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New Dom looking for his sub. Central Illinois/Anywhere
I posted on here some time ago but I think I went about it all wrong.

I am indeed new to the whole D/s dynamic. I don't have a lot of personal experience aside from some spanking and dirty talk with some teasing.

What I am looking for is either someone who is close to me and can eventually be in person as well as over the phone or long distance and text or call whenever. Someone who can understand that I'm new and looking to explore it more and build some deep bonds. I understand that trust and respect most be earned on both sides and I feel this is a good starting point.

I am monogamous heterosexual. I have yet to discover what kind of Dom I am yet but leasing towards Master with my controlling bondage kink, or Daddy with my caring and nurturing self.

I'm willing to explore to find out what is the best and what my real limits are. I know I don't like needle/knife play, blood or excrements, or any forms of mutilation and permanent markings. Being that, I won't know until I try.

You, as a sub, would be willing to be patient at first but know that I am generally a quick learner. You would know what you need to do and not be afraid to guide me along to find that out myself until I learn what it is all on my own. Everything is a lessening experience and can only get better than the time before.

I don't expect to be 100% in scene status because I do enjoy casual normal conversations too, but I'm ok with interjecting it into everyday activities, gradually moving into more personal territories.

A little bit about me: I'm recently single from a long term relationship and marriage. I think I'm kind and compassionate but firm when I need to be. I've never had an easy time meeting new people or making friends.

Sometimes I may get some joy out of being sadistic but never maliciously. I love being in control, having the power. There's never really been a lot in my life that I've had real control over, so when I do get the control, it's intoxicating. This life style was something I'd always had discussions about exploring but never went anywhere until recently. I just recently finished reading The New Topping Book and started to read The New Bottoming Book just so I can get an idea of what you would be going through and expecting as well. Knowing both sides of the coin so to speak.

I don't consider myself to be great looking but I think I'm handsome enough. I'm 6'2" tall but I'm also pretty large. We can do a pic for pic exchange if you are interested. Any further details can be discussed personally. I have Kik, Discord and just downloaded Telegram so there are options. I'm sure I could even dredge up my Skype if needed.

If this sounds like something you are interested in, and are serious about this and me being someone you could want to try this with, please message and we can go from there and see where it takes us. I really want to see where this can take us.
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[ONLINE] 29 YO M Dominat Daddy looking for Submissive females
I am a Daddy Dom/ Master who is looking, for a female submissive​/slave online to serve me and do as commanded and instructed .Your limits will be respected. You must be ready to show yourself, your body. Face pics not needed.

I also prefer controlling parts of daily routine of my Sub Life. This can be from clothes, food etc. You Will be following rules and regulations

I am looking for a girl who likes to play ,Wana be used and ready to serve.
I want her to be extremely submissive and let daddy do every fantasy in his head.spanking, hair pulling, tied up etc. I want a girl who will take it hard and deep from daddy/master.

I love Arse , nipples play, public humiliation, obedience training, spanking etc.

With roleplays my favourite​ roles are

Maid sir
Teacher Student
Jailer prisoners
Slave Master

I have Kik and Skype as options.
Message me.
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Experienced Dominant seeks submissive woman
I am looking for someone in the Bay Area (or who frequently travels here) for a long term BDSM based relationship. The woman I am looking for should be honest, loyal, eager and enthusiastic, fun with a great sense of humor, and serious about exploring a connection in real life. As there are a lot of time wasters on these sites, once we have talked a few times, she should be ready to voice verify (i.e. talk on the phone/VOIP). I am open to answering any questions you may have, so feel free to ask me anything you'd like to. Once we have established we have chemistry together, we can go from there. Age is not a big deal to me, but I would prefer someone my age or younger. If you are significantly younger, that's okay, but please be open minded and mature. I'll look forward to hearing from you.
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Experienced Dom seeking online sub to start
No experience required just message me and let's see what happens. It will start online but if your a good girl then you will end up living with your Dom.
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Roll of the Dice
I'm just curious to see who this pulls in.

I'm an experienced sadistic black male in his 20s. About 6'2'', give or take an inch. With almost a decade under my belt regarding BDSM and other such activities, I'm very confident in my own abilities ranging from vanilla experiences to the more hardcore proclivities. When I need to be, I've been told that I can be quite the soft and lovable teddy bear, but that flip can be switched so that I'm able to make the skin tremble and the blood run cold when deemed necessary. With that being said, I'm (almost exceedingly) respectful towards limits, patient towards personal boundaries to a saintly degree, and mostly interested in finding the core of an individual before anything else as I value that more above all. If any of that piques your interest then feel free to contact me whenever you please. If not, then I hope you find what you're looking for.

As a note, if after reading this you plan on clicking my profile for further information you may find mostly the same being said aside from my one limit. Any questions you may have I would be more than happy to answer to the best of my ability.

