Submissive Women Seeking Dominant Women

22 y/o      Alberta

Hey my name is Seathan. I am agender/nonbinary. I am currently seeking a domme for long term play. I am poyamorous and my partner knows I am looking for a domme. I am into spankings, rope play, light verbal degradation, discreet exhibitionism, obedience training and looking to explore more kinks as well. I am still relatively new to the BDSM community and would like someone who can have some patience with me if I am struggling to learn. I would ideally like to have a chance to get to know my potential domme before we start anything.

My hard limits are blowjobs(even to a dildo), scat play, urine play, among a few others.

If you are interested in talking and seeing where we can go from there shoot me a message please!

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  Paris, Île-de-France

Hey, I am discovering BDSM, it’s been a while since I discovered it and I would like a virtual relationship nothing more. I’m about to tell you what I think I am but I am not 100% sure because I have never been in a d/s relationship before. I think I can be a little bit of a brat sometimes and sometimes a little but I don’t know I still have a lot to discover about BDSM and myself. Also I have black hair, and have curves and I am french but mixed blood. I don’t quiet know what I am looking for in a domme because I didn’t really think to look for one until now but I would like her to give me rules even if I will maybe misbehave sometimes. Also I like bondage and I like the idea of getting punish I am not into water games or thing like that but I’m open to discover new things. If you’re interested I have snap. I’m not interested in older than 30 sorry.

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32 y/o      England

I am a Submissive lesbian girl from the south of England, looking for a relationship with a caring dommey woman. I am trans and post-op if that's important to you. I like to take my time and get to know a person before things get kinky.
I am a bit on the fluffy side, thanks in part to a few anxiety issues and agoraphobic tendencies but am trying my best to work on all that. Sometimes I just want a nice lap to cuddle up on and beheld, petted and affectionate with.

I'm a bit of a geek as well, anime/manga, video games, Tabletop miniatures.
Kinks I'm still in the experimental phase but I like bondage, toys, being teased and embarrassed.

If any of that piques your interest and you want to get to know me, drop me a message.


side note to the guys:
please don't waste my time or send me messages about how its a shame I'm a lesbian. I'm not interested.

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29 y/o      Colorado

Denver area lesbian submissive trainee looking for woman-identifying Domme (cis or trans) willing to teach. I am an independent introvert eager to learn my limits, obey and serve, open to sensual or sexual play. Short and curvy, preference to larger women, tell me how you like to be served. Potential kinks abound, see my profile for my limits.

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  Jacksonville, Florida

I’m in a polyamorous relationship, and my dom has given me permission to seek out a female dom as he out of the country growing his business. With that being said any dommes would have full control, and no need to worry about him interfering as he wants this for me as well. As for a little bit about me, I’m a submissive, brat, and little that enjoys degradation, humiliation, and being controlled. I’m also quite a masochist. Recently I’ve been feeling lost, and needing guidance from a domme. I want to serve, please, and devote myself. To all the beautiful goddesses out there, I’d be honored to be graced by your presence

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  Washington

I’m married but have permission to play. Wanting a dom. I am minimally experienced and am craving sooo much more!

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20 y/o      Brighton, England

heyyyyy. im magiblu and im looking for dom women thatll make me never forget them

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  North Carolina

38 year old Caucasian submissive seeking Female Dominant. I am seriously looking for something that will last- for a Master that can shape me into the woman I am meant to be. I have a strong desire to serve. I am not a brat, although I am not perfect, I strive to be a good girl. I am located in North Carolina about 45 minutes from Charlotte. I am a Plus sized woman- size 26, so up front if that is not okay no need to message me. I have been told I look very young and I am very sexy, and I will show photos upon request. If you are are true dominant and are interested please contact me.

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20 y/o      Boston, Massachusetts

Hello, I am an 18 year old female located in Boston MA. I’m looking for a caregiver, I don’t have any preference, male, female, couple, I’d like to get to know everyone, who would be interested in an in person long term Little/Caregiver relationship.

I two little spaces that are unique in and of themselves. I have a space that is roughly 7 years old and prefers the nickname Riky, and then a roughly 2-3 year old space that prefers Ari.

Riky is slightly bratty and like to color, to sing, and play about. She often gets tired fairly quickly and loves to nap.

