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Rose's Thorns.

A general pondering.
5 years ago. August 2, 2018 at 3:49 PM

There is a difference between want and need. 

When a sub has been left alone for a long while without the benifits of subspace, you may think you are helping through a computer screen, trying to give them something they havent had for a long time. Your actually just tormenting them by reminding them of what they havent got in the real world, its really painful psycologically and emotionally you can feel yourself ache for it. Trying to help a sub in this way, i acknowledge good intentions however the effect is quite the opposit for some, i include myself in that. It is extreamly sadistic and towards the hard end of the scale mentally, this might not be something you have considered and why i do not do online only. Its being reminded of something you have wanted for a long time and having it flaunted infront of your face but just out of reach. 

(just my perspective)

CrimsonPaw - Sorry you've had a negative online experience. So far in my online adventures, I have been left very satisfied and it didn't leave me feeling tormented at all. Some Doms have been able to reach me better than others, but none have been a lost cause. I would just be sure to tell interested Dom's that you want IRL only to prevent anyone wasting their time. If you haven't found your match already, I wish you the best of luck in your search. 🌹
5 years ago
rosethorn​(sub female) - Im glad you have found happiness online. I find it too difficult at times, its like being in a candy shop while on a diet lol. x
5 years ago
CrimsonPaw - Oh my!! That would be a horrible feeling!! Lol
5 years ago
rosethorn​(sub female) - yep being mentally masochistic doesn't exactly help
5 years ago
CrimsonPaw - Definitely would not!
5 years ago
Macchinetta Dom - i think my online subs would disagree with you... in the end its a personal relationship and works different for different people... i wish the best experiences in real life D/s relationships
5 years ago
rosethorn​(sub female) - Thanks, im not dismissing the concept, just that I find it doesn't work for me, I know it works for others x
5 years ago
Macchinetta Dom - you are following your heart. its the best thing to do. :) goodluck kitten
5 years ago
rosethorn​(sub female) - Thank you x
5 years ago
Sybil - I have found it very difficult to do The online thing for the same reason... although i’ve Tried and it wasn’t all that bad but I just didn’t get the same sensation I do with my IRL D/s. I found myself wanting more so I get your kid in a candy store analogue..
5 years ago
Sybil - I like inflict pain... I also like ordering and watching others do it to themselves however I don’t get that same high/rush/satisfaction I would if I was physical doing it myself. A strictly online D/s just don’t work for me 🤷🏾‍♀️
5 years ago
rosethorn​(sub female) - You seem to get where im coming from, its like its kept behind glass as you cant interact with it (the scene ect) they way you would like to.
5 years ago
Sybil - Exactly
5 years ago
Bunnie - From observation, the biggest difference I’ve noticed between those that struggle with online and those that don’t, is whether or not they’ve got someone to go to when they turn the computer screen off. And I’m not even talking in a sexual sense... merely the presence of another. It seems to allow people the security of being content with online only, that those that are alone do not get.
5 years ago
MarthIke​(dom male) - I don't understand doing online only but I do get doing it at first as there are a lot of fakes out there as well.
5 years ago
KittyKat80​(masochist female) - I totally agree....Its also easy to be someone's personal porn with online only.... My daddy sees me a couple times a month and that's not even enough for me. I cant do online only and it's a challenge finding someone close by too.
5 years ago

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