new or experienced petite or meduim built sub for ltr
i,m a daddy/dom looking for a real woman/slave/sub/little for a longterm bdsm life style,,but we would have to see if there is a connection and if this is the life you are looking for,,,any questions can be asked as i do not have anything to hide,,also i do not share my sub,,,,so if your looking for multiple doms then pass me,,,
Hi! I’m a Tokyo-based writer and editor, seeking a submissive woman for a variety of play, fun, and hopefully to both grow as a dom/sub. Please read my profile for more in-depth information on my likes, interests, and so on.
New Dom looking for a sub to help me get grip of the reins, maybe quite literally ;)
I've been role-playing BDSM and sex and stuff for a while but I've never been part of a website this professional/serious into the BDSM scene.
According to one of the users it's pretty different from role-playing BDSM, so I'm looking for a sub to teach me how to be a better Dom, sometimes the best way to please a customer is to ask them what would please them!
Stable, Mature, Intelligent, Driven, Kind, and Attractive Man Looking for Female Partner
Hello everyone, and thank you in advance for looking at my ad.
I'm a 29-year-old adult white heterosexual cis-male ("cis" means "not-trans" for anyone unsure) looking for a cis-female partner. Ideally, I would like this to be a life-long relationship, as I feel that relationships are something built over time, rather than discovered by searching through multiple partners. As a partner, I have a lot to offer: I'm very kind, a faithful friend, financially + emotionally stable, intelligent, and fairly attractive. I've done well for myself, especially considering where I started, and I'd like to use this stage of my life to actively find a partner. I don't need a partner, but the companionship and sexuality of a relationship is something I deeply want. Please look at my profile or message me, if you feel so compelled. I hope to hear from you soon, and wish everyone all the best as they search.
Looking for my sub that understands she is in control, I just do what she likes. Enjoy myself. My pleasure comes from hers. I will punish as seen fit, since we made the rules, she is breaking them to receive my attention. That's what she wants, that's what she gets. 2 safe words so we can take a break, or completely stop and talk through what went wrong. If time is needed you'll have it. Only have time for one sub right now. To start we can have meet ups, but for the good stuff, once or twice a month. Thus is negotiable as we might hut it off. But still. To start not a weekly thing. Show restraint and be rewarded.
My Name is Adam I'm 27 years old. I live in Arkansas on the Oklahoma border. I'm looking for a submissive who is from the United States hopefully within the 48 Continental States and is willing to relocate once we get to know each other. I like to play three different roles all of them equally enjoyable to me Dominant, Daddy Dom and Master. I am looking for something long-term. Also I would like a submissive who enjoys being with just her dominant.... I don't like to share. I don't mind us having play partners once were together if that's what we agree upon but I do not want to add anyone to our relationship permanently. I am very strict on my rules and I will enforce punishments when necessary. I like to be in control inside the bedroom and somewhat outside the bedroom. I like to have fun go to movies go out to dinner ect. IDK what else to put on here so if you're interested in getting to know me send me a message I'm a premium member anyone can message me.
I am looking for a sub or little that will grow over time into a lasting relationship in real time. Read my profile for who I am and what I am doing currently.
The sub should be under 40 and willing to explore safely. I am a caring and passionate Dom with a stern level of obedience and respect required. With all things I am not an interested in anything but a real growing/evolving relationship so if this is not something you want to be involved in for the long term move on.
I am 6 foot 2 and about 275 lbs working out is a hobby of mine but not a dedication. All sizes and shapes are welcome from subs/littles.
Hi I'm looking for an obedient sub/switch to have fun with online. Check out my profile for more info about me. Subs of any age/appearance are welcome to message me, we can get to know each other as little or as much as you'd like. Ideally this would be a regular but casual arrangement. You can see what I'm into on my profile, but I'm open minded and willing to try anything once.
Message me if you're interested or have any questions. If we hit it off, we can message further on snap, kik, whatsapp or telegram (I'm willing to download other messaging apps too)
Box fresh London dom in my 30s looking for cyber sub to start with… irl may follow later, if you’re good! Nothing too heavy yet, just interested in some fun and games, though I decide the rules, you just follow them, exactly…. or else!
I am an experienced Dom looking for a Sub that will stick around for awhile. I believe in pain and pleasure used in combination to bring about maximum response. I am not a fly by night Dom. I take my role seriously.
