Justme26 Jack doesn't mind, he loves us trolls and feeds us popcorn and jellybeans :D :p
3 years ago
SirsBabyDoll​(sub female){Pizza+β˜•} - Besides, he trolls any blog we hang out at....we travel in a pack usually. Lol!
3 years ago
Little moon​(sub female){Not lookin} - Poke-whispers *maybe we should sets a trap for him? ...^.^
3 years ago
SirsBabyDoll​(sub female){Pizza+β˜•} - Nah....he eats all za jelly beans we leabs behindz..
3 years ago
Little moon​(sub female){Not lookin} - Yes perfect way to set a twap πŸ˜‹πŸ˜πŸ˜
3 years ago
SirsBabyDoll​(sub female){Pizza+β˜•} - But I likes himz...he'z cuddly....
3 years ago
Little moon​(sub female){Not lookin} - Den we can makes it a cudzly twap duh! πŸ€¨πŸ™„ Feeds him cookies and braid his hair for him πŸ€”πŸ˜Š
3 years ago
SirsBabyDoll​(sub female){Pizza+β˜•} - Rotfl!!!!!! Pigtails!!!
3 years ago
Jack in the box -
Girls GIRLS! . . . .
Now I mean it!
3 years ago
SirsBabyDoll​(sub female){Pizza+β˜•} - Whaaaaat? *Looks at you innocently*
3 years ago
Little moon​(sub female){Not lookin} - Now he's mad at me πŸ™„πŸ˜’ where the hair clippers? Might as well have a good reason to get mad
3 years ago
Jack in the box -
Oh no you di'int! 😲
3 years ago
Little moon​(sub female){Not lookin} - I've done it before and I'll done it again. Now question is of I want buzz cut oe bob ?...
3 years ago
Jack in the box -
No worries mate πŸ‘
All in good fun 😏
3 years ago
Mister Anderson​(dom male) - meth teeth
3 years ago
Jack in the box -
Yeah, gotta agree with ya on that one 😣
3 years ago
SirsBabyDoll​(sub female){Pizza+β˜•} - Shit, me too...
3 years ago
Sweet Ginger​(sub female){βš“ } - I'm already spoken for and personally think my Daddy is pretty close to perfect for me.. Just putting that out there in case he reads this! :) My deal breakers are liars, rude people. People who pretend to be something there not, sooner or later it'll come out, smokers and men who are shorter than me, I like wearing heels! 😊
3 years ago
RedKat{Not now } - Lying and a tRumpster!!!
3 years ago
slaveMikayla​(sub female){MstrJ } - my deal breakers....as a relationship partner.
an uncontrolled temper:
Someone who screams or hits out of anger.
Someone who abandons either physically or emotionally especially spitefully.
Someone who lies and does not come clean.
I cant handle anything that prevents someone from being responsible for their own actions at all times around me (I dont do drunk or drugs. If I trust someone I can do some alcohol maybe... but it would be a trust thing.)
Bigots and people who hate.
people who feel the need to *break* others.
Lastly, someone who will belittle me or who cant accept part of me. "To be accepted for only part of me is to reject all of me."
3 years ago
Jack in the box -
That is a very good list Ms Faith, all as it should be. Thank you for sharing ⚘
3 years ago

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