Things my sub can do that excite me
1. Be into me. . . Ask about my day, compliment and encourage me. (Learn about me:
What are my passions?
What are hopes or fears?
What are my hobbies?
What do I do?
What do I love to do?
What do I hate to do?
Note: My answers will be within my blog.)
2. Make me look forward to something: date or game night, our reading time, Sunday football spread etc (I love seeing it on The calendar, Note: large calender are good gift ideas. )
3. Planning things with me, or finishing a to-do list or making a new to-do . . . Monday evening will be calendar date, to review our week, check events, errands, add a date night etc (I'm into planning and scheduling, I get giddy and sometimes turned on when I have a busy schedule and when my subby asks what our week or day is going to be like. Or when my subby ask if he could go out with friend or whatever and I say no, because we had something planned. Note: Certain events can make me nervous or anxious, I hope my subby can handle me.)
4. Watching my subby doing dishes or cleaning (in his boxers with his cock cage on under them when we are alone. I like to tease while he cleans. I enjoy him driving me to places, hold my bags as I shop, reading my work together, playing with our cats etc)
5. Cuddles, baths, and massages with my subby... kissing, making out, teasing everything but sex. (Until I get my health issues fixed, and we'll bring up ways of pleasure)
6. Cooking or baking (while subby cleans up) I want my subby to get excited over my cooking and baking.
7. When my subby shows me something that he is passionate about or showing me that he did something on his own. (I want subby to show me his favorite movie, best dish, things at work, hobbies he us excited about. I want to learn everything about my subby. I want to know him so well that I treat him with his favorite things.)
8. Shopping (subby hold the bags, duh.) Or receiving gifts that mean something to me (I'm not into the flowers or jewelry, if I had to have flowers I like lilac and carnations, my mom was a alleric to roses so I liked having other flowers. Roses are also very cliche. I'm a writer, so I like gifts like notes, candy,sweets, notebooks, colored flash drives, big pens. Bigger gifts: cats or computer stuff, trips etc )
9. Dinning out or ordering in(if subby is good then he can tell me what he wants, if he's bad then I order for him. I'm alsom in charge of our money.) I also like to order in and binge with netflix.
10. Going for drives with my subby (I like sponetous moments: no plans, no focus on everyday life. Just enjoy the drive.)