Mature-Professional-Experienced DOM-SEEKS-SUB-WOMAN who knows what she wants & Ready to commit&submit-LTR/Poss.Forever? 'if' we 'click'
I don't 'advertise' my photo for every/any-one to view>"IF" yer interested? & respond? telling me what yer looking for?/what you like?/a pic of course/maybe your limits?*(if you have any?)HOPEFULLY you are near-by?I'm in Bath,Maine...Just 30 miles north of Portland,Me....I can & will travel for the right woman!! HOPEFULLY we BOTH 'relocate' to a warmer climate within 1-2yrs?! I'm "OK" with *(kid)*(thats 'one'kid) "PREFER" you are 'older' & have NONE or NONE Living at home with YOU!!? You also don't smoke*(anything!)*DDF-No Mental illness-Bi=Polar-ADHD-NO Drunks*(recovering-or-NOT!)-NO DRAMAQUEEN!!? You are a lite-social-drinker -or-no alcohol at all? You are Totally Obedient-Loving-Committed-Monogamous & serving to your DOM>You enjoy 'dressing' in sexy-lingerie around the house & ONLY wear feminine clothing-thigh-highs-panties-thongs-skirts-etc. when out in public UNLESS your DOM 'authorizes' -or-'directs' you otherwise!!! I teach-guide-direct-assist-help>NEVER! Do I 'control' or 'order' you....Unless you are "Naughty" then you get put over 'daddy-dom's" knee for a good ass-cheek-warming & reddening "Spanking"!!! There is 'only' "Real-Pain" to the level(s) we 'agree' upon...Daddy is NOT there to 'torture' or 'hurt' you for real!!! THAT is NOT my "JOB" nor my "PLACE"!!! ALLLL willll be 'discussed' at length BEFORE this relationship begins!!! Ultimately you*(we) are each-others "Life-Partner"....we trust & understand each other 110% & we can speak to each other regarding any/every/thing with No Holds Barred*(or 'holes')!! :) Daddy DOM is educated-humorous-good-looking-DDF & pretty-much ALLL the things I 'require' of YOU Above>I am ALSO!!! If you have questions "ASK" I'm honest & up-front-have nothing to hide*(Nor Do YOU!) I guess THAT 'covers' things for now>"IF" I said something here you 'liked'? Please Respond & Talk with me...Sincerely & Respectfully 'charlie' :)
Hi! I'm looking for my babygirl, are you that girl? If so, this girl would, preferably, be slim to average build, within 1-3 years of my age (in either direction) and shorter than me. Being a brat is a huge plus. I've been in one other ddlg relationship before, so I have some experience. I'm very patient, understanding, and very cuddly. I am also very stern when the time calls for it. I love pun/funishments, and having fun in general, hiking, or anything outdoors.
I don't expect to jump into it on the first day, I want to get to know you, inside and out, and earn your trust and submission. I imagine this may start online, but I expect it to evolve into a real life.
I'm Dominate, Your a Submissive Female. We Should Be Together.
Your a woman who enjoys serving his man. You like to cook, clean, organize and run errands. You are wild in bed and eager to please. I will allow you all of these tasks and more. Let's have fun. A night of bowling, a movie, a new museum, mini-golf or romantic sex. There are many more activities we can explore together. I will respect your limits and treat you fairly. You will obey and serve gladly. Shall we connect?
31yo caring Dom looking for a Sub for long-term serious relationship in California
My name is James a 31yo caring Dom looking for a genuine authentic Sub to build with her a relationship based on honesty and trust. I am interested in a relationship with a future which can turn into irl long-term serious relationship I am okay with starting online to test the compatibility and to find out if there is chemistry between us.
My kinks includes but not limited to rope play, whipping, choking and breath play, temperature play, orgasms denial, forced orgasms and vibrators. Of course all that will be applied with in my sub limits.
I am middle eastern 5'5 155 lb black hair, brown eyes and olive skin color.
If you are interested my DM me.
Looking for age range between 22 to 31 yo.
PS: If you are located in far from to California and you are willing to relocate i will visit you in your state in the beginning of the relationship while we getting to know each other and when we decide it is time i will fly you out to California.