"Without judgement or condemnation, my ultimate goal is to help people find their truest self. "
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Slender submissive white female
I am a white male dominant. I am seeking a slender submissive white female age 18 to 26 to serve me. Can be married or single can be part-time with the potential of full-time. Be sure to set up a profile page on this website so I can contact you. This is the case with Rebecca J who did not set up a profile page and therefore I could not answer her message to me. Looking forward to hearing back from you after you check out my profile.
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Daddy/Master seeking BabyGirl/Sub for training
Kind but firm male looking for new or inexperienced subject to train and introduce into this incredible world.
I can promise absolute safety in a trusting environment, but also a sensory excitement that you'll wish you'd discovered sooner.
Get in touch if you want to feel alive!
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Looking for a submissive woman for online training.
I am looking for a submissive woman who is willing to be instructed online, you will send "proof" of carrying out your tasks, if you are curious and willing to be obedient - get in touch.
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Dom seeking sub or slave
Thank you for taking the time to read this, it is going to be pretty long. If you read all of this and I sound like the right person for you send me a message. I make sure to reply to everyone.

To start off I am 22 years old, white, 5’11, have an athletic build and live in SoCal. I have a few years of experience as a Dom and as a Daddy Dom. Both in person and long distance all the way with someone who was from Perth. Distance is not an issue with me as long as there are plans to meet in person eventually and maybe one day live together. I run my own business so I am here to stay in San Diego but it does give me the freedom to travel more often. Also prefer if you are from the USA. Trust, respect, and being open minded are extremely important to me.

I am a very active, healthy person and want someone who enjoys being active and taking care of themselves. That means going to the gym every day, hiking, running etc. I play guitar, cook, read, video games(sometimes), watch tv and movies. I love sports and being competitive. Having a sub who also wants to just spend time together doing those things is a must. I am looking for someone who not only ends up being a sub or slave but also my best friend and genuinely loves spending time together.

Some of my kinks are degradation, humiliation, bondage, impact play, public play, collars, having control over how you dress, speak, when you must sit or stand etc, breast play, orgasm denial, anal, pain play, and set rules and there are more but we can talk about everything privately.

What I want in a sub or slave: someone who is monogamous (I will not share my partner) trustworthy, respectful, caring, loyal, willing to learn, open minded, honest and be my fuck toy. Between the ages of 18-22 if you’re a little older than that feel free to still send a message and see if we connect.

I will let you set the limits because I feel that is how it should be in a healthy relationship. My only limit is anything to do with feces.

I will take the time to get to know you for who you are, what your interest are, goals in life, and make sure we connect so don’t expect anything to happen too quickly. That way not only will I be able to be the best Dom for you but also the best partner which is equally as important to me. If you made it this far thank you for taking the time to read all of this! I hope to hear from you soon.
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looking for submissive
Hello, i am a Dom that lives in Maryland that is looking for a submissive for long or short time. i am looking for a girl that is in Maryland or is willing to travel to Maryland. i am ok with starting out on an online relationship but would like to eventually move to a live in relationship. i am ok with all aspects of the BDSM life style and will try any kind of play. age dose not matter to me very much as long as you are 18 or older. i am also looking for a new sub that wants to be trained to be better.
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Looking for kajira to take
Looking for a kajira or sub/slave looking to be trained to fulfill her place and serve her Master. Looking to collar a slave for 24/7 service that may turn in to long term with breeding, depending on training. Asian ancestry with Japanese or Korean parentage will be considered first, but all will be considered. Female only, ages 18 to 34 preferred. I will be strict, but I do take care of My toys. This will not be online only. It may start there while under consideration but must be able to relocate to recieve collar when commanded to do so.
Cooking ability, love of video games, classic movies, anime, and all things science fiction are a plus.
I had a unicorn, so I know they exist, now I'm looking for another.
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Seeking an attractive, educated, submissive female
To the external world, we're just like any other couple. Others see us as being happy, in tune with each other, in sync, and content. They see us laugh, joke, and be playful with one another. We seem to be the perfect couple who respect each other and have a lot in common. I treat you like a lady and you glow in the knowledge that you are truly adored and respected.

You know that I am there to protect you and that I always have your best interests at heart. You're confident that I would never embarrass you or demean you in front of others. We bring out the best in each other in our secret roles as the Dominant and the Submissive. I am a kind educated man, a professional, I'm tall, attractive, and by outward appearances, easy going and unassuming. You are an attractive woman, reasonably fit, intelligent and open-minded, ready to learn and be guided, and with a strong desire to please. We truly compliment each other.

In our own private world, behind closed doors, we lead a slightly different life than we do in public or among friends and relatives. Though I am kind behind closed doors, I have a high expectation of you to submit to me on command. I would rarely expect to have to command you to serve me and to submit, because after all, your very nature is to be submissive and attentive to your Dom. Naturally, though, if things seem to be sliding off track in any way, I will need to take action to put you back on course ... just a little reminder about your role in our relationship. My corrective action would never be to inflict a lot of pain, leave marks, or to be cruel in any way. It would simply be intended to set things back on the course of fulfilling the roles that each of us desires. When I need to take a firm hand, I will and you will relish in the fact that I care enough about you to correct you.

