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Are you a female switch living in Virginia who is looking for a male bondage partner? If so, and you are between 28 and 55, message me.

ISO Females only for play ONLINE , willing to train the right one
My Daddy & I are looking for a bicurious/bisexual female sub/switch/domme to join us for some online play for starters, face to face later on if all goes well and parties agree. We want a woman with a great personality to be considered as a playmate. Your role will be a submissive one when playing with us. Please advise if you are familiar with the submissive protocol for D/s. We want our playmate to be submissive in any conversations with us as well. We are willing to assist you with the ins and outs if you don’t know them and you’re interested.

Verbal conversation(s) will need to happen prior to any action. We prefer Skype, then Google hangouts, then phone number (no kik). Fetishes and kinks will be discussed. Please let us know by private message ASAP if you are interested. Understand that DISTANCE IS NOT AN ISSUE for us, we can travel anywhere. THE CONNECTION IS MOST THE MOST IMPORTANT thing to us not the distance. Please be thoughtful in your response to us with more than just a one line response.
Gem5alphasub​(switch female)02/23/2018

Natural Born Dom Male seeking Very Submissive Female
Would like you to be in or around Dallas TX, can relocate. I can also be your trainer if you are inexperienced. If you enjoy being Spanked, Hard, then you are a Sub and in need of training. If you are fully trained and seeking a new Master, I treat my Subs Very Well. I am 5' 6" tall, 160 lbs, Long Brown Hair, Hazel Eyes. Former Military Man. You 5' 8" or shorter, 140 lbs, prefer petite and/or slimmer Females, I enjoy flat chested women as well as well endowed. Hair & Eye color no preference. 18 to 35 would be ideal, but am open to compromise for the right Sub. If you think you are not good looking, or not fitting in somehow, please hit me up, I don't believe in that.

Sluts in need of abuse?
Yes it's gonna hurt but don't worry Daddy is gonna enjoy every second of it!! If you desire to be used and abused then you need to message me?
Uncutdom89​(dom male)02/22/2018

Dominate me
20 y/o white female looking for someone to punish me
ChristinaK​(sub female){Owned}02/22/2018

Young Dom Seeks Sub Anywhere
First off I would like to thank you for actually taking the time to read this.
I'm just going to put this all out there and if I sound like the type of guy you'd be interested then send me a PM. I'm open and honest and I feel like my advertisement should be too.
A little about me: I am 19 years old, slim build, deep voiced man living in the DC area but I am experienced as an online Dom and have had submissives from as far away as Australia and it worked out so really anywhere is fine.
I am a massive gamer and aviation nerd so being my submissive means you will need to put up with that. I also do volunteer work, fist aid training, and I make lovely audios you can have a look at on my profile. A submissive who can show interests in my hobbies is a must, it's a side of intimacy I think gets overlooked in the BDSM community.
My kinks include but are not limited to: Spanking, choking, collars, bondage (light and heavy), breast play, public play, degradation, humiliation, gags, breeding, and roleplay. Always wanted to use a remote controlled vibrator long distance on someone so we could talk about that.
What I look for in a submissive: I need someone who can be loyal, trusting, willing to learn, ages 18-40 (will discuss older), respectful , caring, someone who can be both my best friend, my lover, and my little fuck toy.
Limits: Ageplay, rape, kidnapping, significant abuse (ask me about it), blood (bruises and scratches are fine), needles. Feel free to ask me about any of these.
I am a flexible dominant and so I really like to get to know my submissives so I can be the type of Dominant they need me to be. If you made it this far thank you again, please send me a PM even if you aren't interested and just have a question or want to talk. Have a nice day!
SlothForce1​(dom male)02/22/2018

Looking for a discreet play relationship
I am a married Dom I am also an artist who is looking for my muse, my canvas, my willing partner in crime. I am a gentle Dom but at times I can be demanding. I am in shape and do enjoy yoga, outdoor activities and indoor activities too;)
When I am not busy I enjoy sitting down with a single malt, a good book and soft music to while away the day.
I am open to all roles such as subs, slaves, switches and Dommes. I believe in good communication and placing everything on the table to explore.

