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Contemplative musings of a sub.

Honest gut feelings about real issues facing chatters here drawing from what i have been taught and from what i have personally learned.
6 years ago. September 13, 2017 at 4:03 PM

thank you Nageena for that explanation about yourself.   many will no doubt be clueless about the truth that you speak.  we all know that for some ......we will notice that being a submissive  just seems like its who they are....and the same can be said for Domme's and Dominants alike.  

i have felt for a long time that some people are neither and instead of embracing that they are a free spirit such as yourself they pick or choose something for them that ends up only being a label they have attached to themselves.

there again just like any other choice we all have in this life.....its okay if someone chooses a label; just like its okay if a sub just wants to be someones  playtoy as long as they are happy ...then we should all be happy for them.

 

but the people who concern me the most are the ones who just never seem to be happy regardless of which label they choose for themself.  W/we can only hope that everyone who is interested in the BDSM lifestyle is able to find and achieve a relationship that works  for them. And that the relationship ends up being everything and more than they have ever dreamed of.

and so i applaud all the free spirits out there.   i love the gypsy mindset completely.  now that i have considered free spirits more i see gypsy, mermaid,fairy and hippie all wrapped up together.  and i love it!

 

there is a saying:

She has the soul of a Gypsy,

the Heart of a Hippie, 

and the Spirit of a Fairy!

 

and so Welcome Nageena and thank you for having found us and taught me about free spirits!!!

Nageena​(other female) - I was like that and I labeled myself as a sub or a brat. We rolled with that and eventually in the end i realized that it truly was not me and in some was it was but it did not fully fit me and I grew tired of being what i was not. I in truth was happy but no where as near as happy as I am now and I no longer find that my FC and i butt heads anymore. So it's has bettered our relationship.
6 years ago
Silver​(sub female){not intere} - and i applaud you for getting to where you are now. it took a lot of hard work and some deep deep discernment. Discernment is where many fail.....its one thing for many who are just looking for kinky sex and want to masterbate....but for the others who seriously view this as a way of life discernment is a very necessary exercise.
6 years ago

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