I have been dealing with a lot of clueless submissives (those who think they are or want to be "my" slave), and even doms who want to be submissive.
I am NOT a normal dominant, and I am not a dominatrix.
You seem to have wrong idea of what I need and want.
So I guess I need to teach you. (Please stop thinking you instantly know me, you CANNOT please me with pain or sex.)
I thought I pretty explanatory in my profile, but I guess I have to repeat myself. Sigh.
First of all, are you interested in me?
What are my hobbies?
What is my ideal way to spend a Sunday?
What do I enjoy more than sex?
Do I want kids?
Why do I like cats?
What is most important to me in a relationship ?
I am an open book, please ask me question (about me not my dominance, I have my dominance info in my blog http://behindthemistress.tumblr.com )
Please compliment and encourage me. (No bad hit on lines unless they are funny.)
"You're pretty."
"I'm thinking about you."
"I hope you are having a nice day."
Making me feel good about myself is a step forward to a happy or content me.
A happy dominant means a possible good time for you.