I am an experienced Dom Looking for a Sub to form either a virtual or Physical relationship with, or a Virtual Leading to Physical.
I am a generous, honest and caring Dom with a kinky nature, who Treats his Subs with the upmost respect, acknowledgement and firm hand they deserve.
You will be treated safely and with compassion. Your reward will be a Dom, who cares for your needs and offers a lifestyle to compliment your strengths and weaknesses, all the while treating you and using you as you desire.
Female playmate wanted 18+ (prefer age 21-30+) in the Springfield/Rogersville/Willard/Nixa area that would to chat online first or meet to grab a bite to eat/drink or shoot pool or hang out by the water. Then we can get to know each other and see if we have a connection or anything in common!
If this sounds like something you might be interested in hit me up and we can talk details
Hello. I have spent a long time thinking how to word this correctly. Looking at my past relationships, what they had and what they lacked. I have tried dating sites to no avail. There are simply too many prudish people there. This site has people who like the things I like so I figured here would be the best place. I’m recently divorced and trying to move forward. I’m seeking an attractive, sexy, submissive female who can also switch roles from time to time. First off attraction is a MUST! From there we have to become best friends. Open to talk about anything with no fears doubts or judgements. Whatever it is we can discuss it. Trust. I know trust must be earned on both sides and I realize that can take time. I’m willing to work towards that but if it’s not gained in a reasonable amount of time then it’s time to move on. High sexy drive is a MUST! Sex is probably right behind trust in the list of priorities in a relationship and I WILL NOT live in a relationship that does not satisfy me sexually. ABSOULUTELY NO DRUGS!!! Have a job, a career, while I will support you emotionally physically and financially (to an extent). I am not taking you to raise and I ask that you contribute a reasonable amount to your own goals. There. That’s said lol! what do I need sexually? I want it all and am willing to give it back in return. I want sex several times a day. In various ways. I will only date someone who is open and willing to do most anything. Cheating is a deal breaker as I will never go behind your back but I do want someone who is open and willing to explore with others TOGETHER! Threesomes foursomes gangbangs etc. I may even ask you to be toy at times and request that you fuck men and women for my pleasure. I want someone who is very sexy and willing to make videos take naughty photos etc and share them on sites like this. So if you are an attractive sexy highly driven submissive woman that would enjoy being tied up and fucked hard, willing to please my deepest desires at any time, and enjoy all that life can offer. Please drop me a line! I hope you read this and something stirs deep inside of you. Also please be close to my area and willing to come to me as I work from home and as such cannot travel very much.
I am a 49 year old single master looking for submissive women between 25- & 40 to play with and explore. Must be 5'0 to 5'8 busty and willing to do anything for her master. I love rope play, breath play, choking, anal, oral, and rough dominate sex. If your interested and in the Portland,OR area please hit me up. Master Will is waiting.
Handsome senior dominate seeks playmate friendship FWB/NSA, submissive for fun
Handsome attached senior man, 5-11", 210, athletic build. In search of woman play partner for bdsm sessions to explore. I enjoy using restraints, ropes, blindfolds, toys, 9" cock, cuffs, crops, floggers, etc. Hoping to meet someone with a like mind who wishes to explore as well. You be relatively attractive, open minded, playful, attached or married welcome, discreet, within 1 hour drive of Central Orange County, CA. Willing to meet casually first time or two to get to know one another. Lunch, happy hour, morning drinks are a good start. If you'd like to explore a lair even better.
I hope you are doing well! My name is Jason and I am looking for a sub partner preferably monogamous but am open if you have other partners. I realized I had a deep desire to be a Dom when I realized how much I enjoyed it with previous partners. Two values I live by are respect and honesty, I value communication and boundaries more than anything else and would never want my partner to not feel comfortable, given their permission I do have a dark side and it’s something I’d like to share with a partner. Some unrelated details, I am an engineer by day and work out a lot in my spare time. Thank you for taking the time to read my ad!
Older male Dom seeking either a slave or submissive female for real. Age doesn't matter. You should be willing to serve me in any way I say. I'll tell you this upfront...I believe the D/s relationship is built on honesty, trust, communication, respect, and equality. If you become mine...you can expect all those things to be true. I will train you in the lifestyle and its many forms. From BDSM to humiliation to pain to exhibition to being used in every way. Reply to this and let your training begin.
