I’m searching for a female submissive for an IRL D’s dynamic in a poly- monogamous relationship. ( Read profile or message for more on this. Not as strange as that might sound).
Ideally I’m looking for someone who is bisexual, seeking a softer/gentler Dom, but enjoys bondage, orgasm control, acts of service, etc… and view submission as not just a physical, but mental act. I want our relationship to be kinky, adventurous, and enjoyable for everyone, however I am looking for someone who has a genuine desire to submit and stick around longer term. Essentially I’m not trying to play games, talk, get ignored, talk, hookup, talk, etc… I’m looking for someone who has the ability ( time wise, emotional wise, mental wise) to commit ( if it leads to that) to a Ds dynamic and also desires “vanilla-esque” aspects of a relationship, like going to dinner, going on trips, etc…
Ideally I’m looking for someone 18-30, slender- curvy, feminine, classy & not afraid to speak her mind ?
I'm rather inexperienced when it comes to owning a slave but it's something I have dreams about and am very serious about doing so I'm seeking a slave who may be in the same boat never owned and looking to explore 24/7 we can chat more about it distance is not a limiting factor if this is truly the life you want I will help with Relocation if you are distant I want to meet in person before such things are considered.
I’m looking for something unique. I’m searching but not necessarily looking (if that makes any sense) for a relationship. My partner would be a mix of lg, sub, slave and most likely some primal with masochistic tendencies and high sex drive ( 2-4 times/day). Someone that enjoys bondage, rough sex, anal and choking will mostly likely be a requirement. 1950ish household and/or head of household is part of what I’m leaning towards.
She would most likely have light colored eyes…blue,green, hazel, etc. Other than that as long as it relatively HWP, I’m good.Intelligence is a requirement. You don’t have to have a PhD or even a degree but you do need to have something going on upstairs. Kinda looking for a Queen to fight by my side instead of a princess. Monogamous and long term. Need to see my partner on a regular basis. Once a week at a minimum. I want to date. Movies, dinner, events, etc. I want us to get to know each other. If you’re wanting a collar in a week or a month…well
I’m a 34 year old Daddy, seeking a submissive / little. Open to girls from abroad for LDR. I’m pretty adaptable and have been with girls that require care, love and attention to girls who just want to be used and degraded. I’m a regular gym goer and take pride in my appearance. I would prefer someone who does the same, but am open to exceptions. I’m someone who is naturally very caring and attentive. I’ll notice when somethings off and ask what I can do to make things better. Sexual matters are important and I’m not interested in non sexual relationships. I will not say too much more as I would love to get to know you on a one on one basis.
I currently live in the south and my last sub had a lifestyle change (got married) and I need a new sub(s). If you're interested message me, I'm open to many things in this world. The most I can do is say no. Willing to chat, text, the occasional phone conversation, and possibly a meet in the future.
I am looking for a nice obedient sub that will treat her dom with respect and love. I will treat my sub baby girl like a princess. I am very loving and caring. I can be strict and put my sub in her place. Thank you.
I’m a single novice dom. I do intend to gain more experience but unfortunately where I live prevents me from advancing. I’ll answer any questions the reader of this might be curious about. I’m not looking for a play mate so don’t bother unless you are into ltr irl and open minded about perverse sex.
Hi! I’m a 19M Dom from Central Massachusetts and I am looking for a new sub! Despite my age, I have a decent amount of experience, especially in online dynamics, so if you’re new to the scene then I can and would be happy to help.
Because of logistics and other irl things, I most likely can’t do in-person stuff for now, but I would love to have an online dynamic! Like I said, I have a decent amount of experience online, having had a few online subs in the past.
If you’re interested, feel free to send me a message! By the way, if you’re not okay with sending NSFW pictures or things of that nature that is 100% okay and I would still be thrilled to have you as a sub. Thanks!
I’m new to The Cage but I’ve been kinky for a while now and I’m trying to branch out in the city to discover all there is in the Boston BDSM community. Not only am I trying to find play partners, munches, and events, I’m also interested in making friends with like minded individuals or couples in the area. Let’s chat!
Straight Sadist seeking beta to degrade, feminize & own
The title says it all, pretty much.
To avoid wasting my time and any potential applicants time - I am a masc, bearded, business professional of Spanish and Italian descent.
I am seeking a long term and discreet arrangement with very few limits. I am based in South florida - I am married and require the utmost discretion. If you think that you’re an ideal fit - you likely are, I can break any beta.
Submit the following prior to your submission to me -
Tell me a bit about how you discovered you were. beta and why you think I should choose you over all of the other pathetic betas that will likely apply.
I enjoy life as a grey nomad and am looking for a partner to be my 24/7 sub. Princess by day slut by night. The retired lifestyle is fantastic, we will tour Australia everyday.
