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Seeking A Mommy Domme
This ad is very similar - if not exact to my Daddy Dominant ad, as I am indeed seeking either, or both. 43 year old BBW Canadian service sub and little, living Down Under, seeking real life Mommy Dominant, preferably local, for service submission and age play exploration.

What I am seeking: My preference is for someone experienced in the lifestyle - I have been in the lifestyle for 20+ years, but I don’t think that means I know everything - and someone who is an experienced Mommy. The qualities I appreciate are kind, caring, loving, patient, understanding, confident but not arrogant, firm when needs be, affectionate, enjoys sex, walks towards the things that are uncomfortable rather than shying away, emotionally mature, sees vulnerability as courage rather than weakness.

I am looking for a Domestic Discipline, D/s relationship - possibly long term, but honestly can’t predict that - that involves cuddles, fun outings, munches, play parties, deep emotional and physical intimacy, trust, and carnal desire experimentation.

Hopefully this individual is 35 years + and has real life experience, not just online. I am partial to 1950’s/rockabilly type Mommies - but I also have a penchant for female Masters or female Daddies.

I am offering a level headed, drama free companion, with clear limits and certain of what I am looking for. I have experience in domestic service, very familiar with events such as formal high protocol dinners, and semi-formal/informal teas. My service skills include: cooking, massage, ablution, laundry, minor home repairs, chauffeuring, and personal assistant - to name a few. As a little, I am loyal, loving, affectionate, with just enough cheekiness to give you a valid reason to apply a hand or belt to my bottom.

I am all for above board, honest, poly type relationships - not interested in cheating or the “don’t ask, don’t tell” variety of relationships. I am equally amenable to mono relationships. Happy to entertain being a submissive/little to a Dom/me couple, not looking to be a sister submissive.

Please take a look at my profile and if you think we might be compatible, I look forward to hearing from you.
UnrulyNerdGirl​(sub female)02/23/2018

I am a 31 year old female InToronto I am new to the lifestyle. looking for a dominant woman
DarknDelicate​(sub female)02/21/2018

New to the game sub looking for a Dominant woman who will teach me the ropes...(NY area)
I am pretty much new to this, although it has always been there. I am ready to take the next steps and am very willing to learn under your tutelage. I'm excited to be taught, and punished for my mistakes. I wish to please you.
I don't yet know all my limits and would be excited to discover them. Please train me.

18 looking to be dominated over the internet
i want to be dominated over the internet and if the realtionship builds perhaps meet one day

Online relationship
I’m looking for an online only relationship to introduce me to the lifestylle

23 F Looking for Nonsexual Online Domme
While I primarily identify as a bottom, I’m ready to find someone to serve again, and my local scene has very few female D-types. The “sister” I had from a former long distance poly triad with a Mommy Domme and I are still in contact, although not regular because of life; I was the only non-biological family member in her small wedding and she is my emergency contact for most things. This is after two and a half years.

I’m looking specifically for a non-sexual D/s relationship. It’s okay if you have no experience or very little in either or both; we can learn together. I would like to get to know you as a person first, develop a friendship, and go from there. I’m open to it not staying strictly D/s too if it goes into a romantic relationship.

Please have your life together, have some life experience, and be poly or open to poly.

I need some tasks.
I initially wanted to find a Dom. I did, and I am not really into just one person and make it so impersonal. So, I thought instead I will do my homework on my own. So, if you would have to train me, use me, play with me, what tasks would you give me. Send me your ideas, and I will use it, and give you feed back on how I did. I did bdsm in the past, I like it rough, I like pain, but also a little bit of sugar on top. The only thing I need to work on, is anal^_^. So send me your ideas.
LaraKate​(sub female){No}02/05/2018

Seeking a Trainer/Mentor
I would like to find someone near me able to train me as a sub. I don't have much experience but I am willing to explore and try new things.
Mydra​(sub female)01/27/2018

Lesbian Searching for Online Mistress
Hi, I'm Rosalind, or Rosa for short. Rose works just as well. I'm looking for someone who is interested in taking control of me online. I am not okay with meeting in person and may show my face but it depends on the circumstance. Message me if you need more details or are interested.
Rosalind1818​(switch female)01/20/2018

feminine-leaning genderfluid switch seeks dominant/domme
Located in Southern Indiana, this girl seeks her forever home and a collar to call her own!