Ari is fairly clingy, she likes to cuddle, to be cozy, and stay warm, she likes being read to and watching television. Ari doesn’t often nap but does like time to be warm and relax.

It is important to note that these spaces are a way for me to detach and relax, a way to get away from my adult life and drama. Please do not play around with my feelings.

I don’t have any hard limits and am open to talking, I’m excited to meet everyone!

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30 y/o      United States

I am a complex submissive. I am a little who also craves at times to be a slave. I need someone who can flow between Daddy and Master. Who can control with the same hand he cuddles with. Who is romantic but stern. I crave domestic discipline and someone who is strong enough to silence the negative thoughts in my mind. I want to grow with and love someone with a deep passion. While surrendering all to them. If this is you let's chat.

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26 y/o      Houston, Texas

Hi I’m a sub looking for a female Dom. I’m more on the little side with slight bratty vibes. I would like to find someone to possibly grow with, start a friendship then see what grows. I’m kind of a down for anything girl and enjoy taking orders (most of the time ?) the more trust I have in you the more I am able to regress and give my best to you. Let’s get to know each other.

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21 y/o      South Africa

I'm looking for a mentor (Primal, Pet play and Little) to train, guide and educate me.

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23 y/o      Rhode Island

I’m looking for a dominate woman who is interested in training an very new and inexperienced submissive. I’m open to trying new things and I have yet to figure out my limits. Don’t hesitate to message me and ask me a few questions! I’d love to get to know you and build a relationship. I’m open to online/virtual relationship as well as local.

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24 y/o      Chicago, Illinois

Please read my profile Thoroughly, if you feel as if you are even a 60% match. Please shoot me a message.




I’m waiting..

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22 y/o      Nuremberg, Bavaria

Heyy, I am Lucina :)
I'm very new to bdsm and there are so many things in my head, I want to experience.
Therefore I'm looking for someone alike. Someone in a dominant, guiding and teaching role. A mistress.
But I'm only interested in something serious. Like a mistress/slave or domme/sub relationship.
I would prefer real life, but online can be a place to start. If the connection is strong enough, I'd maybe willing to relocate after my apprenticeship.

For me, I'm 19 years old and living in germany.
I would describe myself as very calm, modest and genuine.
Besides that, I'm transgender(mtf). I have chosen to live my life with who and how I am and that needs to be respected.

Please don't bother texting me if you are either looking for nudes, demanding submission right away or transphobic.

"socially intelligent, self-aware, respectful and honest". If you see yourself in these words I would be happy to receive a message from you and getting to know each other :)

Submission is a gift and needs to be earned.

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28 y/o      Eugene, Oregon

I am looking for a female Dom to serve.
I am looking for mentoring.... From anyone.
I am looking for friends who wanna chat with a submissive Japanese girl.

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  Boston, Massachusetts

I’m a submissive slave looking for a dominant women to own me and make me hers
I’m looking for a full time dominant women I’m very obedient and sluty

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33 y/o      United States

I'm just a crazy Gemini in need of a proper dominant female to keep me in line. Maybe even break me, if you can. I've always played a dominant role in past relationships and I now find myself being more comfortable in the submissive role. Looking to explore comfortably and safely. I live in North Carolina. Any suggestions? Feel free to message me.

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20 y/o      Texas

Hi! I am a little new to the bdsm scene however I love the idea of being dominated. I want to be controlled not just in the bedroom but also with everyday tasks. I am currently in college and find it hard to have the motivation to do anything but watch tv so I know that being dominated would not only give me some pleasure it would also help my current work ethic. I am looking for an online relationship at the moment, however later on down the road if things progress I would be down to meet in person.

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24 y/o      Plant City, Florida

Greetings! I hope this ad finds you well. I have been in the lifestyle for three years and discovered I am a pleasure and service submissive. I am also a little, so I would need to let that side out from time to time. I am a free spirit but very loyal to the ones I care and love for. While I am submissive, I am not a doormat and expect to have a say in rules and boundaries. Negotiations are important to me and so is respect. I bow to no woman who has not earned the privilege to see me at my most vulnerable. If you think you are the woman I am searching for, please send me a private message with your answers to the questions below enclosed and a bit about yourself. I have given my answers so you can see I don't ask for something I am not willing to do myself.