In short, I am dominant male who is NOT new to this lifestyle. However, I require a submissive female who can act professional in public while being a complete submissive in private. Must be drug free! Well, other than marijuana.
I’m a 30 year old male looking for my sub. Be between the ages of 18 and 35 and be local to Houston Texas. Looking to get to know you and have a fun and kinky relationship with you weather only in the bedroom or in the streets as well. Message me so we can get this started
Hello everyone, I am a younger guy and I keep very maintained and in shape. I am looking for somone that is very unique. I have always loved the idea of fisting and stretching a women's pussy. I find it so sexy when somone is into the same thing I can almost think of nothing else. If you are a women and interested in the same please message me, age does not matter to me. I hope you are as excited as I am!!!
retired man.. single 8 yrs..live kind of remote mountain area...45 miles to town.. 77 yrs and active.. at my age im set in ways and dont expect to change..prefer mature to young..but all can reply if you care and see...not a hermit..do enjoy movies..popcorn both in town and at home..retired from military and temper justice with mercy.. ;-) .. have a sence of humor too .. so you would need one also... women are wonderful forms for cherishment and enjoyment.. beauty to hold and behold !! Age tempers all things..emotions and feelings included..but life still holds excitment and woman the wonder of it all...no matter what age !!! more layed back then when younger.. all this information is FYI..not being surprised later...
I am a sane, good humoured dominant guy, looking for an intelligent, educated woman who enjoys the submissive role. She will probably be over forty and looking for an ongoing relationship, meeting up regularly. She will enjoy accompanying me at some of the discreet BDSM parties and events that I organise. She will have a sense of humour and enjoy good company as well as BDSM. Could that be you? If so, I would love to meet just for coffee and a chat the first time...
I am begining to lose faith that there is a genuine Female Sub here in the UK that actually wants to meet in the real world.
I live in Hampshire UK and seeking my Ying to my Yang, There is no point being a Dom for 22 years if I do not have a Sub to play work and develop with. If you are real and can taste what is like to miss being who you are and want to be please drop me a message and lets see where we go from there.
Read my profile to find out a little about me. In reality only by spending time together will you know me and in turn find the deep you.
Lawyer and MENSA member who rose through life by talent, intelligence, very hard work and the grace of God. Strong both physically and mentally. Although strong by birth/DNA, I am a very experienced Dominant that balances strength with the intelligence to guide and teach. I have "converted " many into submission and many I have taught were first time, intelligent, very successful Alpha females. It seems to be something that has occurred frequently as they are often drawn to Me.
My best fit will be with another who knew from their youth they were born to be a powerful Man's servant - notwithstanding what society may have taught them. There are different types of alpha males: hunters, warriors, warriors who have become leaders of the clan/tribe etc. I am the latter. The tribe looks to Me for leadership and I lead and protect them. I have years of experience and will share evidence of such - like journals etc - that I have obtained over the years once the conversation becomes serious. I am that once in a lifetime opportunity. If you were in a room with Me, you would choose Me.
Live in submission is required but we will need to evaluate each other to get to that point and I won’t rush my evaluation process for sex – getting vanilla sex is very easy for me – I am seeking the right submissive. You should feel you were born to serve a strong male (even if you have hidden it) who in turn would provide and protect you. But this is not SD/sd and I do not subscribe to the teaching that submits Me to the gift of your submission - making your "gift" the controlling principle. You should know deep in your soul - at a cellular level that you have been searching for your place of ownership and protection all of your life - you want someone else to make the decisions and take on the stresses of life so you can serve them.
You should love to give massages, be very sexual and want to live to take care of your “Man.” I am fit, attractive and look at least ten years younger than I am. You should be fit and attractive or willing to do whatever it takes to get there if I choose you. If you have children, they should be grown or almost there.
At home, behind closed doors, we will maintain a 24/7 lifestyle. You will be collared and suitably undressed (perhaps a corset) when at home. I do not deny my sub pleasure but I enjoy keeping them at the edge and pushing them to earn their orgasms. I believe in orgasm control not orgasm denial. I require obedience and will punish when necessary (or at my pleasure if I deem it so). However, I am not a full-blown sadist. I want to mold you, not destroy you. I am patient but will still push you to your limits. I am both an addictive and demanding Master. We will spend many, many hours in the sexual sm/ds realm of our relationship. If intrigued, reach out to Me.