Your desires and fantasies can be anywhere on the spectrum only that you want to serve and be serviced (everyday).
Pm me for more information.
Laid back poly Master seeks slave girl to join family
I have been living the M/s lifestyle for the last 9 years, with 10 years of BDSM experiance befor that. I am a teacher in my local community, presenting on Power Exchange, BDSM skills, and Communication and Emotional Maturity.
These are things that are foundations of my relationships.
I seek women who are able to surrender Authorityy from a place of persaonal strength. And I know that to be able to surrender, first trust must be built. I am not looking for instant gratification but to spend time getting to know if a woman to see if we are compatible. the end goal is to have that woman join our house hold as a full member of the family.
My preferred "type" are 25-35 years old, well purportioned women of any ethnicity.
To be honest I'm really bad at introductions and bios and anything along those lines. So I'll try to keep things sweet and short.
I'm 30 - 5'8", average build, blonde, blue-eyed and bearded.
I'm looking for a kitten/sub who's affectionate, sweet, and overall obedient. You should be able to communicate your needs clearly, and willing to work on yourself and our relationship. I want to get to know you intimately - and not just on a physical level.
I'd like to keep this online for now, but am not opposed to possibly meeting in the future, if we click and both decide it's a step we want to take. I'm also okay with keeping things text-based initially as well just to help ease into this.
Check my profile for more info, or just send a message.
Seeking woman for 24/7 sub/slave relationship and role. If we talk I will send pic privately. There are extenuating circumstances so trust is a huge deal as always. This will be a long process as we need plenty of time to talk and eventually meet before massive concrete decisions are made. You must be willing and able to relocate.
I'm a Dom with ten years of experience under my belt. I’m currently seeking a submissive who is willing to do online first and eventually IRL. I do have some expectations right off the bat. I want someone who knows they’re ready to submit fully as a slave and that it’s the lifestyle they most want. Understand, I wouldn't say I like this submission to be instant or forced; instead, I want it to blossom over time. If you are serious about finding out more about me or the possibility of becoming my TBE submissive, then message me. Bring questions cause the more you ask, the more you’ll know.
Looking for a female sub in the 18-23 age range. Open to different things, we can figure out the specifics after getting to know each other more. Also just looking for some cool people to talk to so hmu :)
Highly Experienced Dominant Male aged 53 seeking a submissive female. Detroit, Michigan
I absolutely love to introduce newbie submissives to the scene. Drug and disease free me and you.
You safety is my main concern. We can meet in a vanilla public space where you feel comfortable. You would then tell Me what your desires from this type of relationship. I also have hard limits. No scat, blood, needles, branding, etc... (Not to be judgmental, but that shit is gross and just wrong).
I always use safe words and gestures. I have been training from those in the scene in San Francisco (since 1996), New York (I am there frequently so why not?), Detroit too has quite a scene.
I have a home in Metro Detroit and also one in the Upper Peninsula as well. It’s not far from the Mackinaw Bridge, on the grid, beautiful property for outside activities (Like bondage). The house is small, yet it has a variety of places to have a female submissive restrained so I can have my way with her. In addition, I have a pole barn too. Rafters for ropes, dirt floor if that’s your thing.
We could also meet at my main residence too. Looks of places for fun to be had there as well.
A long term relationship is not out of the question. If you will to relocate, all the better either way.
If you are looking for a Dominant, remember that I have a ton of experience that I would love to share.
For example, I am very good at edging a women with a Hitachi Wand.
Kids are grown, no other interference—Just privacy.
I’m early 50s, extremely fit, seeking to explore an online—with possibly some in-person contact depending on geography—D/s relationship with a fit woman age 25-45. I’ve had some online experience as a Dom, but hope to expand my understanding and practice of domination. I value the ability to communicate well, and expect more than just single sentence messages or inconsistent contact. Let me know if you’d like to chat!
I've over 20 years of experience, looking to train a new girl for a long time collar. I'm heavily focused on behavioral conditioning, and TPE. This will require Relocation as I am not a part time or scene Master.
I am an older Daddy Dom that is newer to the scene with a few years of experience. I am looking for a loyal and loving little, brat, or pet that is looking to be cared for, loved, trained, and molded into my perfect little one. I am very open and interested in a wide variety of kinks and desires and am looking for a long term online to irl situation or meeting someone close to home and see how we hit it off.
If you are interested in learning more or learning about me, drop me a line.
Looking for my hunny bunny that I can tie tight and gag hard! ;)
I'm 31 yrs old and haven't had any luck with some other dating sites. I'm looking for a playmate/girlfriend who's submissive to my every will (in the bedroom of course) but when time comes to do other stuff, I'm the type of guy who likes to do outdoor stuff (swimming, hiking, skateboarding, etc.), playing video games, occasionally reading books as well. It's not a deal breaker but a similar taste in movies would be nice. But anyways I'm rambling, if you're down for a good time, message me. We'll set something up, hope to hear from you. Have a super cool day!