1. What is it about My profile you find interesting?

2. What would your ideal live-in relationship be like?
My ideal live-in relationship would be built on love, trust, and loyalty. I would love to live with a Domme who is also my friend and also girlfriend if she and I enjoy one another that way. I would love to serve my Miss in any way that we agree upon.

3. What can you expect from Me?
You can expect me to be loyal to you and to treat you with respect always. I am a service submissive, so any tasks we agree upon I would do happily. You can also expect paintings and poems given to you randomly,. good morning texts and reminders to eat and drink water via text. Once my heart has chosen to submit to someone, I am theirs fully and wholly.

4. And more importantly, what can I expect from you.

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23 y/o      Pennsylvania

Im fairly new to being submissive because for most of my life I didnt trust others to see the softer obedient side of myself. Ive always been attracted to women who know what they want from life, I think its admirable, I dont want just any Domme or Owner. I want a Domme I can admire for her intelligence and tenacity not just physical beauty, thats too easily attainable. I want a dynamic where we learn from each and communicate well BUT most importantly have F U N ??

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  Florida

I'm a submissive with a strong will but can and willing to obedient to the right woman i come off as strong when you first meet me but when you grow on me or i trust you enough i submit to those i feel are worthy but i am also open to learn and be trained to your liking im located in jacksonville, FL and i hope to hear from you soon

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40 y/o      California

Seeking a dominant female to learn in real time experience with . Currently in Illinois area'

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36 y/o      Utah

It has always been a long time fantasy of mine to give full control of my life to a sexy, powerful woman.

Simply serving a mistress, and being her toy is enough for me. However, being used for your pleasure, watching you have sex, or letting you watch me be used others for your pleasure is a huge plus.

Feminization even more of a plus, in the right situation, I'm willing to go literally as far as you desire. This can start online, and move to more if we click, I'm easy going, responsible, loyal, and always follow directions. Can't wait to hear from you ?

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23 y/o      Montana

Hello!
I'm rather new to this all, but I am looking for a dominant woman. I will do my very best to serve whenever asked, but I am a busy college student, and working 40 hours a week.
Despite that, I'll work very hard to please you!

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43 y/o      Ohio

Looking for a strong woman who can tame the brat in me and enjoy my needy side for them. You would be my first female in all aspects.

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50 y/o      North Carolina

older slave, 47 seeking sadistic Domme to use me. I have never been used by a Domme. i consider myself straight, but am excited by the humiliation aspect of it. Very into cnc and forced use

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  Greece

Hi, would like to talk to ladies (age is not relevant) that can behave roughly to someone like me, online to start with at least)

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  New York, New York

29 y/o looking for a dom or a couple to have fun with and learn with. Excited and eager to please and be punished. Open to suggestions.

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44 y/o      United Kingdom

I am a young and shy lesbian sub, I am looking for a sexy Dominant woman to own me and teach me everything they know. I am mostly submissive, but have a naughty streak.

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63 y/o      Newark, Delaware

From time-to-time I need a session - preferably from a bi-woman - for a good spanking, and more.

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  Minneapolis, Minnesota

I’m 26 and looking for a mistress I can please and be 100% loyal to day in and day out. Will do whatever you say when you say it

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29 y/o      Derby, England

Im a sweet submissive from the UK with a bratty side at times. I’m bisexual, and polyamorous. Id be interested in being a play thing for any couple, but I’m drawn more towards women in general.

Heavily into being restricted and orgasm control. I love being denied. I need a dom(me) that will take pleasure in making me wait.

I need to have a good connection with someone, but not looking for a relationship or live-in situation. In person is better, but online is also great.

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21 y/o      Kentucky

Hello,
I’m very new to this entire show and would love to find someone that can not only be a good friend but explore the darkest side of myself!! I’m 18 and searching for any kind of connection that may work out for a little while!
I hope you can be patient with me, I’m very outgoing, loud even, and so I need someone who is willing to let me be myself but also be able to take full control in the bedroom. Please! Message me!

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21 y/o      Bogota, Bogota

Hey, I'm a girl, sub, 5'5, brunette and athletic build. I'm looking for an online relationship, if you are interested send me a message, I'd love to see if we are compatible :)

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23 y/o      Ohio

I already have a daddy in a ddlg / bdsm relationship I enjoy being a brat but I want more I want a misstress I don't really wanna be a little with i wanna be used and abused as much as you like i have very few limits and I'd like it you were in ohio at least message me if interested

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21 y/o      India

I am looking for a women domme if willing ping me. I will do anything you want.

