minimalist bondage

I love this mindset. Doing more with less, you don't need to spend a lot of money to be effective in this sort of play/session. Part of the fun is using your mind and creativity to operate with what y ...

Thu Nov 24, 2022 2:47 pm • 18 Replies • 1495 Views

Are your fantasies holding you back?

This is where porn I find can be dangerous particular for new less experienced people in the lifestyle. People get this idea in there head this is exactly how scenes are suppose to go. Jumping straigh ...

Sat Oct 22, 2022 1:03 pm • 12 Replies • 1311 Views

How did you figure out the D/s lifestyle is what you wanted/needed?

That's a good question. Everyone will have their own experience. Most I hear people experience it though past partners. For me I stumbled onto BDSM themed porn in my mid teens. It lit a flame that mad ...

Sat Oct 22, 2022 12:57 pm • 11 Replies • 1093 Views

Is it Ghosting when ....

I don't think there is anything wrong with not responding to someone when you have no pre-existing exchange or rapport. Sometimes it's best not to open the door and miscommunicated interest. It is gho ...

Wed Oct 19, 2022 9:02 pm • 34 Replies • 3480 Views