My name is Lily, and I am definitely submissive and curious about 24/7 (or as close to such as is practical) slavery. I crave both domestic and sexual submission. My submission is obedience-driven, and I draw the most pleasure from proving myself capable and pleasing. I'm pretty much 0% brat. I want to clean to please you, cook with your pleasure in mind, dress as you see fit (be it lingerie and chains or a gown worthy of a princess), live with your desire in mind, and most of all, I want to see your eyes light up when you look at me, cherishing and exalting in the fact that the demure, chained slave girl is yours, wholly devoted to you, and though she has her gaze cast to the ground at your feet, humbly awaiting your next command, you can still make out the smile at the corner of her lips.

Although i have a masculine body, I definitely have a feminine mind and soul; I have a strong sense of compassion and selflessness, a personality that enjoys nurturing and cultivating joy and growth in others, and am happy to follow where a worthy leader goes. I have been in the BDSM community for more than a decade, so I am well versed in the communication and effort and other necessities that a relationship of this type requires; but I am also new enough as a submissive to be easily malleable, and I am eager to undergo training at your hand to become as close to the perfect slave girl as I can be for you.

Feel free to message or bond me, or you can usually find me hanging out in the chat. Thanks for reading, and I hope to hear from you soon!
Mania to Marcus​(switch gender fluid)01/07/2018

Anyone in Paris Texas?
I really want to find a domme near me pm me go my details
Kensi​(sub gender fluid)12/18/2017

Inexperienced online sub
I'm very new to this and just looking for something casual online. I love being submissive and under your control. I'm willing to send photos but not of my face. I'm very small physically.
Message me if you're interested in something fun online.
Ellie Kierson​(sub female)12/15/2017

New to being bi and bdsm scene
Hoping for a dominant woman to show me the ways- looking for something very casual.

Online D/S
I am a 33 year old submissive. I am very obedient. I’m new to being BI and would love to experience a Mistress for online only. I am a full time college student so they will need to work with that.
Pixie1984​(switch female)12/10/2017

New and curious
I am in a relationship with a man and have been really curious about being with another woman. Not looking for a serious relationship just someone to play with and be friends.
Cupcake​(sub female)11/20/2017

Looking for Mistress Right
eager, caring, humorous sub lesbian with a will and drive to perform and succeed looking for her One. Willing to relocate to USA or Canada, or even Australia. I have been on other sites, and been screwed around or over one too many times. Looking for the REAL Deal, 24 / 7 and live in :)
jojopheonix​(sub female){none}11/08/2017

I am currently looking for an online relationship with a dominant women. Message if you are interested.
BlacklyLacedXx​(sub female)10/11/2017

New and eager to learn
46 yrs old female anxious to learn her way As a sub.
Rose1971​(sub female)08/10/2017

babygirl / sexual submissive seeks Daddy Dom
Sweet baby girl looking for a new Daddy. We can start online with Kik and voice chat. And, then meet. I'm looking for a relationship. And, I'm willing to relocate for the right guy. Be single.

Interests: cock worship, having my face fucked, high sex drive, dressing up, cartoons, snuggling, bathtime with Daddy, coloring, reading stories, tea parties and anything fun.

Usually I feel around 13 but sometimes I feel more 8 years old. I don't see anything wrong with being a little. Being Daddy's good girl is everything to me.
rachealinjax​(switch female)07/10/2017

Seeking discipline and owner
Basics about me: am a single mom, going back to teaching college and trying to get control of the ensuing chaos. Plus trying to get back to eating healthy. Grew up in a very strict home and have learned to adapt it to adult life as well. But it helps to have someone on the other end of the expectations......

Been in the D/s lifestyle since I was 19, so at this point it's second nature if that makes sense. Since for me a lot of it is mental, I don't mind the online only. Especially as a single least the past ten years has been mainly online.

And that fetish list is just a glimpse, I'm quite hedonistic lol
MysticBum​(sub female)06/28/2017