I prefer my sub to be much younger than me. I'm 43, though I don't look my age. 18-25 range is ideal, but not set in stone. I also like tits. The bigger, the better. If you have DDD+ or better, real or fake, that's a bonus. If you're smaller than that, you will be willing to get them bigger. You will be a service sub/oral sub in a 24/7 dynamic, and interested in a long term relationship. You will be loyal, faithful, and obedient. Not interested in anyone who wants to be shared, poly, has brat tendencies, or lots of limits. You will be willing to do whatever is commanded of you, be it sexual or daily life instances. You will live to serve and please me, and only me. You will be treated as a princess in return for your servitude and obedience, and will live a happy life in an awesome dynamic and relationship. Punishments will also be dealt for disobedience, brattiness, and any other form of stepping out of your sub zone. Limits must be few to none.. I require a sub who is not only willing to do whatever pleases me, but happy to do it as well. Life with me involves complete submission, bondage, humiliation, degradation, impact, excessive oral play and/or brutality, posing, and routines. If you are new to the lifestyle, even better. I love and prefer to train my sub from the beginning anyway. If you aren't new to the lifestyle, that's fine too, but be aware I am a traditionalist type, not this TNG stuff. So if you're interested in a long term situation, with a traditionalist life intermixed with being a spoiled princess, with an older man.. contact me. If I think you have potential and are worth my time.. you might get a response. If you are Feminist, Bratty, smart-mouthed, promiscuous, or have an aversion to cum in your mouth.. don't waste my time. You must be a total cum-slut, among other things, and only for me. Bi is acceptable as well. If you wanted to do the occasional scene with another woman, I might allow it. Contact me if you wish to discuss this further, and/or possibly move forward with vetting.
Looking for a committed, not necessarily experienced sub who is interested in a full on LDR. with the hope of eventually getting together
Am an experienced, patient dom with many years experience, especially in training new subs.
If you have the commitment, then please contact me.
Kinks are many and varied, you being masochistic would br a bonus!
New to the lifestyle and looking to find an experienced sub who can show me the ropes. Looking for an online relationship, but would love to go further if things go well. Feel free to contact me with any questions. Open to pretty much anything heterosexual.
I am a cultured and passionate Dominant Gentleman who loves to teach, mentor and guide. I place a premium on structure, protocol and service. Having said that I am not interested in a submissive who is a doormat, I want a submissive who is able to stand tall even when she is kneeling before me.
What I’m looking for is someone who is genuine, intelligent, charming, well put together, comfortable in her own skin as well as confident about her position as a submissive and realizes that it makes her wanted and admire... someone who takes pride in her submission and service ...a self confident submissive is a delight to behold. she is sure of her value, comfortable of her worth, and display her self confidence with quiet pride...never arrogance.
I value trust, integrity, commitment and honest communication. I expect nothing less than I'm willing to give, and the standard I set for myself.
Looking for an Au Pair who is interested in being part of a relationship with a fit 36 yr old white male and a 30yr old beautiful blonde kitten . Based in Florida for the time being with relocation a possibility down the road.
She is not interested in having more children. I on the other hand am up for it. This relationship would be very connected and you would need to be open to a long term live in situation and open to having children. You would be an equal part of this relationship but would also care for any kids and the house as well. You will be taken care of in every way possible and will also travel with occasionally or at discretion..
If you have interest, questions, or intrigue. Email title “Au Pair”.
I’m looking for a slut. A woman who knows she needs to be fucked often. And she likes to be used as a plaything for her master. And she has a big naughty pussy. If this is you, you probably know it deep down. That’s why you should get in touch with me. I’ve got some plans for your big, well used pussy. Get in touch and let’s get started. I don’t mind if you’re shy or quiet, but the ad says slut and it says big pussy so expect that imm going to treat you like a slut from day one.
I had taken a break from this life. Looking to get back into it
I am a very strict Dom when it comes to my rules or assignments. But I like a submissive who has a sharp tongue and challenges me from time to time.
