MsNevermore's ramblings, observations, and thoughts

Performer​(dom male) - I'm curious to know your thoughts on consentual non-consent. My feeling is that even in that context there is absolute consent. Fully informed, open, and honest negotiations are vital for it to be a safe and sane interaction. I'd love to hear your thoughts. as well.

MsNevermore​(other female) - My views are pretty close to how you described it. I dont, personally follow SSC to include that everything in a CNC will always fall in line with either safe or sane and consent having been foregone.
Does that mean that I am consenting by non consent to the extremes, not necessarily.
I am only going into a CNC with some one who has proven that the have the knowledge, experience, respect, responsibility of the "power" that receiving that entails.
Note: I have been in one and only one CNC dynamic my entire life. Will I ever again, I would hope so but only time will tell.
My putting this in this blog is that so many times I have been approached either by message or by action with the thought process that anything said goes. Not asking for consent, no negotiation or even introduction before laying irrational demands on another person.
My point in being if one ever wants to get to see if I would ever be CNC with them is they need to start by asking, getting to know and building trust that they can handle what they are getting a bit at a time before expecting TPE with CNC.