What I do requires a long term commitment and a trust between each other. I do look out for best for my sub, slave or partner. I like to bodypaint and costume play. I also have other kinks too such as food play, blindfolds, massage, latex, and mask play.
I been active in this lifestyle for several years now. The problem I face is my life partner has decided not to be involved in the lifestyle anymore. She feels age has come against her.
I would like to find someone who is flexible in meeting up and willing to explore locally. The other piece is I do travel for work and if you can meet me while on the road that will be a plus too.
No blood, scat,drugs, under age or anything illegal.
Kinkyp69​(dom male)02/21/2018

Looking to meet a sub/slave
Me abd my partner are trying to find a sub or slave for full time lifestyle. Want someone live in. Don't want to rush or anything get to know them and see if we click :)
Redwolf92​(switch male)02/21/2018

Dolly boy seeks keeper
This may be a little unconventional, but here goes...

My inner submissive self takes the form of a toy/doll -- I have a deep ingrained need to be a cherished object that belongs to someone, who controls my actions/mannerisms and takes care of me, like any good doll owner would. Although I play with other dominant types regularly, I would really like to find someone who is interested in this sort of power exchange dynamic and dollification.

Ideal candidates include those with a firm, caregiving type personality (so there may be some crossover with Daddy/Mommy doms), who are okay with polyamory. My natural preferences skew towards male-identifying individuals, but I am open to anyone really. Also, this can start out online but a RL component at some point would be lovely.

I could ramble quite a lot about my feels regarding this subject, but it seems best to keep this short and sweet.

If anything here happens to pique your interest, please do message me!
Kamimura​(switch trans ftm)02/20/2018

Detroit sub seeks bondage
Detroit area bi-male submissive seeks bondage sensory depravation bdsm and other safe kinky activity from male or female or couple nearby . i'm safe healthy fit clean quiet respectful and love inescapable real bondage , chains hood exhibitionism etc. Love long sessions , overnights , or even 24/7 permanent.
Bondage4me​(sub male)02/20/2018

seeking slave to serve LTR
SF bay area seeking long term slave to serve me. Must be very orsl, domestic, submissive, into being dominated and controled. Any race OK. Age 30 to 60.
MsEbonyAngela​(dom female){Looking to}02/19/2018

Curious guy looking for guide
Straight guy with girlfriend. 20 years old and never had and kinda sexual attraction or interaction with a guy. However I have a fantasy where I have just one boss/guide type person I can just let me self go and do everything and anything for. Want to made into a filthy slave
KayLid​(sub male)02/19/2018

New Dom looking for a slave
Hi I'm a new Dom looking for a slave online to start. I'm willing to train a new slave with no experience or one with experience. If I take with no experience we learn together. Or experience slave can show me but I will be in control .
Cagedsex1968​(dom male){No}02/18/2018

Nampa MASTER looking
What's up fellas I'm looking for a new slave in the Nampa area or one that is willing to relocate here I am a sadist to a certain extent I will require my slave to serve domestically as Well he must be masculine height and weight proportionate between 21-45 if interested leave me a message no cross dressers sissys or trans they are just not my thing into hypnosis bondage CBT TPE ELECTRO TOYS EXHIBITION HUMILLIATION ETC
Hypnophoenix​(dom male)02/18/2018

Seeking Black Dom for Sexting for Boyfriend
Hello, this is my first attempt at trying this. My boyfriend is into getting a black bull to randomly text him about and make him feel submissive and belittled.

Sub seeking transgender mistress or a mistress
Hello I'm wanting to be someone's sluty whore and be treated as one be fully dominated and owned my hole is yours to open my pinis is yours to pls I still have some to learn but very willing and have very good manners always so come get me let me be your cum slut fuck toy
Strifen123​(sub male){i want to }02/16/2018

Female Dom for a scene
Switch Male looking for female Dom or female Switch who would like to get together and play it out . If your a Switch and just want to check out your Dom skills let's talk .
No expectations , no judgement , could be NSA or whatever it turns into

Sensual Domination and Ropeplay
Seeking play partners for ropeplay, shibari, sensual domination. Flexible, ssc, no strings attached.

Looking for couple
I am looking for a couple, male who is bisexual and a female partner who want to experience two men.

A Slave or Submissive, does not correlate to worthless!
I am a happily Married older Dominant dude living in Northern Illinois. I seek a woman with values who is seeking to learn safe, sane, consensual pleasures from a lifestyle Dominant. I am not looking to change my life, but am looking to help you learn from my experiences!
I am well known all over the internet as "LATEXHER", Master, writer, published artist, and of course erotic photographer. If you are a natural born woman older than 21, but younger then I, please don't pass up my offer! I am Clean, safe (vasectomy) and well experienced. We own our personal playspace which we refer to as our FUNgeon. I also am a custom builder of fine dungeon devices and dungeon contractor!