He doesn't want me to say "Sir"

My answer absolutely does not apply to all Doms. Though I do not actually personally know any that would refuse the title Sir. I do know a few that would insist that it not be used until and unless yo ...

Fri Oct 08, 2021 5:52 am • 24 Replies • 6990 Views

Im a new Dom, with an more experienced sub.

------------It’s always funny when an American corrects spelling. I think you’ll find that the actual spelling of the word, prior to the inception of your greet nation is ‘patronise’.


(What is a ...

Tue Aug 31, 2021 5:56 am • 24 Replies • 8344 Views

Im a new Dom, with an more experienced sub.

I'm not sorry for my opinion. The only thing I'm sorry for is that I'm not giving it to the submissive in this instance instead of the Dominant.

I was her. I entered into a dynamic with someone tha ...

Sun Aug 29, 2021 9:34 am • 24 Replies • 8344 Views

The insta-dom approach?

That's actually pretty par for the course on what they say. That and variations of it, unfortunately.

Tue Feb 16, 2021 6:00 am • 28 Replies • 6943 Views

Weaponizing the tools The Cage gives us to protect ourselves

Oooh I like the name

Sun Jan 17, 2021 7:23 pm • 17 Replies • 3785 Views

Weaponizing the tools The Cage gives us to protect ourselves

Remember that the playground has all sorts of different kids with all sorts of different reasons for playing on the playground. Some like the monkey bars, some like the slippery dip, some like to just ...

Sun Jan 17, 2021 7:15 pm • 17 Replies • 3785 Views

I went to a therapist and got confused

I agree with many previously said words. Whether she is certified or not, she shouldn't be. A good therapist is not so closeminded as BDSM is perfectly valid, especially in the field of mental health ...

Thu Oct 08, 2020 4:20 pm • 18 Replies • 4148 Views

In one sentence, describe what your submission or Dominance is.

Surrendering total control and giving complete trust; then having faith that it was well placed.

Wed Sep 30, 2020 6:05 pm • 61 Replies • 14150 Views

Favorite Ice Cream Flavor and please don't say vanilla ;)

Hot Chocolate or Banana Pecan

Fri Sep 25, 2020 4:10 pm • 143 Replies • 26741 Views

Plus-Size Sub

you should embrace your curves, your figure and know your dom will support and lift you up. you shouldn't feel ashamed , vulnerable maybe, but rest assured a dom will never put you in a place of weak ...

Fri Sep 25, 2020 4:07 pm • 38 Replies • 12289 Views