Since I feel I have to teach my subs, I am going to it in sections.
This will be done in parts . . .
I will give scenarios and tell you that bad idea and the good . . . Hopefully it will give subs a better understanding of what I want.
Scenario 1: I'm not your mother, if you are sick. . .
Bad idea: I will NOT baby you, cuddle and clean up after you. (I have a weak immune system, so this will not happen. You would be lucky if your sick clothes make it in the washer. I do NOT clean your puke.)
Good idea: I will make soup, go out get meds, or start your bath, but I usually will just let you sleep it off.
Scenario 2: the need for sex or release while in a cage or chastity piece (I have process, my subs must earn release as I understand that release is natural for the body, how a body do not "need" it released every other day or every week, that is just in our heads)
Bad idea: Damn, I'm sore. You're unfair. You're being mean. I need to release. I hate to sit down to pee. I'm a man, damn it. Don't you love me? If you love, you would let me cum. . . I need to cum, it's been stressful at work. I've been stuck in this cage for weeks. My balls are so heavy and blue.
(I can list ten things wrong with this. . .
1. No manners, I expect "please" and "thank you."
2. I plan to talk daily, so I would know about stress at work. 3. The sub is being whiny. I don't like whiny.
4. The sub is being passive and
5. Do NOT think guilt trips would work on me. They puss me off.
6. Never say I'm unfair without showing how I'm breaking the rules or policy myself. If I came 5 times and still said no, I could understand.
7. I do make sure the cock is healthy and washed in that cage. If something was medical wrong, we would work o it. The cage is there because I do not trust that my sub will not touch himself in such a way he'll be addicted to release again.
8. Yes, you are my male submissive boyfriend or husband and expect respect not snappy.
9. I have pain and issues and I'm not mentioned. . . Not how are you?
10. I am your dominant girlfriend or wife, it would be that I am acknowledged. I want you to come to me if you unsatisfied or if something is bothering you, but I expect it done correctly with respect.)
Good idea: Oh my dear, beautiful mistress. How are you? How may I help you? How can I make your day? Do you need a back or foot massage? (Massage whatever part ask you to.)
I hope you had a good day or good sleep. I have a request or I wonder what can I do for an early release, if you please. (Please get creative, romantic, encouraging, the happier and more generous I am, the more will get accomplished and higher your chance to get released.)
Scenario 3: Reading
I'm a writer, so I'm very into reading and those into my writings.
Bad idea: Saying you read my work, but only answered vague statements or say you love it because you are sub and want to "impress me."
Good idea: reading the piece, have questions where things confuse you. If you don't like it or you do you like, please give me real reasons why. You will impress me by being involved.
There are more scenarios coming up.