I am a professional businessman who has 3 grown daughters and two beautiful grandchildren. I have been divorced for over a year, but I still have an interest in being discreet due to my job and my coworkers. I have a large home in the country and if everything seems to be a match between us, I might consider this being a possible live-in scenario. Alternately, I would be comfortable keeping our residents separate and spending time together when time allows. I enjoy the company of a warm and a submissive woman, but I also enjoy my time alone. I'm 60 years old and I have always preferred the energy and spark of a younger woman. My ex was 13 years younger than me and we were married for more than 20 years. I have the maturity to give you what you need.

If what I am saying interests you, please respond to my post and tell me a little about yourself.
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Dominant Man Seeking Submissive Women
Interests include but not limited to:
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99% Degrader
99% Primal (Hunter)
99% Sadist
97% Rigger
97% Brat tamer
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87% Voyeur
80% Owner
75% Experimentalist
75% Daddy
70% Exhibitionist
67% Non-monogamist
57% Ageplayer

Host at my home or hotel rendezvous
Women please be physically fit/height-weight proportionate.
Wear skirts. dresses. Enjoy spankings/impact play.
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Currently seeking dedicated submissive females in the Denver, Colorado area and online.
What do I look for in a sub? It would be easy to say obedience and loyalty but that's not really what I'm in this for. I look for potential for personal growth. If I choose you to be my sub I'll be giving you assignments from which you will benefit. In the past i have held subs accountable for dietary or fitness goals, so in many ways i act as a personal trainer or success coach. I also give mindfulness and sensual assignments. My goal is to help you to grow as a person through our time together.
Feel free to write me at my Cage profile
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Looking for a Good and Kinky Girl
Hello. I am 25 years old, , 5’7, have an athletic build. I have a few years of experience as a Dom . Both in person and long distance all the way with someone who was from Alaska. I run my own business.I prefer to stay online for sometime for match ourselves.

I am a very active, healthy person and want someone who enjoys being active and taking care of themselves.I sometimes, cook, read, video games(sometimes), watch tv and movies. I love sports and being competitive. I am looking for someone who not only ends up being a sub or slave but also my good friend and genuinely loves spending time together.

What I'm looking into my partner is she should be trustworthy, lively, talkative, obedient.I respect others privacy so if you want some time on taking the relationship slow i would not mind that all & even can train her.
Apart from that I'll be making weekly NON-SEXUAL task for my partner for her grooming and better will not only a sexual relation-ship. I would like to talk about her day and mine, sharing thoughts and exchanging ideas.

If you made it this far thank you for taking the time to read all of this! I hope to hear from you soon.
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Master seeking true Female Sub LT
I am a loving trusting Sir seeking LT in time.
Must be willing to move to canada .
Take a step and reach out to me
I will show kindness and teach in growth
Yours Sir
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Online Dom looking for little/sub
I’m an European Dom looking for a female sub. I’m looking primarily for a serious relationship, something long term. I want to start online but I expect to move to real at some point, either by doing sporadic meetings or an eventual reallocation.

As a Dom I like to be in charge, take the lead. I want to be in control and take care of the sub, give her the attention she needs, either if this attention comes in form of appraisal or humiliation, kindness or strictness. Every sub is different and have different needs, part of the process is to learn from the sub, discover her needs in order to properly guide and mold her, show her the path to follow. I want to bring out the best of the sub, not just as a sub but as a person.
I’m mainly interested in humiliation, orgasm control, edging and some pain, I’m a bit of a sadist. Even though I don’t like extreme pain I do enjoy with some suffering of the sub. I’m somewhat interested in the DDLG dynamic but not really interested in age play. I’m curious about hypnosis, total power exchange and worship.

The only requirements is that you must be female and +18. Other than that, I don’t mind about your age or experience. In any case I do want to know about your background and expectations. I want to know if being a sub is your purpose in life or it’s just an entertainment. I want to know which are the reasons behind your submission, if you are doing it to get some attention you lack, because you really need it or because it turns you on. If you are unsure about it you can still message me, share how you feel and express your doubts so we can discuss and hopefully clarify them.
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I am a strict Dominanat Master looking for submissive girl online or in Canada
I am a Dom from Canada, strict but caring. I am into mind control , reward and punishment for the submissive, humiliation , I am interested in the Sub to be truly a sub that enjoy being controlled and disciplined. I do respect the limits . I like spanking,obedience training and more. if you are intrested drop me a line and let me know how we can start chatting.
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Very nicely built and well put together Dominant Daddy and bodybuilder, 43, SWM, 6' tall, 185 lbs, 6 pak abs, clean shaved, I am very loving and affectionate kind of Daddy Dominant, living in Hershey, PA who wants a sexy YOUNG ASIAN submissive in the 18-30 age range to marry and possibly start a family with. I am very old-fashioned and traditional when it comes to love and NEED a sexy Asian sub to love and adore
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Dom looking for online chatting
Hey! Looking for a submissive relationship. kik can be a start for us. I can be very compassionate with your needs. In my middle 30's, 6'2, dark hair, sporty, drug free, attractive male. Write me back with your desires. X
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