I like humiliation and I also love to control my submissives. That includes wardrobe control and orgasm control. There could be days I won't let you touch yourself if you are being punished so be prepared for that. I also have a sadistic side and love inflicting pain on my submissives. So masochists and me will go well together.
I am looking for an online submissive rn but an irl one would obviously be preferred although because of covid, it's highly unlikely. The nature of online relationships means trust is important and I am aware it takes time to build trust but definitely lying in this sort of relationships makes it all pointless. Honesty is important.
My previous experiences have made me a better Dom. And hopefully I will learn more being your Dom. My BDSM test results are on my profile. Looking forward to hearing from you!
Older male dominant seeking younger submissive or slave female
I am seeking a submissive or slave female for 24/7 365 live in service to me. I am very strict and give severe punishments and discipline. I also give punishment/maintenance enemas once or twice a week. I live in Winter Haven, Florida 33884 If you are a younger Female and would like to live this life please leave me a message. I will also consider an older in shape female.
Looking for someone loyal and obedient, (and who loves receiving praise and compliments!)
I'm as into the sweet stuff as I am into the rough stuff, there's plenty of both! If you're into aftercare, I'm the dom for you.
I don't mind clingy, I'd be around for you a lot. So long as you're there for me in turn.
I don't mind starting online, so long as you come to me often.
Expect pet names, teasing, praise, and plenty of discipline and rewards.
If things go well, expect to be collared. I'll pick a good one out for you.
Check profile for some of my favorite kinks, but I'm pretty open to a lot.
Seeking submissive woman for ownership and new beginnings
Hi I am new to this whole dynamic is day to day relationships. Though I have experimented with this scene online only though. I would like to go above my horizons and become an owner that has actual physical contact. I want to experience this and I am seeking an experienced or new sub woman to join me on this journey. You must be based in NY, NJ, PA, DE, or CT if not based in any of the locations you must be already moving to any of those locations. I am black strong athletic alpha male who loves being in complete control everything on me is big as well. I have to race preference as I am into all women, so feel free to respond to this as I am looking asap to start this journey.
I am looking for a Submissive to enjoy a relationship with. Some of the things I like are below and the normal non kinks (movies, travel, walks in the park, events with friends, a relationship that's developed in all areas)
Anal, Light Bondage, Heavy Bondage, Long-term Bondage, Degradation, Body-writing, Hypnosis, Subliminal Conditioning, Pavlovian Conditioning, Flogging, Whipping, Spanking, Facials, Rough/Primal Sex, Mounting, Face Fucking, Forced Orgasm, Edging, Orgasm Denial, Humiliation, Name-Calling, Choking, Toys, Gags, Begging, General Worshipping, Pet Play, Nipple Clamps, Hot Wax, Genital Slapping, Clothes Pins, Collars, Clothing Control, Public Control, Spontaneous Sex, Forced Arousal / Wetness.
Now you know what I am into and what I would want you to be ok with if you are interested in a partnership with me. You have seen my kinks now let me tell you about myself I have a full-time job that pays decently, I regularly go to my local gym I keep myself in shape and I expect you too as well, I am 6'3 and about 200lbs, I have brown hair and blue eyes. As a Dom I am fair I will NOT punish you for nothing if I am punishing you it is for a reason, and my punishments are quite different than the kinks above, I believe that creative punishments separate from my kinks sets it apart and makes more of an impact.
What I am looking for in a partner physically, first of all I am looking for a female not a male or an MTF transgender person, I do not care about hair and eye color I have penchant for natural red heads and blondes, but I am not opposed to any hair color over the other. I am also looking for a woman that keeps herself in shape an Athletic or slim body type is what I am looking for no you do not have to be a 2 or 0 or 00 I don’t have those extreme standards. Do not expect me to support you while we are online as I am not made of money and I have no guarantee that you won’t just take my money and ghost me.
One of my biggest pet peeves is Ghosting, if you ghost or have the tendency to do so don't even bother reaching out to me, If you are not interested in talking or no longer find this dynamic conducive for you just tell me I won’t try to keep you or accost you. Also, I work most days so I really don’t have time to play games none of this "Oh, I leave him on read" or "I told him no, but I just want him to try harder" I will not play those games It’s a waste of my time and I am very patient and am not desperate for a partner. Tell me what you want straight up and be honest I have and this ad and everything will just work out better as I am not a mind reader.