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27 y/o      San Jose, California

Looking for a local lesbian dom to finally explore this kink of mine. I’m kind of shy, so it’s been hard for me to go for this.

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27 y/o      Seattle, Washington

I have never had the opportunity to be with a female dom in any form. All the girls I’ve been with seem to need me to always make the first step. I am looking for something potentially long term online. But as of today at 10:50 EPT. I’m so fucking horny for a woman to use me. I’ll probably delete that part but fuckkk

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51 y/o      Washington

Im 49 and i need structure sounds silly but I've had to be in control all the time . Now i want to be somebody's Babygirl . I want affection i want to be needed . I can be a brat some times but im loyal and fun . If u need to know more just ask

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27 y/o      Belleville, New Jersey

About moi:
*I’m a very fun, soft spoken, eager to please, ambitious, classy dame that's always shooting “for the moon”.

* I'm a super feminine girl from the tops of my very red lips all the way down to my candy colored toes. Your very own quintessential Joan Holloway.

*I'm the deliciously scented perfume that lingers on your lapels hours after our first kiss.

*I would never be caught dead in flats or sneakers, my uniform is always a well tailored dress, my skin is always buttery soft, and hair black and waist length.

*I'm a lover of intelligent conversation from everything pop culture to the works of Salman Rushdie. From live concerts to an opera at the Met. Or a quiet evening over drinks in front of a roaring fire.

*I love glamour and dressing impeccably well. All day, every day. I even dress to go to bed. Sleeping beauty, indeed.

*I still love fairy tales. Delicate princesses in beautiful gowns being woo’d by the ultimate masculine archetype. What’s not to swoon over?

* Very selective.

*Very private.

About You:

Highly Intelligent
I’m drawn to a D/s relationship for the intense mental exchange and connection it provides. The brain is truly the biggest sex organ of all. Stimulate and master my mind FIRST and my body will blindly, mindlessly follow.

Strong but Quiet Confidence
There’s a difference between bravado and confidence. Real Doms know who they are and exude a strength and confidence without being cocky or braggarts. If you feel the need to tell me how confident you are, I WILL raise a doubtful brow.

Excellent Self-control
If I’m going to surrender and entrust my body, mind and soul to you; I need to know you have excellent self-control. I’ll be vulnerable to you in every way so the physical vulnerability (and risk) is obvious, but so is my heart. I am sharing my deepest thoughts and desires and allowing you to explore and expand my limits. You MUST be able to control yourself.

Value Beauty
I happily drown in my femininity and practice glamour every minute of every day. It makes me so very happy and gives me peace. You must be ok with a girl who loves her makeup and to take her time looking beautiful for you and fussing over her hair and stockings. Vain? Perhaps. But it’s worth the wait.

Highly Creative
It’s one of the greatest pleasures for me when I never really knows what to expect – in the bedroom or out – which leaves me feeling on the alert and full anticipation for what may/may not happen. Yum.

Fit in Body, too
I believe a real Dom will take care of their bodies and are in good shape. Our time together may take more than mental and emotional endurance to move through it, it demands a strong body. I’m in the gym 6 days a week - it’s only fair.

Maturity
Self explanatory. I shouldn’t have to teach you how to be a man.

Bonus points - if you have that deep, sexy baritone *swoon*

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  United States

Ok so... I'm new at this. Not just new to bdsm though... I'm 25 and I was a 'virgin' until about 6 months ago. I've had my fair share of trauma in my life and spent all of my teens and 20s avoiding getting close to anyone. The event 6 months ago wasn't exactly consensual, either, and I'm struggling with PTSD. And yet... I have this dark part of me that I can't keep ignoring. Deep down I'm a needy little masochist. I want to be controlled, bound, cut, and bruised. I've played around with some of these things on my own but that's not enough. I want to belong to someone. I want to be someones fuck puppy and get praised for being good. I'm scared shitless to post something like this, but I'm sick of this void in my life.

I'm a bigger lady, bi, 5'5", black hair, green eyes, G-cups, 0g plugs, and several tats, who listens to noise punk and loves video games. It'll probably take a while of getting to know you to divulge anything more, so I'm sorry in advance.

