37 y/o
California
Eager New Sub Boy Looking for Patient Alpha Dom Teacher
I am a sub vers/bottom boy new to his role looking for a true alpha Dominant Daddy who is kind, caring, and patient to help me learn my new role, more about this culture, and how I can best please him. I am still learning if I am a true, domestic submissive, if I'm more of a sexual submissive, or even just a kinky bottom. That is why I am seeking mentorship most of all. I would like someone who can educate, train, and nurture me, take me under his wing and teach me about this lifestyle in a safe, open-minded, trusting environment.
We can connect virtually for now, and explore from there. Ideally I would like to try being controlled sexually, domestically, and romantically. If this might be you, please read on.
Although I am 33 years old and enjoy passionate, physical, aggressive sex with a man, I still feel like I am a boy inside, needing firm, loving male guidance. I feel like a boy prince in search of his King Daddy to obey and serve.
I feel like a big, nerdy kid at heart. I adore whimsy, relish playfulness. I have heavy interests in video games, I still watch cartoons, I have an intense love for Star Wars, and frequent theme parks (Disneyland being my clear favorite). I collect toys and memorabilia. I'm still independent and keep all my adult responsibilities, but it is my childhood interests that bring me the most joy.
I can have slightly bratty tendencies, as I enjoy being spoiled, but love being obedient and winning approval. Very receptive to discipline; it won't be needed often, unless I want to be punished. I can be sassy if I'm being disrespected - demean me, but don't be mean. I've also been called needy and greedy, but these were slurs by men who weren't as compatible with me. Generally I love being a good boy, and love even more being told so.
I am a sweet and sensitive egalitarian on the streets, and a depraved and ravenous slut boy in the sheets; I would like to find a Daddy who matches. Because I'm geeky, I'm imagining someone who can be the Batman to my Robin, and who can play Bruce Wayne in polite company.
I would like a true alpha Daddy who truly values my submission to him, who will make me the center of his world as he becomes the center of mine, and is as devoted to treasuring me as I am in worshipping him, who loves the time we spend together. I would like a Daddy who wants to do things together, share life experiences with. I would like a Daddy who is outwardly an intelligent, considerate gentleman, but also a carnal beast of unquenchable sexual desire underneath who will use me for his pleasure whenever and however he wants, who will demean and abuse me sexually.
I would like a Daddy who can have a casual, routine relationship with me on the surface, but with the underlying understanding that I'm his bottom bitch boy; a man who will assert his Dominance when he wants and needs to, who can be tender and cuddling me one moment, and slapping and throwing me around ripping my clothes off the next.
I would like a Daddy who can take me out in public who will talk dirty in my ear and play with me when no one is looking, or make me wear a butt plug until he's ready to remove it and replace it with his dick. To the unassuming, untrained eye, nobody would be able to tell that you own me, but we would both know at all times and engage each other in any way we could. I respond well to very tactile, physical, sensual lovers - the more you want to touch me, the better. Take me and make me all yours. And I love dirty talk, in person or remotely; always remind me of your Dominance over your naughty boy.
Constant arousal and fondling, no matter where we are or what we're doing, in any form - physically or just mentally - is key.
I would like a Daddy who can help me discover all the interests and boundaries of my kinks. I think I might also like leather, bondage/harnesses, toys, jockstraps, armpits, orgasm control... Help me learn more about the lifestyle, and myself.
I would also like a Daddy who has a genuine interest in me and my well-being, who wants to nurture me to be a better person, to one day be a King. I thrive well under structure and stability; a fitness-minded, goal-oriented, careeer-driven Daddy would be a great role model for me to have. I'm not a sugar baby, I want to earn my place in life and make a living for myself. I just need help finding my way there.
Still reading? Thank you for your attention.
More specifically, I want a Daddy who's older than me, but ideally not considerably older. I am aware that a number itself does not determine attraction, so I will not limit myself any further than to say if there's mutual interest, that's what's more important. Suffice to say an "older brother" or "young dad" vibe is what I am picturing. (Calling me "bud", "son" or "boy" are all turn-ons.) And about attraction, as much as I need to be emotionally dominated, I need it physically too, and that can only happen if we are mutually attracted to each other.
I am drawn toward a range of height/weight proportional frames, solid physiques, and also thiccular builds - firmness being the commonality. Also am very drawn to my height or taller, big chests, beefy arms, well-groomed beards, furry bodies, and thick cocks. These are preferences; it's not a deal breaker to not check every box. Mostly just be fit enough to keep up with and control your boy; we should have fun wrestling, but I shouldn't be able to overpower and manhandle my Daddy.
I am currently in a long-term monogamous relationship and live with my boyfriend; for more information about that, and me in general, you should please read my profile. Also please note that I identify as a boy; I am not looking to be a slave.
Initially I would like to establish a virtual connection, explore our compatibility, and see where it leads us from there, whether something short or long-term can develop. I'm open to discovering the different experiences I can encounter in this lifestye, with the right guidance and at my pace. If you think you might be the kind of teacher I'm looking for, then please let your boy know.
August 14, 2020 at 11:21 PM