I am looking for a dominant woman to lead the domme/sub lifestyle 24/7. I prefer experienced dommes and am looking for something genuine and long term. I would be most comfortable with this relationship to begin online and progress to meeting in person only after we feel completely comfortable with each other. I don't send nude pictures.
My ideal domme would be a woman looking to take control all of the time and allow me to serve her needs physically and emotionally. I have experience with male and female dommes. I have never experienced being a domme myself.
I can be sweet and am a good listener and live to please, however I can also be quite bratty and have been described as 'a fun and challenging sub to handle'. I often enjoy punishment more than I enjoy being pleasured. I am open to serving as a sub or as a slave, however I do ask that my hard limits are always respected.
I've been skirting around the edges for a long time, I think. I know what I want, but I've been pressed to put it into words.
I know myself very well. While I may be a sub, you can expect me to be clear on what I want and what I expect from any Domme who takes the time to get to know me. I won't waste my time on people who aren't articulate. I know that sounds bratty, but I hate having my time wasted.
I want to be submissive. I hate making all the choices all the time. It's easier for me to just heed direction. That being said, I don't want someone who's just going to order me around. Everything is a balance. Please don't waste my time if you're just looking for someone to talk dirty with, either. I want rules and care and love and attention. I want something more than sex. I want connection. That's my goal.
Eventually, I love the idea of being involved in something 24/7. But that takes trust, and trust takes time.
For now, I'm just looking for people to talk to. I'd love to voice-chat or type back and forth! Friends first is the best way to go about anything. Please don't be afraid to talk to me. I love getting to know people.
That being said, I don't play with men. Lesbian. I'm cis female, 24. Generally looking for people within 10yrs of my own age. :>
I am a highly intelligent single submissive who is seeking her highly experienced and very serious Domme or Mistress to train and mold into a desirable submissive that they are extremely proud of. This style relationship takes time and attention and if not up to the challenge or dedication, don't waste my time. I am very dedicated and expect the same.
I'm a bratty submissive middle looking for a Domme to train and own me. I am fairly new to the lifestyle and can be a bit mouthy at times. I'm learning how to shut up and obey. I'm a light masochist. I'm a handful and I definitely have been deemed a challenge. I do test my limits so the further you let me go , the further I will. I've met people who I could tell wasn't going to put up with the BS so I cut it out. Otherwise I will end up doing the dominating and I don't like it lol it's not my place. Anyway, I'm looking for someone I can eventually meet with 25 and up.
I've been doing this thing for I dunno how long but I haven't had not one bit of luck. I'm in search of my dom, female dom to be exact. My profile pretty much says all that there is to know but I am always willing to dish out a bit more about myself. Just, for the longest, I've been craving the feel and control of another woman. Men, being who and how they are most of the time just because I'm new, have not had any positive affect on me besides good friends. I hope that I can patiently speak to someone, hopefully of the same gender, that would be willing to give "this" a shot.
I'm new to this website but I've been into BDSM as a Sub/Little/Brat for a few years but never have been in a Dom/Sub relationship.
I'm looking for an LTR and I'm willing to learn and grow with guidance and understanding. I'm looking for a firm Dom whose open to me exploring boundaries and being supportive, yet not afraid to correct me when I've done something wrong. I am naturally submissive but I do like pushing peoples buttons so be warned. That being said, I would like to think I'm very nice and caring and will be there for you if you ever need someone to talk to or lean on. I don't want just a sexual relationship, romantic & emotional is what I love.
The relationship MUST be Monogamous due to me having a lot of damaging trust issues. Plus...I don't like sharing >.<
Since I am currently in College, unless you live near me, you must be okay with an online relationship, at least for awhile.
I am currently only looking for dominant woman, sorry. So if you're interested, check out my Profile to learn more about me and if you're still interested after that, feel free to message me!
I'm a chastity slavegirl looking for an online Domme. Possibility to meet up in person at some point, depending on location and circumstances.
I'm interested in being controlled 24/7, from being told what to wear and when to orgasm, to receiving daily instructions and having to ask permission before doing certain tasks throughout the day. I want a Domme who will invade my life and thoughts and remind me of Her control at random.
