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3 years ago. September 14, 2020 at 5:51 PM

Many thanks for your time and input. much appreciated indeed. i will fix the issues tomorrow.

head still killing me  :(  

 

xxxx

 

 

Dear sweet kind lovely reader, would you be  as so kind to proof read my new profile.

i spent all day revising editing, adding ...blah,,,now my head aches.

i took my own advice.

 

many thanks 

mark xx

Devotedsub​(sub female){His} - Looks awesome. There is a paragraph where you put "sometimes strict as needed." instead of "is.". Looks awesome though! Love it
3 years ago
Ingénue{VK} - Read it. Are you inviting feedback?
3 years ago
Mark nw london uk​(dom male) - yes please xx
3 years ago
slaveMikayla​(sub female){MstrJ } - "no breath" .... well unless you are saying you are strictly into necrophilia then you might want to make that "no breath play" .
3 years ago
Mark nw london uk​(dom male) - yes. good point. thank you xx
3 years ago
Max Heathen​(other male) - This is a critique by a man is is analytical but I'll do it as constructive as possible, seeing that you are asking for input. This will be lengthy because I don't want miscommunication & I canceled my subscription so I can't mail this to you or I would, instead of this massive comment.
1) It seems like you have good general idea of what you wish to say and that is a great start. Redundancies and expectancy are always something people struggle with so "Looking for a Real Suby, for a Real Life"... Be detailed about what you find to be acceptable in a Sub. Be specific even if its getting pointed about height, weight, or the color and size of an areola if that's your thing. You wish them to be real, you must lead the way. Be real with expectations & state in detail what you are looking for. So remove the words "Real" and replace with what you mean. Fakes don't care what you want or who you are.
2) If you are concerned about too long of a profile, ask yourself... if you want a Life long commitment, is a person unwilling to read for 15 min about you and your wants, going to truly commit? Put some meat into your profile. Appeal to their sapiosexual! (Its also a great pre-screening)
3) I suggest removing "I don’t believe in humiliation." and moving it to your Limits if this is a soft or hard no. Otherwise, she may very much enjoy the humiliation of being your nasty little whore, or anal slut, during sexual play. Relationships are give and take so this one isn't the hill to die on, in an SMBD site, if its not a hard or soft limit.
4)*Waring, this is going to be offensive.* While I understand what you hope to accomplish with the no pic strategy, it screams: I'm fat and ugly. If the woman you wish to be with isn't supposed to care about your appearance, then having a picture wherein they can see your eyes, smile, and "kindness" of presentation, doesn't matter even if you are fat and ugly... Women NEED to see your eyes. They NEED to "feel you" through what they see. Its a safety thing for them and can you blame them?! It's rare to hear of men being raped... Anyways If they are vain like me, your personality won't win in the end so why waste the time. PLUS: You openly offer to validate any way they see fit... 99% of them are going to want a picture anyways. One of a specified, unique pose, to be presented in a short amount of time, is always what I suggest to validate a person's true appearance. So again, if you want real, be real. If you want a heart felt connection based on who you are, then having your recent pic available on the site is only to your advantage.
5) If you are really that ooshy gooshy of a dom, I suggest starting to blog how you would feel/respond towards your sub in hypothetical situations, wherein if she ____. Uses that shit to your advantage. Some ladies love that crap but be careful of those who Top from the Bottom or you'll be her bitch.
Good luck, Mark!
3 years ago
slaveMikayla​(sub female){MstrJ } - Agreed with all except #3. Not all people here have even a moderate interest in humiliation. It is completely acceptable and positive for you to state that you aren't into it.though, yes, putting it into limits might be a clearer case. Another way to add it into your about me would be to state that your brand of D/sdors not include the use of humiliation.

Great advice,MaxHeathen
3 years ago

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