I am a dominant with several years of experience and I will be in Cleveland for work the first week of May. I would welcome the opportunity to meet a lovely woman...submissive....and see if we can have some fun while I am there (and if we connect, then even more after)....
Hello everyone. I'm a 21 year old male dom who's looking for a cis submissive female partner. Basically, I'd like to tie you down and do naughty things to you. Lots of chains, whips, hair-pulling, making you BEG for it, etc.
Not looking for anything super-specific. I'd like to chat first and then see if we can make something happen irl. Tbh I'm more of a sub myself, but I absolutely believe I'm capable of dominating ANY woman mwahahaha >:)
It's all in good fun, of course. I would never actually hurt you, I promise. If I caught your interest, feel free to message me!!!
35 Male Experienced Dominant Looking for female sub UK/Online
I have been in the lifestyle for the past 15 years. I enjoy both mental and physical connection, more about me in my profile and some of the writings I posted here. If interested and serious message me.
46 year old Gentleman Dom is seeking his forever sub/babygirl. I want only a monogamous relationship in and out of the lifestyle. I would prefer to live the lifestyle 24/7. I am open to a long distance relationship with the goal of being together in person. I am willing to relocate to my potential sub’s locale if we work out. I am not into games. Please be serious if you choose to respond to my ad.
I prefer women who are curvy or BBW. I am stocky myself. I want to build a great relationship based on friendship, trust and loyalty. Communication is imperative with me. Please have time in your life. I will spoil you with my time, attention and affection. I want to eventually collar you.
Besides the need to be owned, is a little pain the spice that ignites the passion. Testing your limits in a safe environment is not your only reason to reason to please, but only require interracial devotees to apply
Been in the lifestyle for couple years but working hard at it
I would like a sub that younger, race does not matter, just don't want a sub that been trained for a long time by someone else. I guess I am saying that I want to make this journey with a sub female that learning the lifestyle with me and we do it together. Anyway if you are new to this or somewhat new and you want to give me a try then please message me.
Hello, I'm a 25 year old sadist. I've been in the bdsm community for a long time. Ive been called sweet and understanding in the past, but I'm still a stern and very strict dominant. I'm searching for a long term relationship. I would like to find a sub or slave that wants to settle down with one very kinky man, and have a real 24/7 relationship. Feel free to check out my profile if you are interested, and if you enjoy reading it shoot me a message! I'm not looking to rush into anything, but I would like to get to know you :) I'm more interested in a true connection than I am your age or your looks.
52 Dom searching for my LTR F sub in Quebec or Northern U.S.
I am not new to the lifestyle, I am looking for a partner that will hopefully turn into a Long Term Relationship. all levels of experience is cool with me, I 'm fine with someone who is new so we can explore together, that's what makes it fun for me.
Tell, Attractive and well experienced Master seeking a worthy Sub
I am a firm focused, yet loving and fair Master. I am seeking a submissive or a slave for LTR (only) to train, teach, play with and care for. I have the time, place and skills to put into you.
I am seeking a 24/7 and LIVE-IN lifestyle relationship. If things go well and there is a fit, I do expect you to eventually relocate. Therefore, distance from your current location is not an issue. Age is not important to me. Feminism, obedience, devotion and willingness to learn and serve are the main qualities I look for in choosing a submissive/slave. Loyalty goes without saying.
I really am what I say: tall, good-looking (so I'm told), sane and stable (that's rare here),normal and safe. Add to that well employed, well educated, communicative, creative, artsy, and athletic and you've got me in a nutshell.
From your standpoint:
If you are searching for a handsome tall master-king, whose presence excites and intimidates you, yet still makes you feel safe and secure than send a msg
51 year old business man looking for experienced sub to join me on business trips throughout Europe twice a month. Airfare and hotel taken care of. Please know I am into hardcore BDSM. Feel free to message me to learn more.
Dominant man from Casablanca looking for submissive woman
I am seeking a submissive woman ready to relocate to Casablanca which is a modern and welcoming city, especially for people speaking English. I am seeking an open minded submissive woman who wants to live the lifestyle 24/7 and try new things. I am seeking someone with no limits, who is ready to start a new life to be used for sexual use. Women woth degrees are highly appreciated as I am an intellectual. Blue eyes are much appreciated. If interested, let me know.
I’m looking for a sub who will also be my friend, lover, and partner :) A girl I can take care of, support, teach & train - within a healthy relationship built on communication, trust, admiration & respect.