See profile for more interests and limits.
My husband is also submissive and may be interested in playing, but his involvement is not required.
Hi! I’m a little girl looking for a mommy. I’m a poly romantic woman and I would love to meet someone who can handle me. I have ADHD and I’m constantly wired. I’m also in Ohio so EST is preferred. I would like to have a platonic relationship with the person of choice for awhile before starting anything!
Ddlg couple seeking lady friend with benefits
My daddy and I are looking for a woman to become friends with and then if it happens and all are agreeable with it then for me to be able to play with her with daddy watching. He will not touch her...just watch and maybe play with me at the same time! I would rather get to know you before anything though! We could go out as a group and chat and everything...if anyone is interested please add and message me!
Hello. I am looking for a Mistress for myself (or a switch). I am a new sub that would like to have a Mistress control me and teach me. Preferably one that would let my husband watch and possibly join in the fun as well. I am into choking, spanking, edging, bondage, breast and nipple play, public play, use of toys, other kinks that can be discussed upon...limits can also be discussed. Looking for something casual but could also be a regular thing if you are the right person. We are both in our mid 20s would prefer someone reasonably close to same age. Any questions please let me know. If you are in the central Ohio area (or visit often) please control me. Punish me when I'm a naughty girl. Teach me how to better serve my Mistress and my husband.
Has alot of knowledge of BDSM but looking to be trained by a femme mistress. Online first will into do whatever u say. Likes to be a brat and needs spanks and more no limits for except skat and water play. If u talk to me for a while and meet me in person you might get a surprise. I need a strict but loving mistress that can be a mommy from time to time.
I NEED TO BE PUT IN MY PLACE ❤️?
Searching for a dominant female who knows what she is doing. I am relatively new to this and would like to be able to talk first and possibly meet if it goes that direction. I tend be attracted to the the more tomboy/butch type or someone who hold themself with dignity. I don't find cocky arragonce attractive. I am not into the idea of being anyones brat or slut.
It's Not Just About Play or Sexual Frisson For Me, It Shouldn't Be For You Either...
Hi I'm a UK based submissive, looking for a Dom or Domme - it's not about gender, or age (though I do prefer 40s or older), or any other notional BS, it's about connection / trust. I'm in my mid-thirties, and quite overweight at the moment (I'm working on this). I can be needy, and am always available on messenger services etc... I'm very intelligent - I'm not the type to respond to degrading names in a first message here. For 10 years, I belonged to a Master, 24/7 TPE for a significant part of that. That relationship went south, and I married a wonderful vanilla man. He is not into the things I now realise that I need. I want to be discreet, but equally, I struggle to see how I can get away from this yearning. The thing I enjoy most is serving and doing as I'm told: I don't see this as play, it's much deeper than that for me. If it was just sexual stuff / play, I'd be able to live without it. I'm finding I cannot. Other activities that suit me most are humiliation... (tho I'm the kinda woman who is more humiliated by having to say positive things about myself, than by the pig / slut / cumbucket type stuff)... I love being flogged... I'm not hugely fond of orgasming as I find it kinda embarrassing unless I'm on my own haha, so humiliation around that is good - as is orgasm denial. Being 'talked at' is a bit of a kink for me - I'm used to being able to talk / get my own way, so being forced into a submissive position just thro someone's speaking to me is hugely powerful. I'd like to start off chatting online for a while, before sharing a photo - if you're the kind who is desperate for a photo, I'm probably not going to be for you. I believe appearances mean ZERO in BDSM relationship. That's just my opinion. Eventually, I'd like to progress to phone call / video chat. I don't rule out in person, but given my marital circumstances, it's not likely at this stage. Look forward to hearing from you!
Hi. Im 36 and love being the sexual being that i am.
Im new to this lifestyle and I have not actually chose a role yet but I've been submissive before with boyfriends and so I figure I'd just start with that. I want to explore the world of bdsm and search for what I am. I'd like a Mistress that's gonna be good at training a hard headed sub with a mouth of a sailor because that's what I am. I want to experience it all. Want to eventually have a sub of my own one day so I need a really great mistress. I look forward to get this.