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24 y/o      Katy, Texas

Hello, my name is Manuella.

I'm 21 and looking to start a sexual, preferably irl relationship with a woman my age and or above. I am new to dating women and would love my Domme to be patient and kind. Someone understanding and willing to allow me the space to explore and make mistakes (of course I don't expect to not be punished appropriately).

Given the current situation, I would appreciate it if my Domme allows some time for us to take time and familiarise with each other before making any decisions regarding a possible relationship. I am also very new to dating women like I said, and I've never had a dom(me)/sub relationship of any sort so I imagine this will require more baby steps.

I am otherwise very eager to engage with another woman on this level. I have been with men before and I'm open to couples as long as both partners agree.

Thank you for taking the time to read this. Please let me know if you're interested or have questions and would like to talk more.

Take care,
Manuella.

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  Kokomo, Indiana

i'm a male/female post-op eunuch searching for someone to serve! i have a vagina, but no vaginal canal. so i'm in permanate chasity! so i really don't know were i fit in the bd/sm spectrum! i'm a masochist so looking for a sadistic dominate Mistress!

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21 y/o      Frisco, Texas

Searching for a local dominate man, age 18-27. I don’t have a little age but I do enjoy the relationship of DD/lg as well. Ideally, this person will be the one I will end up with and will be responsible, caring, hardworking (like myself), and honest. I’m 19 years old and although I’m young, I know what I want which is not casual hookups or exchanging nudes.

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  Jamaica

I'm new to this and would like to start off as friends and build on that into something more if possible. I'm an open mind 34 years old female.

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  Louisiana

25 years old. White. Nonbinary (assigned female at birth). Seeking a domme that affirming of my gender experience. Online and phone only for now. Open to most things. Would love to talk more.

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33 y/o      Pascagoula, Mississippi

Looking for experienced Domme female mentor/instructor to guide my BossDaddy, so that he can grow and be a good Dom. We are both new to the life style and egar to learn what we can.

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21 y/o      Mansfield, Texas

Hi I’m Lexi and I’m 18 from Dallas, Texas. I am a little who needs to be trained. My kinks are in my bio and I would love to discuss with you more. Please don’t be discourage about my age, I have plenty of experience. I am a African American BBW (plus size) by the way! I am a little shy so please hit me up

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28 y/o      Canada

Hello .. My Name is Smurfette, I am a 25 year old submissive/little from Canada. I have both a submissive and little side so I would love to meet someone that is comfortable with both. I Am into all sorts of things when in my submissive headspace. I like it rough but enjoyable. When I’m in little space I love the sweet side of things.

I am not really good at talking on these ads so I guess this might be for nothing. Anyways

Cheers

Smurfette

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32 y/o      Madison, Alabama

Hiii there :) I'm a submissive woman looking for a woman to get to know and serve. Local would be great but I don't mind online! I'd like someone who I can click with on a personal and a kink level

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  Missouri

I'm looking for a lesbian dominate. I'm a lesbian sub a not completely new to the community, but am a beginner.

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56 y/o      Poughkeepsie, New York

Hello I'm a timid shy female sub seeking a firm but sensual domme to help me work on overcoming some things in life. I have a fear of men but need to get used to them

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  Queensland

Hello I am a 20 year old female from Australia looking for a dominant to show me the ropes in the bdsm community.

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31 y/o      Quantico, Virginia

i’m looking for a dominant woman who is willing to help me explore this side of me! it would originally be online but could possibly grow into meeting in person

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  California

I’m pretty sweet and obedient with brat tendencies ? I want someone who will care for me and guide me pls

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24 y/o      Ponchatoula, Louisiana

I've been curious about the lifestyle for quite some time but never quite took the leap to actually seek out a domme or something of that sort. I know a bit about the lifestyle as well as what I want and crave. I'm open to a lot of different things but above all I'd like to form a connection! Feel free to message me!

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22 y/o      Toledo, Ohio

Hi! I am looking for a dominant woman in the toledo area to give me more experience with women and bdsm in a dom/sub relationship:)

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  United States

i’m new to all of this but i’m naturally a submissive. i’m willing to please for my mistress. looking for something online only. i’m into anything you’d like me to do, let’s play

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  Chicago, Illinois

Hi i am looking for a Dom or domme to train me and make me their sub

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