First, a quick intro :) I'm originally from New Zealand, I live in Berlin and can travel easily, being my own boss. I'm a fit, successful 38 year old guy - I’m a musician, I work in tech, love to cook, write, travel, and have a lot of interests and projects on the go. I’d say I’m a caring but strict Dom.
I'm posting this because I want to build an amazing D/s dynamic together - the precise nature & rules cannot be known in advance, it’s something we both develop as we get to know each other - but I have many ideas and desires, so I will mention just some of the kinds of things that excite me:
I love using reward and punishment to bring the best out of a dynamic. I love giving pleasure, but it must be earned, just like I must earn your submission ;)
I like to give rewards in the form of pleasure, treats, favours, privileges, for giving me full satisfaction and pleasure, and learning to know what I need and want without having to be told. I love to come up with creative challenges & tasks, with the motivation of rewards & special treats, or punishment for failure. As for punishment, there’s the "play" punishment that turns you on and makes you crazy with desire, and then there’s actual punishment that you don't like. I can be creative with both, but I’d prefer a dynamic with more of the pleasurable kind :)
I’d love a sub who gets really turned on by being used as a play thing. This includes toys, restraints, costumes, blindfolds, random stuff like being body painted, tied up in certain positions and enjoyed in creative ways
I seek a sub who wants to master the art of pleasure, as well as being a work of art in herself. A sub who loves to learn and improve, with plenty of tasks and goals, rewards and punishments to help along the way :)
I believe that as a sub, you have ultimate control! You can always decide when things aren't working, when to stop, when to push or extend - you can always open up & communicate, we are both exploring together and we both want the same fulfilment.
As a partner, I want someone I can support in their general life goals & aspirations, and someone who can be supportive and encouraging of mine.
If you’ve read this far, that’s great, please reach out and say hi, and let’s see where things go :)
Looking for a sub/masochist To be owned in a monogamous LTR
Hi young lady, I am a Dom Who lives in Texas in particularly in Garland.
I am 61 years old physician, and I am looking for a long-term relationship with the female sub in A monogamous relationship.
Please let me hear from you if you are interested.
Hi, I'm a 23 yo dom male. I am currently seeing an online situation that would develop into a LTR. As far as what would make for a good dynamic, it is a give and take and I would like to figure that out with my sub.
I am a tall, lean attractive guy and am well traveled. The best dynamic for me would start online and gradually develop into something more serious and possibly in person. Please reach out if you think we would be a good match!
Dominant for the when I can have a good connection with.
I have been involved in the lifestyle for many years and have a vast amount of experience and knowledge to share with that one who desires to serve me. Your submission is a gift to be taken seriously and not likely. Whether you're looking for a daddy or to serve a master it all depends on what your desires are. This is all consensual and limits are respected. I consider myself to be an affectionate and caring dominant who can teach you and be your guide in the lifestyle. This is not something that's all about sex but about the dynamic between a dominant and as submissive. I want someone with whom I can connect with.
I'm looking for someone in north Georgia area and surrounding area that's knows they are submissive and has a burning desire to serve. I'm not into games or long emails. I'm intelligent and if you can hold a conversation that would be a plus.
I am a single, mature and experienced Dom and seeking a female submissive for a long-term D's dynamic relationship.
I've been knowledgeable about the world of BDSM for years, but now I'm looking to get into it. I want someone local that I can get with, someone open-minded, trustworthy, and not judgemental. I don't have much experience, but I'm definitely eager and definitely giving. If this is something that interests you, message me.
Hello there my pet, I see you found my ad. I decided to update my previous ad, since it didn't seem to be doing so well.
I am Garret Mvahd, I am an upcoming game developer who is getting rather sick of dealing with women who seem to be a tad too opinionated. So I thought I'd make this simple. I am looking for a slave, specifically, a sex slave, who will give themselves and their obedience over to me and my will. I expect total obedience from you and I expect you to heed me when I speak and give orders.
I do have standards, so no women who are older than me, women between the ages of 18 and 22 preferred. Will go as high as the mid twenties. Must be attractive and fit. No tattoos or crazy piercings. I am not attracted to black women. Must be spiritual at the least.
I am fine with starting this relation online to test the waters and evolving into a more in person relationship. Message me if you are interested.
Are you looking to be taken care of like no one else has before? Provided with structure, rules, guidelines, tasks and reaching your full potential while under the care of a capable protective Dom? A Dom who is understanding, loyal, educated, caring and willing to make you their #1 priority as he watches you grow and flourish? Someone who is looking for the real deal, no games and wants to put forth the effort to take your mind, body and breath away right from under you?
Look no further. I know what I want and will not stop until I have obtained my goal while taking care of you in the process. Join me and let's walk this journey together. It will be way more fun with some good company wouldn't you agree? :)