After having male doms in the past I am actively looking for a female dominant to belong to. I am a university student looking for an online relationship. My likes and such can definitely be discussed. Feel free to shoot me a message.
I am a female submissive looking for a Domme for long term D/s. I am married and my husband is aware and ok with my having a Domme. We do have a 1950s household and he is the Dom in our home. I am looking for a Domme who wants to play, offer guidance, tasks and discipline when needed to keep me focused. I do want in person eventually even if it starts online so please be local.
I’m a 32 year old bicurious. I am looking for someone who can teach and be patient with me since I am new. I am in a relationship but they are not willing to try this lifestyle and it’s something I’m craving. I want to start online first since I am learning. I also would love a dom who would not just stop talking to me with no notice.
I am 35 shy and kinda new to this. I am looking for someone who just isn't going to stop talking to me with no notice. I am pretty laid back. Looking for online to start possible live I or near each other later down the line. I'm in school and work a full time job so I need a patient Domme that can be flexible with this.
I’m a bi female who is for now a Pillow Princess want to explore kinky side but not sure if I am a sub or dim. Can do online or in person if local. Looking for a female only! Clean and disease free. As I mentioned new to this but would love to learn. Please message me...
I am interested in finding a strict Domme who can handle my bratty ass. I love being spanked and forced to eat pussy. I love facesitting and being dominated. Online only for now but maybe in real life one day. Limits are nothing illegal, no scat, no bestiality, and a few others.
I’ve recently started experimenting with this and the one who exposed me to bdsm just left me and so i’m a bit of an emotional human right now ?I am a sub/little and I would love to be cared for by a female dom ?
I can only do online relationships for right now and i’d like to keep it private.
As a sub/little, i do have a lot of issues, i need you to be able to check up on me and make sure i’m okay and that my mental health is okay and healthy and in the right headspace.
I am okay with most things but you will have to have patience because I am self-conscious and shy, but i do love being bossed around and told what to do.
Hi! I'm looking for a dom, either female or male, preferably 35 or under, and I can't connect with people older than that. I love the feeling of being dominated and punished, but I never really could find the right person for me, I guess. Looking for online, no IRL. Could be willing to fulfill daily tasks, wear a collar, etc.
Not comfortable sending nudes or being on cam unless you are too...
I'm french so please forgive my english mistakes <3
Young submissive new to this experience looking for Dom to show me the way
I am a young, female student who has always been interested in this lifestyle, but my experience has not been positive in real life so I am hoping to find like-minded individuals.
I am eager, willing to learn and please, and would be looking to develop an online situation with someone - if it was the right person then who knows...
If you'd like to speak more, come and message me.
I'm new to the BDSM scene, though I've been interested in it for years. I'm a young (20yo) woman mostly interested in women who can not just take charge but show me how to bring them the greatest pleasure. I'm studying in Spain for the semester, and so am looking for online experiences, at least at first.
If you can be kind but firm, I will obey your every whim. Message me for more info!
I'm a very assertive woman who is seeking someone who is confident and competent sexually. I'm not interested in threesomes with your boyfriend or husband. The possibility of a LTR is there, but I'm looking to have fun initially. I don't want to be your slave, just your lover who turns you on so much that you can't wait to tell me everything that you're going to do to me!
As said I'm 24, I was recently a salary chef; career change to office. Looking for someone I can trust, explore with. I am bi and have already been with women. Nothing serious but I try to avoid one night stands.
I am a 22 year old chubby switch female. I am seeking a dom female. I'm looking for strictly online as I have a full time job and full time school. I like to be controlled but do have my limits. I'm searching for someone willing to train and be okay with bringing my husband in on some of the action. I need some who is okay with my body type and boundaries. I like to be a brat at time but in the end I can be a good girl.
I'm a submissive rope bunny and slave looking for a mistress who will hurt me and discipline me. I'm into rope play, whipping, belting, orgasm control, oral, anal, vibrators and massagers, humiliation, and willing to play with breath control, although I have never tried.
I'm looking to be Dominated by a local woman or someone who is willing to meet me somewhere. I'm sometimes in charge at work and lately it's been more than usual. I need someone else to be in control and command me. Check out my profile for what I'm into. No men please and no couples.
