5 years ago. May 11, 2018 at 2:44 AM
I am dominant, monogamous, demisexual, saphiosexual, and grey sexual. This means I'm seeking a smart, submissive boyfriend for a female led relationship possible marriage. I'm seeking more of the relationship than the sex. The grey sexual part means I'm picky in who I am attracted to.
I'm not a harsh domme with humiliation or extreme pain. . .
I'm more into control: chastity, and micromanagement.
The last female led relationship I was in, I controlled. . .
- Menu, food, grocery shopping
- Most dates unless he wanted to surprise
- Budget: paying bills, grocery, extra, allowance
- When or if we have sex: he would orgasm to mine 3 to 5 orgasms until i got sick. Now I`m into chastity.
- Chores: what and when get done
- Errands
- Free time vs time together
I listen to his opinions, wants, and desire but in the end I will make final choices.
What I want more than just sex.
- I love when a submissive boyfriend asking for things on his knees or begs me to cum.
- I love to kiss, make out, and cuddle.
- I love dine in or dine out.
- I love when my submissive boyfriend wants me for me and does whatever he can to make me happy.
- I love when my submissive boyfriend serves and spoils me because he wanted to not because he has to. It because he enjoys it.
- I love when he is passionate about something and wants to show me. I want him to have hopes and dreams and not be a mindless puppet.
- I love sex, but due to health problems, sex is very painful for me. First I'm extremely tight, almost virgin tight, and secondly my orgasms to cause harsh cramping that can last for days. It has to be someone decent, special and committed to me in order to even try. (Its why I'm into chastity and I'm grey and demi sexual.)