I'm dominant in the streets, submissive in the sheets. I'm looking for a dominant woman to use me, play with me, torture me, hurt me, dominate me, & enjoy me.
I enjoy intelligent, dominant women that can dominate me, take the reigns from me and then whip me with them for both of our enjoyment.
I enjoy bondage, tit play & torture. I have big gorgeous tits that can take a lot of torture. I love harnessing my tits so they're bulbous and obscenely obtrusive, for your viewing pleasure and so they are easy to grab should you so choose and because it’s humiliating to just be a little tit whore for your liking. They should be out and at attention for you. I enjoy working my nipples with nipple bulbs and extenders so that I get them big and hard for you to enjoy and play with whenever you feel you need a tit or a nipple to enjoy. My nipples are little sluts wanting to whore themselves out to you for your enjoyment, objectification, humiliation, & pleasure. At this moment, I have my nipples pinched with paper clips as I'm at work and didn't have anything else. I felt they should be properly tortured while I write my bio looking for you.
I enjoy pain, pleasure, whips... bend me over your lap, with my bare ass in the air while you spank me over and over, tits dangling, clamped with with cloverleafs and weights, pussy dripping wet. Use me. Put my face in the floor and my ass in the air while you enjoy and work that little whore asshole to where you want it. Make me wag like a little dog for you. I’ll be your pet.
I enjoy humiliation and objectification, being used like a whore.
I enjoy ass play and have a butt plug with a tail that I enjoy wearing around and wagging my ass so I can shake my tail for you. I want be your pet, begging for your touch, slaps, & torture.
I enjoy orgasm denial and punishment when I allow my body to get away from me & cum before I’m allowed.
I don’t necessarily have any limits as it all depends on the human/s & the moment. I’m open to many things though. But not men.
I want to be used and abused and told what to do but I won't take abuse. There is a difference. And only women.
Open to long distance, online play as well as meeting in person should that be something we both want.
Feminine Sub Looking for Mistress (Online/Long Distance)
I am looking for a Mistress to control me via Kik and possibly Skype. Photos and videos are obviously at your request.
I love tasks and punishments. My biggest fetishes are humiliation and pushing my limits (ex. I've always fantasized about a dom making me get my nipples pierced, drawing words on myself with sharpie, etc.) I'm open to most things with the exception of blood, watersports/scat, and sexual relations with an outside party. But I'm very open minded - I actually prefer assplay.
I also have a lot of gear for puppy play. My favorite Kink.com series is Public Disgrace, if that says anything about me haha.
I'm currently unemployed so I could be at your beck and call. However, if you require any specific gear for me to use I would need assistance as money is tight right now.
Looking for a strict but fair dominatrix to obey (online relationship)
I want to be ordered and guided and punished if I disappoint. I want to worship and obey and be praised for being a good little girl. I am new to the scene but I am willing to work and learn to please my dom.
I can be playful, sexy and obedient. I can also be bratty, lazy and I deserve to be punished for when I don't work on it.
And most importantly I can be what you want me to be. Message me if you want a kitty to order around, a good girl to praise and a naughty girl to teach manners to in any way you like.
Newbie Sub/Little/Brat looking for a nurturing, but commanding Domme
Hi I'm Sweet Tea!
I'm very new to the Dom/me Sub scene so I'm looking for a Domme that will be patient enough to train and teach me. I do prefer irl interactions so if you're around QLD, Australia don't hesitate to message me.
My age limit is 18-24 though if you're a bit older we can see how it will go.
I'm a curvy girl whose quite shy, but VERY sexual. I love to be tied up and have my free will taken from me in the bedroom, toys, breath play and spanking are a huge plus. I can be bratty at times and like to see what buttons I can push and what punishment I can get out of it. I'm quite cute and girly and love the idea of a nurturing and loving relationship though I love a stern hand. I can be flexible though and also suit my Dommes preferences.
Limits: knife/blood play, urine, faeces, humiliation, exhibitionism though there may be more as I'm still exploring what I do and don't like.
If I tickle your interest please don't hesitate to send me a message!!! ♡